I am a 41 years old single woman who spent her fertile years waiting for mr. Right, but he did not came along.
I was dating this guy for the past 5 years with whom In the past year we tried to conceived a baby without sucess. Six month ago, he had the cortesy to inform me that he doesn't want to get marry or have children.
Right now I find my self alone With an unstable economical situation since I work in retail and may loose my job nor that I can afford to pay for any fertility treatment.
I only have faith a miracle can be performed, but some days is very hard to believe.
I am a 41 years old single woman who spent her fertile years waiting for mr. Right, but he did not came along.
I was dating this guy for the past 5 years with whom In the past year we tried to conceived a baby without sucess. Six month ago, he had the cortesy to inform me that he doesn't want to get marry or have children.
Right now I find my self alone With an unstable economical situation since I work in retail and may loose my job nor that I can afford to pay for any fertility treatment.
I only have faith a miracle can be performed, but some days is very hard to believe
I'am 24 years old and just married last year on August 2008..My husband are working offshore which he can only came back home every 2 weeks of working..He'll be having 2 weeks off onshore..
For the time being, I was having irregular menstrual period. Usually it comes at the right moment at the right dates but since i'm married..my cycle is always late for a week,two weeks or even three weeks..
The was one time when i was not having my period for a month and i was happy that i thought i was pregnant but suddenly one morning i was shocked to see that i was having my menstrual period..
Its sad for me to see other family members and friends who are married at the same date as me are having a pregnancy now..and i am not..
In order for me to be strong enough to face my day..i kept on believing my self that it is not the time yet..since sometime i was having period when my husband is onshore..i would like to be pregnant like other people..i may be still young but my husband is not..he really wants a baby..
I have been with my partner for 2 yrs and we've been trying for a baby - i have been to the dr's as they thought i had Poly Cystic Syndrome, i had an ultra sound done and some more tests but it turns out that my ovaries are perfectly fine and i don't have that syndrome - my periods are irregular i am lucky to have them 3 times a yr which makes it extremely hard to ovulate and fall pregnant. Up until 3 yrs ago i was regular with my period, i'm only 33yrs old. I know how all these women feel and disheartened when it turns out we're not pregnant.
Having a baby is the most precious thing that can happen in a woman's life.
Sometimes i question?
There is so many childreen sofering in their mothers hands, when you turn on the TV you hear stories such as baby P, and a lot more horrific stories.
I am going to a very difficult time for the last 2 years, I never tought that wold be so difficult, someties i feel so empty, I am doing my best looking for help with professional doctors, i am not going to give up.
MY advice is, try to live a normal life, do thing that you love, For Sure We Are not Alone.
in 1994 i feel a miracle happened i got pregnant , and without having to try too hard ,i was only 28 at the time , i had a precious little baby boy that was born on march 9th 1995 , the weird thing is i was never able to conceive again after that and i dont know why , i'm with some one now that i've been having sex with since about the year 2000 with absoulutly no birth control and my periods are regular and i know exactly when i'm ovluating and i have done it at all different times of the month , for years with no birth control and nothing has ever happened , im thinking that maybe it was just meant to be for me to have just one and that was it .
I am 21 years old and got married last August, although i am still young my husband (2
and i decided to start a family. For 7 or 8 months nothing had happened and even though we had no rush we were getting worried because since we are both young and i have never been on the pill or anything we wondered what was up. A month ago my husband agreed to have a sperm test which showed his sperm count was very low as a result of supplements he took some yaers ago while bodybuilding. The doctor prescribed him some pills we felt down but hopeful. This month my period was late and i decided to have a pregnancy test which turned out to be positive, in fact i took 2 and both were positive. We are so happy and cant believe it. I just want to encorage all of u trying to not feel down and never ever lose hope.
I was e-mailed to come and read these stories I think someone confused me with someone else. I'm sorry for those of you who are trying to conceive and have not yet. I am actually trying to be a surrogate mother but not yet have found the right couple. Good luck to you ladies who are trying to get pregnant!!
I know how all of you guys feel. I'm 25 and been married for 3 years. We have been trying to have a baby for 3 years and nothing has happened yet. I have done pills for about 4 months and that didn't help then we doubled them and that didn't help. So our next step was to have surgery and see what was going on and he told me that it would help kick start me to ovulate. I did that was about a year and a half ago, and nothing. I have checked on the prices for fertilization treatments but if you guys are like me you can afford it ($10,000) and most insurance are not going to cover it. I have watched 2 sister-in-laws, 1 cousin, and 2 friends have babies, and most of them have 2. And we all got married the same year just months apart. You feel empty inside and wonder what is wrong with you and why is not happing, and all your husband can do is tell you that it will happen when it happens. They don't know what you feel inside when it doesn
’t. My periods have been on the same day since I started. I don't know what is wrong. I tried to not think about it, but it is always there in the back of your head. For anyone that knows anything else let me know.
I am 25 years old and have been with my husband for 9 years. I have never been on the pill and we have never used protection. We have been trying for a child for about 3 years now. We have both been to the doctor and everything is fine. We have tried many different things to get pregnant and nothing has happened. I have been very depressed and we can not afford fertility treatments. If anyone has any good pointers please let me know. Thank you.
My husband and I have only been married for about 7 months now, but we have been ttc for about 2 years. We have both been to the doctor and we are both completely "normal". I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so depressed all the time. And it sucks when I hang out with one of my best friends because she has a son who is 10 months old, and everytime we hang out all I can think about is how much I would LOVE to have a child of my own. We haven't tried any pills or anything yet, mostly because I don't really know if they work or not. But if anyone has any pointers or any ideas please let know! There isn't anything we won't try!
