Interesting vows. They cover most of Maslow's needs. I suppose they could accomplish a lot if they were meant in earnest.
sirBarrett | Homepage | 11.24.05 - 11:35 pm | #

SirBarett:
Hmm,.,,I suppose that relates to te psychology guy?!
I think it would make a great deal of a dfference should it b earnest. Funny how we knw wats rite yet never give up on the wrong.
BLackempress | Homepage | 11.25.05 - 1:56 am | #

Wonderfully written...esp the way in which the 2 views meld together.

But really how many see it that way?
The Hissing Saint | Homepage | 11.25.05 - 3:07 am | #

It was better when the idea propped up but somehow i managed to d something.
Dont u think every life would fall into place if each person would see it this way? Too idealised a perception I suppose!!! sadly
BLackempress | Homepage | 11.25.05 - 3:42 am | #

very well put. love this
AmitKen | Homepage | 11.25.05 - 4:22 am | #

Brilliant site. Love it.
cocaine jesus | Homepage | 11.25.05 - 10:45 am | #

Amitken:

I wasnt sure . thanks.

Cocaine Jesus:

Thank U. I vistied urs too. Quite a piece.
Blackempress | 11.26.05 - 1:42 pm | #

Hey!

I am back with a blog.

Checkout my new blog http://amitken.wordpress.com

the old blog http://amitken.blogspot.com exists but is not updated.

The addiction continues.. but at a new address :o) hope to catch you there.
AmitKen | Homepage | 11.29.05 - 8:20 am | #

very nice words....although i feel giving up ones own birth name takes away who they really are.
mitz | Homepage | 11.29.05 - 2:17 pm | #

Hmmm, and what about love marriages?
the woman | Homepage | 11.30.05 - 12:38 am | #

arranged marriages or love marriages? both seem odd to me and yet, as so often is the case, they work. they also breakdown and with love marriages you can divorce and walk away. can you walk away or divorce from arranged marriages? i dunno. surely love only lasts while it lasts and marriage is just a 'man made fabrication'.
as i said before cool site and great post.
cocaine jesus | Homepage | 11.30.05 - 8:40 am | #

Very powerful vows. Personally I would never agree to such. A marriage is when two people sacrifice half of what they are, in the hopes that together their halves will sum up to something greater than they were before. Thats a very big risk, and the idea of arranging such a risk before two people even know each other is an even greater risk.
"The three most powerful words in the world are: I love you."
Cruel Angel | Homepage | 11.30.05 - 10:37 am | #

AMitken:

Surely will! congrats on the new site. Definitely will b as good as b4.

MItz:

I do agree with u there. I was keeping an eastern point of view. It's how it happens. SOmething no one questions.

THe woman:

I think love marriage is more romantic. An >>>>on going romance.

Cocaine Jesus:

Thanks for the compliments & sharing ur point of view. interesting indeed.
I think both need same kind of compromise. Its just in one the expectations r too high so they fail.

Cruel Angel:

It's quite a pleasure that u visited.
I have one word to describe ur comment:

CLassic!!
Blackempress | 12.01.05 - 1:26 am | #

When I started reading I thought like there shall be some naughty twist in the last....

Very true indeed....But d u really believe, that it happens this way...I think, it is supposed to be this way, but then Marriage somehow turns out to be marriage of convienence...
hirdu | Homepage | 12.01.05 - 3:11 am | #

Hirdu:
How nice to see u!

NO I dont believe even a part og it happens. When people r wedded they are always thinkin in terms of the receiving part ... which ends up in self pity in the last.
I wanted to add some twist but then it was a serious opening so mocking something pppl really value didnt fit.

THanks .
Blackempress | 12.02.05 - 3:44 am | #

Nice post, ! But you have mentioned that you don't believe even a part of it. Then why write about it? - I don't get the point.
Mandeep
Mandeep | 12.03.05 - 10:54 am | #

Mandeep:

Fictionous writers write because they want to believe in them & to give something to the world. Its not bc of its existence. My case is the same.
Blackempress | Homepage | 12.05.05 - 2:20 am | #