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wow....you said that very well.
i personally think women are beautiful....and enjoy admiring the beauty of other women....i do not consider myself gay, but i do like women....i must say though your comment on beauty and it's association with women, is mostly true...they are a more refined specimen but men do exude beauty, it's in the eye of the beholder....when i see a man with facial hair...go-tee, side burns, etc....i find that beautiful, or a cut jaw, or a nice ass, legs, chest, belly, and um....other parts....they are beautiful....so it's all relative to what one person sees as beauty........very nice post.
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Mitz:
I so do agree with ya bout men & the beholder's eyes. I've come to terms with feminine appreciation of theur own gender as wel. just because they say it doesnt mean they are lesbians. Thanks gal.
love ya. U really give me hope/ SWear!
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Ofcourse there's teh religious point here. In my religion, homosexuality is unacceptable and as a firm believer in Islam I've come to the conclusion it is warped, perverse and psychologically unbalanced to be a homosexual. Not everyone may agree with me but i stand firm. It is taboo... in Islam as well as the society and I believe that for once the society holds teh correct stand... but it does seem to be loosing hold, and for that I'm sorry.
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Ofcourse there's teh religious point here. In my religion, homosexuality is unacceptable and as a firm believer in Islam I've come to the conclusion it is warped, perverse and psychologically unbalanced to be a homosexual. Not everyone may agree with me but i stand firm. It is taboo... in Islam as well as the society and I believe that for once the society holds teh correct stand... but it does seem to be loosing hold, and for that I'm sorry.
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i believe this entire issue is blown out of proportions. first by the people who oppose gays and then coutered by gays with some high funda theories..
I guess there is enough room in the world for people with various choices. and we can perhaps take it for granted that the no of people inclined towards opposite sex would always be much higher than people inclined towards same sex... So there is no real threat to the future of human kind..
The only thing... Gays should be more honest accepting and declaring their preferences, and the so called society must accept that everybody has a right to live the way they want.
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Blogwriiter:
This is a sensitive issue. Unfortuantely more hidden than the obvious but it is sad to see people forget the basic values.
Amitken:
U go guy! I like your liberal opionions. YOu are definitely the wonderful peace maker who says
"live & let live"
Thank goddness for that comment on the human kind. 
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Aha! That is some food for thought! Freedom for persuing gay relationships has been a much debated issue for a quite a while now... some favor it coz it's their own life and some don't coz it is 'unnatural' in their opinion. Also the fact that people are not willing to discuss about this or talk openly on the issue itself suggests that this is still not an acceptable concept to most people. Guess everyone has his/her own life and he/she is the best judge of his/her own life, hai na?
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I ditto what Amit had to say.
Its about time that we stop looking at homosexuality as a disease or something perverted. For one can anyone explain to me what is so wrong about it neways other than the religious angle.
But again...a few of the points in your post....about beauty.
Who in the first place associated women with beauty?
How many men would in fact like to be called beautiful? For one most would associate with being akin to effiminate or even gay.
Coming to women...wasnt beauty literally a role assigned to women and that too by men. Think about it....the women played the role of the homemaker and of course the sex toy. While the man used his masculine physique to go out and earn the bread.
And again being gay does not necessarily relate to a fear of dominant women or the fear of women though it could be one of the many possible causes.
But you raise some valid questions....what happens to a son who finds himself with 2 moms or a girl raised by 2 dads. Would that be a wholesome atmosphere for the kid.
The Questions will always be there and so will homosexuality. Perhaps if we remove the prejudice the answers too will surface.
Great post Empress!
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10.14.05 - 2:47 am | #
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beauty is the materialization of the good character, through words or any other forms
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Fundoo:
Good to see ya. I guess the only way to live in peace is to give people freedom. If we enforce laws against people's choices it's going to remain a taboo but the activities will continue anyways. Lets leave it with the ppl, hai na? 
The Hissing Saint:
Thumbs up for your liberal outlook!
That was an interesting comment about beauty. Alright, I missed the idea of the origin of the word but i meant to state that if men find women attractive, why can't women see the same creatures in that light?
The future is definitely for time to show but these kind of issues are important & sensitive, but like you said, things will make their way as they come up.
thanks
WiZ
yes as have ur words lovely
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I has nicely been put up in words Empress....but me not comforable with someone being GAY in ma friend circle. I dont know...Im not saying that there's something wrong or real bad to have a GAY friend, as long as he is not making passess on you...but...
Hmmm....
If that’s what they wanted they knew the options before they chose to be who they are!!
I dont have an issue...but dont know how am I going to react after tht...will I just run away if s/he eva drops by in front of me...will I get nervous...or wht...
nice post anyway...
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10.14.05 - 11:24 pm | #
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z000nie:
Are you sure he is gay?
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10.17.05 - 6:51 am | #
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Zoonie:
I can imagine ur position. I have felt that way too. ITs very diificult bc ppl at times make passes & yet never confront the issue.
THanks
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