Hi I am 32 and married just about 2 - 1/2yrs my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 2 yrs its very hard because fertility has not worked for me and I am just praying for a miracle who will be named Fayth! So I am trying to hang in their for my Fayth!
I can understand what u guys r going through because i just had a miscarriage 2 months ago and we really wanted this baby and so did my husband and now we r trying to have another one i have taking 3 test but they all came back negative but we r not going to give up we r going to keep trying.I always wonder how long after u have a miscarriage should u try again?If anyone have an answer to my question please help us also if anyone have any thoughts on how 2 become pregnant sooner please help us.
Thanks
I have to just start out by saying that It's so nice to hear from people that know exactly how I feel!! My husband and me have been married 3 years and have been trying about as long as that . Nothing has happened I have always had regular periods and I ovulate normally . My husband says that he is too embarresed to get the sperm count done and i`m about to tell him to suck it up , Im not getting any younger I`m 27 and he is 33. I see all my friends around me having babies and they dont even want to have kids .. it`s so frustrating the situation that everyone is in... I feel horrible for eveyone on here that is having issues with becoming pregnant and I hope that everyone has some better luck soon!!! take care
I am 30 yrs old and have been actively trying to conceive for a year now. It is very frustrating because my husband has the attitude of "it will happen when it happens". My periods are becoming so infrequent now, so I suggested ovulation tests but he doesn't want me to buy them. This is very frustrating for me. Needless to say I bought them so I can atleast narrow down the reasons for not getting pregnant. Though I must say the ovulation tests are frustrating too because now I never know when to start testing. I just keep praying that it will happen sooner than later. Best of luck to all of you who are trying.
Hub and I have been ttc 5yrs now. I would like to say that there are natural methods such as herbal remedies and chinese medicine as well as the western medical route. These are cheaper options that may or may not work.
We are seeing a medical herbalist and the pills I am taking seem to have balanced my hormones. I always had a short leuteral phase and now my period is 28 days. I haven't yet concieved but was told it would take 3 months to normalise my body but if you believe that a folicle takes 6-9months to make then you may need 6-9months preperation.
I truely believe if you look after yourself, then you are more likely to concieve than someone who doesn't.
Give up the Caffiene, Alcohol, Cigarettes, or recreational drugs. Make sure you exercise (in moderation) and eat healthy you might find your body resets itself. But this is not a quick fix and will not resolve all issues but it is a way of impoving your chances.
Angie
I can understand you all and what you are feeling. I am 36 now got pregnant only after 2 months of trying, but in my 1st ultrasound they found a small fibroid. In my 3rd month of my pregnancy, the hospital technician suggested the viginal ultrasound, hit my sac, and miscarried the day after. It has been a year now, and my husband and I have been trying for another baby every since but with no luck. I have very irregular periods, so that makes it more hard to know when you are ovulating. I was pregnant at the same time with 3 other friends, who now all have lovely babies and it tears me apart when one of them calls and I hear the cry in the background or they visit with a pram. We have to just say we are not alone. Good luck to all of us girls, since we are the only ones who knows what goes on in our hearts and our heads, and no one else.
I got married at 22 years old and was looking forward to start a family.
And nothing happened.My husband did a sperm test and he passed the test.
I had done a vaginal ultra sound,blood tests and other stuff.
I turned 26 years old and booked a IVF and Gynacologist and I had an operation to see what was wrong with me.
I tried IVF for 1 cycle and nothing happened.
The result from operation was that I had a cyst on my right ovarian and was removed.My IVF and Gynacologist told me that he put dye inside my falopian tubes to see if it's blocked and he said that it was ok there.
I was getting more aggresive not able to conceive.
I turned 31 and was seeing the IVF and Gynacologist again.I had another vaginal Utrasound and radiologist told me that there is a remant growing inside the vagina.Remnant is a blister.Next,I had another operation at age 31.My remant was drained out and was told that it may likely to grow back within 2 years or may not.
I like to share this ugly secret to people reading my story.I thought sex was so disgusting.I thought it was normal to have agony during sex because of the pain from my remnant.
When it was drained out...I had no more pain during sex anymore and it was a different life.I am now turning 32 years old.I got pregnant naturaly
and I did the pregnancy test twice and I was in great shock.I gave birth to beautiful 10 and half pound baby girl.She makes me laugh everyday.She is turning 3 years old in October 2009.
At the moment,I am going to go for another operation soon to remove the remnant in complete because it has grown back.Now,I am looking forward to have a son and later have another one.After 9 years,I waited for my first baby.I am very happy.
Dear Ladies,
I am 43 years old. I got married when I was 41. My FSH level was very high and doctors said that there is only 1%of possibility for us to get pregnant. Then they highly recommended IVF.
But amazingly I confirmed that I was pregnant last Wednesday.
I would like to share what I did with all of you who are dreaming to have your own baby in natural way.
You can call me between 10.00am-4.00pm. I would like to share what I did on the phone because it is a very personal things. I would love ot help you.
My number is 0044-01224-488732.
Yours
Sincerely
Suzanne Li
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year and a half now. We've done all the testings and been fine. My periods are irregular.
