She never said that she would, curse, cry and scream and lie
She never said that maybe, someday she'd say goodbye
death | Homepage | 01.24.06 - 9:43 pm | #

"So create your own 'happy ever afters'...afterall a dream is a wish of the heart & no one said dreams can't come true."

I completely agree with you... No offence meant, and might be slightly deviating from the topic... These days, in India (not sure about women outside India), women have started carrying men in their kitty while still in search of their "Knight in Shining Armour". If they come across someone who sweeps her off her feet, she'd keep him in her kitty and then get back to searching for someone better... Nobody's perfect. And we just need to realize that. Instead of hoping for something better to happen to us, we should try and make, like you right mentioned, "our own happy ever afters..."
ouzymandiaz | Homepage | 01.25.06 - 1:47 am | #

boy does the final paragraph sum all of evertything you were saying here. so neatly encapsculated. relationships, of whatever kind, are the damndest things to maintain. and you are right, nobody is perfect. trouble is, and this is maybe a part of the problem, too many people in relationships think that they are faultlless and by implication, perfect.
highly intelligent and witty writting. a great way to spend an afternoon reading this when i should be working!!
cocaine jesus | Homepage | 01.25.06 - 11:45 am | #

Although somewhat disheartening, I think you're right. But it's these hopes (however false they may be) that get us through rough times (kinda like religion). But ultimately, you're right, men and women have to face the fact that reality isn't a fairy-tale for most people. You've gotta make it that way.

"Heaven helps the man who helps himself."

PS. It's good to hear from you again.
Cruel Angel | Homepage | 01.26.06 - 12:13 am | #

Death:

Thanks for the emphasis on the words. They make the tale stand out in the correct proportion.

Ouzymandiaz:

I really agree that the concept of woman power has started going into the wrong proportion. I suppose its not only India but even many other places, which i supoose stems from te fact that women r more insecure & use the attention of many men to convince themselves of the beauty etc.
The ideology of women ruling seems to fuel the ego (false beliefs)

Thanks for bringin up the subject. Nothin said here is ever irrelevant. I love lateral thoughts.


Cocaine Jesus

Very well worded. I always feel like ur comments seem to explain my concepts in finer meanings & words.

Thanks for taking out the time to read N comment. Good luck with the workl.

Cruel Angel

Its really good to hear from u too.

I agree thats its disheartening. Look around closely & u will see that almost every 2nd person is trying to find that "promised romance' that media seems to be spreading in every programme.
Things like these fairytales created ideals earlier & now we're running like a bullet train on the same tracks, except that life isnt a cartoon out of which we can create a Palave Heaven.!!
Blackempress | 01.26.06 - 5:28 am | #

WoW! that was some perspective.

Blackempress, I think the writers of that age should have atleast written a Disclaimer in the end of the story, but i guess they had no courage to do so, leave alone to tell the truth which followed the union.
The real test of a relationship begins after the union. and there is nothing 'ever after' - everything depends on 'now' and how well we handle it.
AmitKen | Homepage | 01.27.06 - 10:16 am | #

Amitken

Thats 2 thumbs up 4 u!
The "here & now' Is all that matters & that in the retrospective can b 'forever'
Excellent thought. thank u,
Blackempress | 01.28.06 - 4:20 am | #

AmitKen | Homepage | 01.28.06 - 1:31 pm | #

Nice.

What they didn't teach us at convent school.

What would we do without those fairy tales though..
inkblot | Homepage | 01.28.06 - 9:59 pm | #

Inkblot:

HI. nice having u here.
Yes, quite a thought.
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