Watch your fuckin' language in here!
To us a line from your top post:
"You Don't Know What You Got Till It's Gone."
That's sooo your soon to be X.
Like Acoustic, I’m still rooting for you and always will, Anna. 
Wow, oh wow. I had a lot of catching up to do over here. And all I can say is wow....
Doc Pot, you are soooo smart.
What's the difference between a porcupine and an ambulance chasing
BMW carrying three lawyers?
-- A porcupine has the pricks on the outside.
How many lawyers does it take to change a light bulb?
-- Fifty-Four -- Eight to argue, one to get a continuance, one to
object, one to demur, two to research precedents, one to dictate a
letter, one to stipulate, five to turn in their time cards, one to
depose, one to write interrogatories, two to settle, one to order a
secretary to change the bulb, and twenty eight to bill for
professional services.
What do lawyers use for birth control?
-- Their personalities.
How do you get a lawyer out of a tree?
-- Cut the rope.
What's the difference between a lawyer and a prostitute?
-- Prositutes stop screwing you after you die.
What's the difference between a lawyer and a sperm?
-- The sperm has a chance in a million of becoming human.
What do you call a lawyer who doesn't chase ambulances?
-- Retired.
What's the difference between a stork and an attorney?
-- One can stick its bill up its ass, the other one should.
What's the difference between a lawyer and a boxing referee?
-- A boxing referee doesn't get paid more for a longer fight.
I honestly labor over what I comment about... sometimes for days before I actually leave you a message.
I am your biggest fan and honestly support you 100% as you strive to handle what are the most important things: maintaining sobriety, making sure the kids are well, maintaining a good mental outlook.
Promise me this one thing? (I know I'm not in a position to request favors... but, I'll indulge myself this once...)
Please, please, please be careful transitioning from one relationship to the next. I know that it can be comforting - but at the same time, I (as a guy) trust other guys in this situation as far as I can throw Mt. Rushmore.
It takes a super guy to be able to walk into a chaotic situation like this and offer unconditional love and care for you in this situation and also have a heart big enough to potentially care for your children in the future as well.
Be patient. See how consistent he is over time. (I'm sure if you look back over your marriage you're not surprised by the actions that LNX is taking now. These tendencies have probably been there since the beginning) He will show you who he is.
Sorry, I don't mean spit and pretend that it's raining on your parade, but I honestly do care about your well being.
Just ask our Jimmy!!! (Yeah mofo's... I'm that far in the inside!!! LOL)
Still rooting for you.
Acoustic.
I'll be that person. It's going to slow down. Hang in there and allow yourself to feel what you need to feel during this process and time in your life.
hmmm....anonymous....the storty is pretty easy to follow. i'm miserable and beginning to walk toward happy. i'm not fucking up my life over any man. I'm rebuilding my life all on my own. and he isn't new to my life nor he is mr. wonderful.
why do people leave snarky comments anonymously.
Kim, it's Ri's bio dad.
everyone else, you are all correct in your comments. and i love you all.
whose the new dude?
and whose jimmy with his syrupy sweet comment?
inquiring minds.
It's a reaction to the fact that "it's over". He's going through withdrawl, in his own way, and reacting in such a way that he figures you'll reconsider.
Guys do it in different ways, as do women. I had an affair with a married woman, and when hubby found out about it, he started crying and told her that he would change and vowed to make things better. I never found out whether he did or they did, but suffice it to say it's over between us and he "won".
I'm guessing they wound up in divorce court in spite of his histrionics and I'm still here.
Throw eggs at him? LOL! Rocks, hon...ROCKS! Ok, that was mean. I sure hope things get a helluva lot better soon. I dont understand why all of a sudden he is being nice. Maybe the fact that you are showing him that you are serious is finally waking him up. It WILL get better!
breathe girl
hmmmm...I am confused about the situation.....dont forget to breathe....and no guy is worth fucking up your life....including your new mr. wonderful
All the dramaz will simmer down. They will. Just keep your eyes on the prize... your sobriety and your life moving forward.
You're doing the right thing. He has realized - far too late - what a good thing he had, and he foolishly thinks he can fix it.
He can't.
Don't give in.
Drop him like he's hot! ....Oh...you're already doing that...
dr Potamus
It's great that you're getting a new place. It's a good way to leave the past behind. I'm in my 2nd place after the separation and it's keeps getting better and better. You will get through this my friend.
Good for you for holding your ground. Many people are like that. They wait till after the last friggin' minute to do something which usually tells you it's not that important and it won't last.
Love, maybe this is what you need. Maybe this will be good for you. Especially since it "FEELS RIGHT." A lot of people take their instinctive feelings for granted, when you shouldn't.
This could definitely play a huge part in your healing and letting go of the past. You're married to the past. It's time to let it go and move beyond that.
Call me - we need to get together soon.
I love you, and I'm here. &=)
Best of luck with the new house Anna. Keep your head held high and know that what you're doing IS the right thing for you and your kids, even if it feels as though things may be changing at a rapid pace. For once, you deserve to be in charge of your life.
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