My dr. put me on Chlomid in Sept. 2008. It worked the 1st month, but I ended up in miscarriage from a blighted ovum. I am now on my 2nd cycle at 100mg of Chlomid and nothing yet. I have done all the ovulation tests. I know when I am ovulating but it's not working. I am so frustrated I can't even explain.
It's like everyone around me is having kids or is pregnant. Even my 18 yr. old sister has a 6 month. I've done everything right, career, marriage, bought a house, and the only thing left is a baby and it's not happening.
Has anyone else had similar circumstances when conceiving? Please email me if you have any positive things! Thanks
I am the ripe age of 47.5! Like some others, I waited for most of my fertile years for the right partner, and now that I have found him(he's awesome!)it appears to be too late, very sad for us both. The only options out there seem to be adoption and egg donor. Has anyone else experienced pregnancy thru egg donor? Or, are there by chance ANY women over 45 who have conceived naturally? Any sharing is welcome!
hi, doctor
i am pregant and of 6 weeks .but last day i had second misscarriage.why it happens with me .please advice solution.
iam a woman who have fibroids on my righten side of my fellopion tube
and the one on the left is removed
because i used have an ectopic pregnacy few years ago is that possible for me to have pregnant again.please help me worried lady
My husband and me have been married 3 years and have been trying about as long as that . Nothing has happened I have always had regular periods and I ovulate normally .my age is 27 and my husband age is 30.my husband agreed to have a sperm test which showed his sperm count was very low .pls help me
I am 25 yrs old. I got married last may 2008. Since that month we've been trying to have a baby. I've tried fertility drugs, I've had a lot of test to see what's wrong with me, we found out that my left ovary had a cyst. Last nov2008 i had an operation, the doctor removed my appendix, and my left ovary. i really felt depressed,useless and embarrassed too. the physical and emotional pain is hard to endure. as days pass by the pain is harder to bear. thanks to the book I'm reading (The Power of a Positive Woman)and the Holy Bible.My faith in God become stronger. these two things help me become strong and determined to face the next days...and the people around me, especially family and my husband. he's very supportive of me. my chance of being pregnant was cut off to 50% since my left ovary was removed. In spite of all the things that happened to me, i still believe that one day God will give me a miracle and i will be pregnant. Now that i know that I'm not alone, thanks to your stories, I'm brave enough to face each day hoping that one day i will conceive and my husband and i, we will have our own bundle of joy. we are not going to give up and lose hope... May God Bless us all!
am married now for two years and some month now and have found it hard to concieve,am a regular member of beth kiley,i even order for fetile aid and for i and m husband it was delivered and we took it and still it still the same problem even right now i have not menstruated for four good month and am not pregnant,i have book with the gyneacologist and my appoontment is in MAY,i dont just no what to do am so frustrated,please help me,i dont even have money to order for the ebook that is personalpath to pregnancy i belive it would have help me again because i belive in your success stories thanks.
please if anyone have this similar problem please email to know the solutions am 28yrs of age this is till the same vivian that just finished texting now thanks
VERY GOOD ARTICLE.IT GIVES ME HOPE.
hi, i have an officemate whose ovary was also removed (not sure which one) but after that she still conceived 2 babies...so don't lose hope...it'll happen...I have only one fallopian tube but my doc told me i could still have another child (i have one)...you take care...
I tried hard to conceive for a year but not succeed. My doc told me to try to conceive within ten days of menstruation cycle. Say you will have period on 20, then try that from 15 to 25. You can try every 2 days within these 10 days. I did that and it worked. Good luck to all of you.
My right fallopian tube is blocked but my doctor said I can still conceive a baby so praying that God richly bless me with children and I know he will surly do it.
Let all pray, those who are having problem and one day God will surely do it.
thanks
Hi Pear, So within the 10 days you will have your period? Why did he suggest this because I have always been told that you are supposed to try 14 days from your first day of your period. I would really like more info because I have been trying for about 3 years. Thank you.
Hello Chasity,
Sorry I made a mistake, it should be 10 days before the period.
Before trying this method, I recorded the body temperature everyday to know the ovulation period. Still it did not succeed. My doc told me checking the body temp would only make me nervous which would decrease the chance of getting pregnant.
So, relax yourself.
Hi every1,
I have the same problem as ya'll.
I am 21 and married since 2 years. Trying to conceive but got to know my husband lacks the proper number of sperm count.
Can anymore tell me a technique to improve sperm count?
Also, email me anything new or informative. I would appreciate your help. Thank you all and baby dust to all!!!
MY email address is zohrawali@gmail.com
Thank you all!!!
Please help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!
I am 42 years old and my husband is 35 years old got married three years ago but have been unable to get pregnant. Pls what do I do?
I am 33 years old. My husband & I have been married for two and a half years and have been trying for a baby for about a year now. I also have Crohn's disease. I have had several tests regarding my fertility which showed I have one fallopean tube blocked and a thyroid problem. I never would have guessed I had a thyroid issue since my period is always on time, but after looking up the symptoms for hyper-thyroid (or Grave's Disease), I did wind up having many of them. (By the way, both Crohn's Disease & Grave's Disease are auto-immune diseases. A link possibley?) So now I am working closely with an endocrinologist to get my throid levels corrected. I highly suggest having your thyroid checked if you haven't already. Be sure to obtain a copy of the results since my first doctor told me everyting was fine, only to find out by two other doctors that is was not fine. I was advised once things get under control, I should be able to concieve naturally even with one fallopean tube. If not, I've been told my next step is a fertility specialist. All I can say is, I know it's hard and I do get depressed, but I whole hearted believe that trying to think positively will have an effect on your health as a whole.
