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Amber, now this is a happy post, and a pleasure to read.
I hope that you will post a picture of you fab MOTB ensemble, it' easy to blur your face.
I've read Dan's blog, wise words, your husband is someone I'd love to know better.
As a non U S citizen I will remind people that whoever is elected to be Nš44 will be one of the most important and powerful leaders in the world, that is an awesome responsibility. 
I think that most submissive women feel that way, not grown up is a nice way to put it, you are a remarkable woman as was my Mel, in the presence of your Dom it's perfectly OK to relax and lean on him a little. 
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.
Ok, I'm so glad you finally found a dress. The pressure of finding the perfect dress can be daunting. I can't believe it's only 2 weeks until the wedding! How exciting! Oh and the crying? I can relate! I've been crying all month about my baby graduating! I can't imagine what will happen when she marries! I may have to invest in kleenex!
Isn't the Wii FUN? I am unbeatable in bowling and my kids refuse to play be because I've made it to pro! We've decided that this weekend we are having family bowling night complete with bowling alley food. The boxing is fun, but we haven't gotten the second numchuck yet so we can't box each other.
I LOVE that Dan dommed you! Outwardly, lots of people would criticize that type of thing, but I believe that inwardly most people WISH they could have that in their life.
Maybe that is the key to a happier world? People just need to be true to themselves.
HUGS!
grace
Yea for the dress!! I remember a former co-worker having so much trouble finding a dress and shoes for her son's wedding. It always seems like such an ordeal for every MOB.
I feel bad for J and his wife, that their marriage has taken that path. What makes it worse (for any couple that it happens to) is when one of them - usually the woman? - doesn't even seem interested in fixing what's wrong. This is one of many reasons why I'm glad that Master and I aren't having kids. I know it's amazing to have kids, but I also know that it changes everything. I know I'm not really in a position to judge J or his wife since I haven't walked in their shoes or even come close to it, but I've still never understood how people let their marriage deteriorate because of their kids.
And you would've been so brave to tell J about you and Dan! It certainly would've been interesting to see what his reaction and thoughts would've been!
The story about your friend and his wife is sad indeed. Even sadder that apparently it happens often - and even Suzy seems to be afraid that such a thing might happen to her (do i read that right?)
Maybe we shouldn't forget the unfortunate fact that living with strong emotions and attachment, like Amber and Dan enjoy so much, does take a lot of strength and courage, and thus, unfortunately, ... well, let's just say I believe that Dan and Amber have more-than-average of that, so it may be more difficult for most people.
Still, one can't help hoping that it's a good way of living, and not out of reach, for many/most people.
YAY!
For everything.
Just, YAY!
I'm so jealous I could cry. *sob* ... sung to the tune of 'I'm so Lonesome I could Cry'
When I push a little too far in public, Allan either says nothing or is really nasty. The urge to kick him in the rear is nearly overwhelming sometimes. aarrrrgghhhh!!!
I'm so happy that you've found your outfit for the wedding. Now will you relax already? *g*
Jocelyn, I like your question whether she will relax now And if you feel like kicking him in the rear... well... it might be a very clear way to express your displeasure - perhaps it will get a conversation started more easily.
or perhaps less easily. i don't know.
A dress and jacket - I KNEW IT!! That sounds perfect. Hooray!!
And stop with the "whore red" stuff already ya little #*&$!! I WORE RED at my wedding!! hahahhaah
And here's the geek wii lecture: the wii is the game system, not the actual games. I'm assuming you played the games that come with the basic package - four or five sports. Aren't they a blast! We have Boogie and I love it - also can't wait to get Wii Fit next week! And bear in mind I could be wrong about ALL this because I'm no geek...just in a lecture-y mood I guess 
Too bad about J and his wife and child. Maybe they'll figure it out. Dan was just DYING for you to spill the beans, I'm sure!! But J probably figured it out...or will.
My teacher in a paralegal class last night told me my husband was afraid of me. (I have NO recollection of how we could have all gotten on this subject!) And I said "Oh NO he's not! If there's anything he is, it is NOT afraid of me! Any man that's afraid of his woman is spineless!" Been there, done that. It's a vicious cycle. I decided that my teacher is probably afraid of ME and that's why he said it. I don't hesitate to speak my mind, even when it's in disagreement with him. And he's probably afraid of his wife, too......
my brother in law (Sam's brother) won a Wii in a raffle (he spent a whopping $2) WOO HOO
he's brought it over here a couple times - he and Sam had great fun boxing - of course Sam was dripping with sweat... his brother is 24 - 24 year olds don't sweat haaaa
I keep (jokingly) trying to get him to buy one with our economic stimulus money - ya know instead of paying off our medical bills or putting it toward his student loans or whatever other PRACTICAL crap we can think of
but he's not going for it
he says he can't bring himself to spend that kind of money on a video game system haaaa - then he said he'd rather get a digital camcorder
probably to make home pornos - the fucking pervert!!
anyway - I'm SO glad you FINALLY found something to wear to the wedding that doesn't make you look like a whore haaaa
as for being dommed in public - I find it totally hot - even though it hardly ever happens haaaa
I'm not as bashful about it as you are though - I would have no problem telling someone if they asked - I AM an attention whore ya know? hehehe
well about some things anyway... somehow I'm also very self conscious at the same time haaaa
one couple we hang out with, the wife is always telling me how she told the husband from the very beginning she didn't want to be the one to wear the pants in the family (I think that was her first mistake) she bitches all the time about how she has to control everything - I told her if she didn't want to wear the pants she never should have put them on!!
she doesn't want to be the one in control - but she doesn't feel comfortable relinquishing any of the control - she claims if she did, he wouldn't take care of things
he did alright before she came along so we know he knows how to take care of things
I don't know - it's very frustrating to watch
one night they were over here and the guys were outside doing guy stuff and we were inside chit chatting while I cooked dinner - when dinner was ready I called them in, in a calm 'first call' kind of tone
she said she would have bellowed at them to get their asses inside... and they still would have to be called 5 times
she was shocked that they came in after my one call
I tried to tell her you catch more flies with honey - she doesn't get it - she always has this angry tone like his very existence bothers her
our husband's happen to have the same exact name so I'll call him Sam too - one night we were at their house having dinner and she said 'Sam would you get me the... whatever' and my Sam said 'do you mean me or him?' I said 'she obviously meant you honey, she didn't sound angry'
everyone laughed - haaaa
he tries to kiss her and she pulls away - I wonder what she thinks when Sam and I kiss or snuggle or touch eachother - which we do ALL the time
if we're all watching a movie, they sit on one couch and we sit on the other... their bodies form a V with their heads in opposite corners... Sam and I are laying all over eachother or I'm sitting on the floor between his legs, rubbing his feet and he has his hands on my shoulders
I don't get what's going on with them or why they're even together haaaa
anyway your friend J reminded me of them - I hope his marriage isn't as hopeless as their's seems
OH and I know how you feel with the crying - last year when my sister came for a visit I started crying in anticipation of them going home, before they even got here!!
every time I looked at my niece I got choked up - and on the day that they actually had to leave I was HYSTERICAL!!
my poor little niece was all like - why you crying? and I was crying so hard I could barely speak
haaaa
they're coming again in a few weeks and I can tell it's gonna be a repeat of last year
I think the Mother of The Bride dress is so difficult because you have to walk such a fine line.
You want it to look youthful, yet dignified. Fashionable, yet not over-the-top. Modest, yet not fuddy-duddy.
It's enough to make you want to cry!
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