I know exactly how all of you ladies are feeling. I got married 5 years ago at the age of 26. After 2 years of marriage, my husband and I finally started trying to conceive. We were unsuccessful for years and even went to the doctor. After numerous tests,we were told that we both were fine. My husband and I decided to not try anymore and if it happened then it happened. Then in June of 2008, we found out that we were pregnant! We were thrilled. I had a very difficult pregnancy, was extremely sick and lost weight instead of gaining it until I was about 5 months. Then I finally started feeling better and I even had the pregnant glow that you hear about. On December 11th, when I was 30 weeks, I noticed that the baby hadn't moved in over 24 hrs. My husband and I went to the hospital and long story short, after an ultrasound, we were told that the baby had died. They gave me meds to induce me and when the baby came out he had the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck twice. The hardest part was having to have a funeral and bury him. It was a very tough time but with the help of God, family, friends, and our church we got through it. We just found out a few weeks ago that we are pregnant again! And we weren't even trying this time! My doctor said that you are the most fertile right after having a baby or a miscarriage. I am hopeful and I do have faith and believe that everything will be fine this time and on Nov. 21st we will be bringing home a healthy baby! To all of you ladies...PLEASE don't give up. And remember, you are not alone. God Bless!
Well thanks to you all i feel alot better!! I am 22 years young and my husband and i married a year and 1/2 ago. we've been trying to conceive for a year and nothing has worked! All my friends have children and i just want that feeling of being a mother so badly! I want to raise a beautiful and healthy baby of my own! but honestly i think wanting it as bad as i do is only keeping it on my mind more and now im wondering if this can be apart of why im not conceiving do any one have answers???
well i pray that god blesses us all on this blog wit healthy beautiful babies....
Hi,I just wanted to thank everyone for the support and mails from Beth Kelly. I AM PREGNANT! And so thankfull!
Im 23 years old and ever since me and my husband got married we've been trying to get pregnant for 2 1/2 yrs with no success.. we've recently been told my husband has less than 5% healthy sperm, we have very little cheance of getting pregnant naturally and our option now is something called icsi. trying to stay positive but finding it very hard!
Have been married for 15 years.. now I am 37 years old.My husband has low sperm count but the gynaecologist said it cannot be changed as it is my husband's physical nature from birth. Anyone know's how to get my husband to produce more sperm? Hubby is now 55 years old. Thanks, Katrynn
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Hi all
I have been trying to become pregnant for almost a year now. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We waited before trying to make sure we were financially secure but now that we are seriously trying-nothings happening. I feel very frustrated (as you are all saying) because everybody around me is just falling pregnant (by accident or even just on their first attempt!) Its driving me crazy! The thing that has made things worse is that my sex life has become so pathetic because sex is scheduled-every 2-3 days my doctor has told me!My husband has not got the greatest labido and forcing him to have scheduled sex is destroying our relationship. Is there anyone else out there who has the same problem. I feel very alone in all this!
Hi Nat, I know exactly how you feel. I was told to try and start to have sex on the 11th day from my period, one day yes one day no. My husband is the same. I have to start every time cause he is not a man who loves sex. I feel like making love to my husband has become like just having sex for 1 purpose, and we lost all our emotions for one another. Just have faith and think that things happen for a reason. It's not easy when all your friends are pregnant and you are not. I was pregnant with another 3 friends. We were planning to have 4 babies at one go. The other 3 have thier babies in their arms now, and I was the only one who lost it. We have been trying again now for over a year, but nothing happened. We all need to pray God for all of us, maybe he will at least hear one of us. Good luck girls!! XXX
Its good to know that we are not alone in all this. My husband and I have been married for about eight years and the last two years have decided we want to start a family. I took us one year to fall pregnant and I must say we were very excited for it only to end up in a miscarriage. We got through it no matter how hurt we were and have kept trying and it seems nothing is happening. I did a few tests to determine whether there may be something wrong with me but my tests have come back fine. My husband decided to take a sperm count test and found his sperm count was low which means now we can try other alternatives. I am excited that we are closer to falling pregnant and can't wait for that day where all the excitement is back and we can move forward. This is just a stepping stone we can all get through it, its just a matter of hanging in there and being strong together.
Good luck to all. We are not alone.
i pray that God will help us . i have been trying for almost 3yrs now but not yet.
Dear all,
I keep on reading your texts for a hope that one may have a solution to this universal problem....
katrynn, i really appreciate that you give us a link. It was really useful thanks dear
However, i wanna know if any of you have had IVF or ICSI? and is that successful?
Plz share your thoughts and experiences cuz ur they are very important for me!
Baby Dust to all!
May Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala give us all a cute baby soon inshallah!
I have not had IVF but am about to try IUI which has been known to be successful as long as the woman is ovulating. It puts the pressure off the male if his sperm count is low. Its too hard to try and fix sperm naturally especially if the man spokes and likes his occassional drink. Although we are trying menevit which is supposed to produce health sperm. It will be interesting to see if it works before I have IUI done if all else fails.
On the 29th of April i wrote a message sayin how my husband and i was finding it so hard to get pregnant an last night i had to pee really bad and since i usually stay well over stocked wit pregnancy test, i thought i would just take one and it was Positive!!! Im so thankful and i thank you all for your supportive stories!
Hi Taja Smith, Thats such a great news. Be careful and take it day by day. May God be with you thoughtout the whole pregnancy and therefore will have a lovely joyful baby in your arms in 8 months. Good luck!!!
Taja,
I am so excited for you and wish you lots of luck with the pregnancy. I hope we can all be blessed soon. I am due tomorrow and hoping I get the same result. I usually have a stash of pregnancy tests but I am going to wait. I feel if we all put in enough positiveness into this we will be blessed and our dreams come true.
Once again, Good luck!
On 5th May I also wrote a message saying that me and my husband were finding it hard to get pregnant. We have been trying for two years. Well now the excitement is back cause I took a pregnancy test and its positive. I have so been waiting for this moment and it has finally arrived. I must say all your supportive stories have helped and I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel for all of you. I just have one tip for everyone. Try menevit for men. My husband had just been taking it for a few weeks before we tried again and I must say it has worked for us. Just keep positive and thanks for the baby dust. I now say baby dust to all.
I am really happy that day by day i read someone has got pregnant.... that is so wonderful. Baby Dust to All!
Please tell me what is IUI? And what is the difference between IVF and IUI?
Thanks for ur help!!!
IUI is a non-invasive procedure to IVF. If a male's sperm count is low and the woman has no problem ovluating and getting pregnant then what they do is take sperm from your partner, keep all the good sperm and inject it into the female on the day before ovulation. This gives you a better chance of getting pregnant cause there is no time for lazy sperm. Sperm is given a helping hand and your chances of getting pregnant are greater.
So glad I don't have to do it now.
Oh okay thanks alot Thorn i appreciate your help.
I think i will go with this!
Thanks once again!
Baby dust to all!
Hello. I have been with my husband for 7yrs. We never used protection. And Ive never gotten pregnant. I am so depressed and empty. My husband already has a son from a previous relation. And its so hard for me. Sometimes I am jealous of his ex, because she gave him something I can't. I want a child. I want to be a mom. I love kids and it hurts so bad. We have been trying. I've almost given up. It upsets me too much each month when my "friendly mother nature comes" I cry in the bathroom. I just want to stop trying. It brings me down too much. I jsut dont think I can take it much more. I have given up on it. I dont understand why God would bless women with children who just abuse them or even murder them, and women like myself who wants nothing more than to have a love for their own child. Please someone help.
Dear Rene,
Please don't be upset and have faith on Allah Subhana wa Ta'ala. He knows what is good for us and what is bad. May be the baby is not good for u that is y he is not giving you!!!! Think out of the box!!
I don't have a baby too and i really want to have one. But sometimes i think that God knows what is good and what is bad for me so then i wait... i will wait until i die.
Baby dust to you dear!
Plz read what Thorn has said about IUI. Y don't u give a try?
Take care
BABY DUST TO ALL!!!
THANKS THORN FOR TELLING ME ABOUT IUI. I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP!!!
hi,
i been married for 11 years. I have no kids. i got pregnant naturally once but it was ectopic so I lost my left tube. previously i tried clomid n IUI (partial).. After ectopic I try to do IUI (proper one) but i had infection on my left ovary n remaining tube.So had to forego the IUI. Now its almost 1 yr since last surgery and have not concieved yet. i have been patiently waiting and being hopeful. But now my husband wants to marry another to get a child.i am so disapointed at him. i never thought i would leave him to find a child with someone else. But for man that seems to be the right choice. Now trying for baby has become a mental torture cos every menses is a failed attemp to concieve n a higher risk to break my marriage.
Dear
After reading you story i want to help u an i can give u baby nut i cant marry with u if u want me u can mail me brates_friktion@yahoo.com
UPDATE:
We hope to have IUI next month. Lets see if there is any chance of a BFP(Big Fat Positive). The herbs from a medical herbalist have changed my cycle. Try one near you. Its gotta be cheaper and less intrusive than the fertility treatments out there
ORIGINAL QUOTE: Hub and I have been ttc 5yrs now. I would like to say that there are natural methods such as herbal remedies and chinese medicine as well as the western medical route. These are cheaper options that may or may not work.
We are seeing a medical herbalist and the pills I am taking seem to have balanced my hormones. I always had a short leuteral phase and now my period is 28 days. I haven't yet concieved but was told it would take 3 months to normalise my body but if you believe that a folicle takes 6-9months to make then you may need 6-9months preperation.
I truely believe if you look after yourself, then you are more likely to concieve than someone who doesn't.
Give up the Caffiene, Alcohol, Cigarettes, or recreational drugs. Make sure you exercise (in moderation) and eat healthy you might find your body resets itself. But this is not a quick fix and will not resolve all issues but it is a way of impoving your chances.
Angie
Hi there,
We found our own way to stop the lack of sex drive. Feel free to try it - it does take months but worked for us.
We differentiate the baby dance from cuddles.
Baby dance is day 10-15 of the cycle only.
Cuddles are any other time of the month
We started cuddling and that made us relax then we moved to naked cuddles then foreplay and eventually our sex drives came back. It happened because we weren't trying to concieve the whole month and just relaxed with each other like we used to.
Our sex life now is much more spontanious than it has ever been and having a break for 5 days does us no harm. If anything it makes us want it more. We have occasionally even had spontanious sex during the fertile phase.
We have stopped trying to concieve naturally and are moving onto IUI.
I found it emotionally hard hubby giving a sperm sample in a little room at the hospital. All previous sperm samples were taken at home and delivered to hospital.
Does anyone else have similar concerns?
We have agreed to do everything together from sperm collection to him pushing the plunger, but are still waiting to check that the hospital will accomodate this.
Angie
Hi everyone. I've read all your stories and it's amazing what we go through to have children. My husband and I tested fine. We went through all the doctors. We did IUI, IVF and nothing worked. After that I got pregnant naturally twice and both times I had a miscarriage (the last one in may 09). We still believe that we'll have kids - it's just how patient you are and believe in what you are doing. I want to thank Beth Kiley for her book and advice (it was helpful). Does anyone know what is the best time to start all over again after a miscarriage? Do we need to wait 2-3 months or can we start after my period is over? Thanks, and Bless you all.
The best thing you can do is wait for
3months before trying again,so that the womb will be stable, if not there will be another miscarriage because it has happened to.Goodluck.
I am 25 and I have been married for about 4 1/2 years. I know how it is and I read the comments and it makes me cry. The only good thing I can say is that I got pregnant once about 1 1/2 ago. I lost teh baby New Year's Eve until New Year's Day. The doctor told me to wait about 6 months before I try again. It's been a 1 1/2 and no baby. The way I got pregnant was after I lost 25 lbs and I was active. I wasn't really thinking about it and it happened. I did go to a fertility specialist but the only thing they were after was my money. My husband had the sperm test and blood work. I had an ultrasound of my ovaries and bloodwork. They wanted me to do another two tests before they would tell me anything about my results. I already spent plenty of money. I asked about my husband and they said we could do the artifical insemination. I alreay knew this without spending $1500. I still have hope and I am enjoying my life. I have been to so many baby showers but the one thing I know is I can't wait until I have a baby girl named Felicity.
I am mother of a 4 1/2 yr old son. I really didn't think I had any issues with fertility although according to my husband it took 2 1/2 yrs for us to conceive our son. I knew while pregnant with my son that having another child wasn't out of the question. Unfortunately we haven't had any success. I had all the tests done and everything tested normal for both myself and my husband. I even went to a fertility doctor and underwent IUI. The doctor diagnosed me as being subfertile since I was able to get pregnant naturally the first time. None of the treatments were successful (at least six times that were allowed under my insurance). My insurance has since cancelled the fertility rider so that means I have to pay for everything out of pocket and I just don't have the disposable income to cover anymore procedures. During the last IUI the doctor highly recommended IVF but we had issues regarding IVF that we couldn't consider. My husband and I are still trying naturally. I will be turning 42 yrs old this year and know that my "clock is ticking". My cycles are regular and test for ovulation as well.
It is especially difficult when you work in a small department and three other women are pregnant - one of which I referred to my fertility doctor and she was lucky enough for a successful procedure. Every month I hope for the best and have been disappointed so far. It is especially hard now that I will have to go through baby showers at work and be happy on the outside but feel sadness and jealousy on the inside because I wish I was also pregnant.
I guess I should consider myself blessed to have at least one child. But I pray every month that that would be the month I will become pregnant again.
i have been trying for over two years and have got no where someone called beth on some website said they wud send me some stuff but didnt seriously me n my boyfriend are really struggling and could use some help he thinks hes infertile n vise versa n its really getting us down plz email me at lilmick45@hotmail.co.uk thank u kindly x
also baby dust to all xx
I AM A 25 YEAR OLD AND A MOM OF TWO KIDS 4 AND 6 YRS OLD. ME AND MY FIANCE'BEEN TRYING A YEAR NOW WITH NO SUCESS. I GET SAD WHEN I SEE OTHER PREGNANT MOM AND GIVE HER AN EVIL LOOK ONLY BECAUSEI AN DISSAPPOINTED THAT I HAVING YET. WHAT IS EVEN NERVE RACKING IS MY FRIEND WAS STARTED AFTER I DID AND IT TOOK HER SEVEN MONTHS AND SHE JUST FOUND OUT LAST WEEK SHE IS 6 WEEKS PREG. AND I FELT LIKE WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON WITH US. BUT SINCE THEN ME AND MY FIANCE' BEEN DOING OUR RESEARCH AND TRYING TO PIN POINT THE WRITE DAY I WOULD OVULATE AND BUY WHAT I FOUND OUT YOU CAN ACTUALLY STAT OVULATION 7 DAYS AFTER THE FIRST DAY OF YOUR PERIOD. SO THIS WEEK I OVULATE SO WISH ME LUCK EVERYONE
ALSO TO THE ANONYMOUS PERSON WHO ASK HOW LONG DO IT TAKE TO GET PREGNANT AFTER A MISCARRIAGE, WELL IT TOKK MY SISTER TWO MONTHS TO GET PREGNANT AFTER HER MISCARRIGE SO THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU.
I JUST KNOW I GOT TO KEEP MY FAITH AND HOPE GOD WILL BLESS US SOON.
i'm 35 turning 36 this year & i've been married for 8 years now. no babies yet. last january 2009 we've learned (thru blood exams with an immunologist) that my immune system is rejecting the baby. so i was immunized with my hubby's white blood cells with the hope that my immune system will recognize the baby as a baby and not as a foreign body that it must reject. the procedure was done last march 2009. 3 months later, still no babies. i have another 3 months to try to conceive naturally but i'm not losing hope. otherwise, we'll move to the next step. don't lose hope, God will give us a baby soon. let's always pray for each other. God bless.
This article has touched me and I feel for this poor girl. I feel the exact same way. I am 30 and I have been married for almost 3 yrs and my husband got a vasectomy reversal last October. The doctor told us everything came back full force so we got to it. It has been almost 7 months and I have had numerous test done, including ultrasound, HSG, EXAM and nothing is wrong with me, now it is his turn. Since I was 21 I have been wanting a child, but because of my ex husband not wanting children the 6 yrs we were married, we didn't have any. So here I am 9 yrs later still without a child. I know I will have one someday, it really helps reading other people blogs, knowing I am not the only one going through the let down each month. Thanks to you guys I have faith :o)
i am 29 married for almost a year, and from then we start ttc, but unfortunately til now we havent one. my husband is working from the other fence of our country and only having a vacation one month every six months and so its difficult for us to have a chance to conceive and to find our luck during his stay with me.. i have a regular period but with diff. cycles so its hard for me to identify when i am ovulating, until i decided to consult to a gynecologist and advised me to have ovulation test and it founds out that it seems that i am not ovulating it really depressed me!. by next week there is another test i will go through and hoping to have a good result to it coz it really hurts me everytime im thinking that what if the problem is with me? this coming july my husband is going to take his vacation and the problem is i havent done to my test so its really frustrating to think that there still have no positive result in his stay, but im still hoping for miracle... anyone can give me advise or good method??? i will really appreciate and nothing i will do just to conceive.. god bless us all girls!!
i am 31 ,married for 10 years,trying to have a baby,never used any pill or protection.we both r medically fit,tried everything from clomid to 3 cycles of IUI.nothing works,i am sad but still hopeful,i have faith in GOD and his love upon which he has created us all,and i am hopeful he will also give me this gift too as he has blessed me always.if someone know about a good homeopathic doctor who deals in fertility please tell me i will be grateful
am trying to concive for over a year now it seems almost impossible. my cervic is tilth backward is that the problem? am frastrated
Hi, it's a hard thing to know that you may not be able to give your partner a baby especially when he really wants one. I am 29 years and I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and i tried for years to have a baby my doctors tried metformin, to regulate my insulin, fertility pills etc. nothing seems to work with me now my last hope is to try a fertility clinic which i don't have the money to attend. It's been ten months now and i have not seen a period since. I can only hope and pray that somehow i can give my partner that baby the he so destine for or let him go and find someone who can give one to him.
I found out I was pregnant two months ago in one of my earlier messages but it ended up in miscarriage again. It has been an emotional path but I will keep trying and maybe I will be lucky the third time. I feel for all of us out there but we just have to keep strong and be positive that we will be blessed when the time is right. These things are unexplainable cause its just a complicated process. I do hope that the next time round it works out for me and for everyone out there as it would mean the world.
i know exactly how it feels..for not having a baby.. im already 30 and my husband is 26..after 2yrs of trying we decided to go to the doc. to know what went wrong.the doc said that i have a endometriosis in my left ovary. so i decided to go to an operation to remove it hoping that if it already remove we can easily conceive..but the thing is very sticky, that cause me to remove my leftovary and left fallopian. .and it so sad that after a 3 months my right ovary has already endometriosis again..i try laparascopic examination and the result is so frustrating cause my right fallopian is blocked at it has water in it..i cried and cried.. because we dont have any option now..the only option i have is to have an invitro fertilization..that in my case it cause a lot of money.. and i know that we cannot afford...it so frustrating for me..bec. im the one who has to blame for not having a baby..my husband try to have it in another women..but when i found out..i decided to let him go.. but he stay with me..and we are hoping that god give us the only joy that we are hoping..
i fell pregnant in February and in may i had a miscarriage we have been trying for a baby since then but every time i see my period my hurt weeps
It`s about a year and couple a months trying to conceive, but nothing happaned. I`m 26 and my husband is 32.The problem is that my period has been irregulated, I don`t know which gyno or which drug can I try. Please anyone who an idea help!
We are currently TTC #2. We struggled with infertility for over two years with our first child. Now here we are again. I just found out today that IUI#5 didn't work. I thought for sure this was the one since my dh sperm count quadrupled. I thought God was giving me a sign. I guess it wasn't in His will this time around. It is difficult to have strength when so many around me are pregnant. I am ready to throw in the towel, but I know that I have to be patient.
Am 33yrs, been married since Feb 08 and no baby yet..my hubby's sperm count is normal so I went for HSG and was informed that one tube has a hydrosalpinx and the other is just blocked. was told to do surgery to open the tubes but i really dont want surgery. any ideas anyone???
I feel the same pain of ttc and not known if a baby will ever come. I had an ectopic pregnancy ( I nearly died) and a miscarriage. But, now I am a mother! Miracles do happen, have faith!
hello to all,
its very sad to know that so many women r struggling to conceive .i just want to say that have faith in Allah and He do miracles, keep try to happy and tension free,i know its hard but its work ..think that this is the best thing for you and whenever HE wants He gives u baby dust,but most important thing is faith and trust not on anybody but on the almighty ALLAH.
Does anyone know if the ovualation kits are reliable in predicting ovulation? I have tried using the kits but it does not show the days that I am ovulating? Can anyone recommed a kit that works or anything else
Me and my husband have been married for a yr, and on December 2nd i found out i was pregnant, and i was so excited it was the best day of my life when i see the test say positive. I was about 23 weeks pregnant when i found out my baby had died it was so horrible..He had amniotic band cyndrome..Ever sence then i havent been able to get pregnant and I really dont know what to do anymore...
hi my name is jenni have had a tubel pg and miscarrige me and my husband struggled with infertility and have pcos and ende and he indeed up cheating on me got pregnate had a misscarige now we got divorced its been 2 years am with my fiance he wants a baby so do i have tried its not happening have tried fertility meds everything i could but well im just gunna stop trying am over weight lost weight am getting healthy so wish me luck baby dust to you all hope you all concieve and we will anybody want to talk email me need friends who are going thru the same thing my em is jenni vargas2aaol.com
@ Tiffany | 04.21.09 - 6:31 am |
Can you tell me what supplements your husband took that likely resulted in low sperm count and how the doctor came to this conclusion? My husband did body building for nearly 10 years and this is a concern of mine too. He is reluctant to get tested but anything you can provide would be helpful. Thanks!
Hii..i'm trying to conceive almost 3 years..i'm pcoser n my doc suggest me to do OD in this coming Nov..i'm very upset..
My name is Lisa, and im 25 years old, i got married in January this year. My husband and i have been trying to have a baby for 2 years now, and nothing yet. I have gone to the doctors about our problem and he has sent my husband for tests to find out his sperm count, and everything came back normal, now they are saying that it may be me, and my tubes might be blocked and they might have to blow them out. They say this cause i still get a period every month around the same time, so i am still capable to conceve. So im hoping then when and if they do this, that all my questions will be answered and i will finaly and hopfuly be a mother. I have been wanting this for about 7 years now. Ever since i was 18 i have wanted a child of my own, and i have yet to be blessed with a baby. Everyone i know around me, friends and family, they all have babys/kids and if they dont have one yet, they have one on the way. Im waiting for my oppertunity, for my chance to be a mother to something so amazing and so precious, and a beautiful experance. Im really hoping that i will have my chance. I want nothing more but to be a mother. To hear my child call me mommy and run to me for a solder to cry on. I want to feel the love between a mother and daughter from the other end. I love my mom so much and i want to have someone look up to me like i do my mom. Once again i am really hoping that i will have my chance and i know that when and if i ever do, my baby will be nothing but a gift from god and will be the perfect child and more then i could ever imagen.
On May27, 1997 i had a little boy named Jhai'quonne.He was the light of my life and 10 years later on May25,20007 he was hit by a truck and died,it was the worst day of my life.Two days before his 11th birthday.It is now oct.2009 and i've been trying to get pregnant for ova a year now.I was on birthcontrol shots for a long time but been off them for 2 years.I did get pregnant dec.2008. Feb.14 2009 i got married and when i went to my two month checkup to hear the heart beat there was none.I've been thru plenty of surgeries to get checked and my doctor tells me there's nothing wrong,they say just keep trying.that gets old and i have anxiety problem and panic attack so that really takes a toll on me when they keep telling me keep trying.Im very anxious to become pregnant It's the one thing i want the most. Please someone tell me if theres anything as far as vitamins,old remedies,or anthing i can do to concieve and not have a miscarriage.PLEASE HELP.
me an my husband are trying to hav a baby from 5 months .i have been married fr 4 years aftr marriage we plannd to hav kids after 1 year. but after one year the story change when my husband got work permit to work oversas.after3 months i join him i also applied for open work permit,while doing my medical for immigration i was diganose with a hole in the heart.it was really shockig to hear that i was born with it.after a long struggle i had my operaion an its 2year since then. im trying to get baby fr 5 months.i was never on pills,i always hav very regular cycle.for 3 months it was 30 day cycle,but from 2 months 28 daycycle my last cycle was due on 22 sept but it didnt happen i thought maybe im pragnant. i took 2 test at home it was negtive .i went to nurse she did 2 test it was negtive an then she took blood test it was negtive again.its 6th august now i did hav my period yet.i will be happy if a miricle happens.but dear friends everything for each of us happen on right time.god nows when to give us what..i have very much faith on him an i will pray for each of us hope we will be showed with his blessings. baby dust to all of us...
I am still young. not married.. me and my boyfriend is TTC for 3 years..but still nothing happened. I am turning 19 years old this december.. I really wanted to have baby now.. it is very frustrated to see that his brother has a 2 child right now. and to think me and my boyfriend is 4 years now and his brother and his sister in law have just lived in last 2007..
I have never went to ob-gynes.. I have irregular and missed periods. and right now I am 5 months delayed but its normal for me.. and this time I have a feeling that I am pregnant.. I hope and wish that It is positive, I never tried preg.test..
but when I have my salary I promise to myself that I will see my ob-gyne to have a check up..
baby dust to us all..godbless..
My husband and i have been trying for the lat 2 years. We had had a miscarry just before that. We are now seeing doctors the recent results show that my husband has high sperm but very very low quality of sperm (morphology) and also low motility. This is considered genetic. Just wondering if anyone else out there has experienced the same what advice and or procedure(s) underwent. I want to be able to have the mommy experience as well.
hi there!
this is me ..i am back.. and with a good news.. Hi there ladies who wants to be a mommy soon.. I have a great nice for you!! I am 9 weeks pregnant right now.. I should suggest if you have irregular or missed periods like me. You should take METFORMIN first.. that is for insulin. ok?! and also try CLOMID at first round make it 50 mg. take it on to your 3rd day of menstruation up to 7th day.. And i assure you it is very effective.. promise.. with the help of our lord..
baby dust to all you mommies..
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