document.write("<script language=\"javascript1.2\" type=\"text/javascript\">function emo_pop() {window.open('http://www.haloscan.com/commenthelp.php','Help','width=200,height=320,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes');}</script><table width=\"97%\" align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" border=\"0\" class=\"MainTable\">  <tr>    <td>    <div align=\"center\"><p>Please DON'T feed the Trolls</p>    </div>    </td>  </tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211130\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=4bdce56644625260c32fb2885294b741&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />This is a really great post, Bruce.<br><br>What I thought of (as a straight, white woman from southern BC) was just how overwhelmingly we've internalized stereotypes in our culture.  Not only are our emotions and reactions powerful, but our stereotypes - which speaks about our perceptions but on a collective level - are really powerful, too.  It's an interesting thing to be aware of because of that internalization.  It's so subconscious that it really stands out when a post like this pops up and slaps one upside the head.  Thank you for that.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Wandering Coyote | <a href=\"http://wanderingcoyote.blogspot.com\" title=\"http://wanderingcoyote.blogspot.com\">Homepage</a> | 06.28.09 - 12:12 am | <a href=\"#211130\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211131\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=43eff13179cd30a07c14c8703a738810&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Oh Bruce, that was an awesome post!  So beautifully written!<br><br>I never even heard of Stonewall until the 70s, when I lived at Yonge & Isabella and started making a lot of gay friends.  Then the story was told, but i don't think anyone realized its  true impact, the start of a real revolution.  <br><br>Now if the states would just catch up to Canada... I'm sure they will eventually, they are just slow with stuff like social issues.  They'll get there.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           JJ | <a href=\"http://unrepentantoldhippie.wordpress.com\" title=\"http://unrepentantoldhippie.wordpress.com\">Homepage</a> | 06.28.09 - 12:46 am | <a href=\"#211131\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211132\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=d3c978e357853ddfcd4f79c705060161&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Coyote,<br><br>That's most of the battle. Our society allows us to accept and internalize beliefs that have no basis in reality. We create our own reality now, often to the detriment of what otherwise could be valuable. <br><br>We are not a village anymore, but a society that dares itself and its participants to conform to something other than what we are.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Bruce | <a href=\"http://canuctude.blogspot.com\" title=\"http://canuctude.blogspot.com\">Homepage</a> | 06.28.09 - 3:08 am | <a href=\"#211132\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211133\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=43eff13179cd30a07c14c8703a738810&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Happy Stonewall Day!  Here's a <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http://www.nallefineart.com/images/artists/kent_hall/jim_morrison_big.jpg\">present</a> for ya <img src=\"http://www.haloscan.com/images/smileys/clin_oeil.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" width=\"15\" height=\"15\" /><br /><span class=\"byline\">           JJ | <a href=\"http://unrepentantoldhippie.wordpress.com\" title=\"http://unrepentantoldhippie.wordpress.com\">Homepage</a> | 06.28.09 - 7:23 pm | <a href=\"#211133\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211137\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=0e9d1979be145a6e0ce6169139df6dd9&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Absolutely fabulous and also moving, funny and beautifully written post.<br><br>Merci, Bruce!<br /><span class=\"byline\">           deBeauxOs | <a href=\"http://scathinglywrongrightwingnutz.blogspot.com/2009/06/wake-up-maggi\" title=\"http://scathinglywrongrightwingnutz.blogspot.com/2009/06/wake-up-maggi\">Homepage</a> | 06.29.09 - 1:22 pm | <a href=\"#211137\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"211138\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=d3c978e357853ddfcd4f79c705060161&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />JJ, Thanks, I was going to use that shot at first but changed my mind.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Bruce | <a href=\"http://canuctude.blogspot.com\" title=\"http://canuctude.blogspot.com\">Homepage</a> | 06.29.09 - 2:49 pm | <a href=\"#211138\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr>    <td class=\"InputCell\">                  <br /><div style=\"margin: 0 auto; width: 260px;\"><a href=\"http://www.futureofinfluencesummit.com/\" target=\"_blank\"><img src=\"http://www.haloscan.com/images/fio_banner_260x100.gif\" width=\"260\" height=\"100\" border=\"0\"/></a></div><br /><div id=\"newcomment\"></div><form method=\"post\" name=\"addComment\" action=\"http://www.haloscan.com/comments/brucetude/4390254712797154279/\" target=\"_self\">        <p>    Name: <br />          <input name=\"name\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          Email:<br />          <input name=\"email\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          URL: <br />          <input name=\"url\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          Comment:&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href=\"javascript:emo_pop()\" title=\"Smiley and tag help\" target=\"_self\">?</a>&nbsp;<br />          <textarea name=\"addMessage\" rows=\"12\" cols=\"38\"></textarea><br /><input type=\"checkbox\" name=\"subscribe\" id=\"subscribe\" value=\"1\" /><label for=\"subscribe\">Notify me of followup comments via email</label>        </p>        <p class=\"PSubmit\"><input name=\"submit\" type=\"submit\" value=\"Publish\" style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"SubmitButton\" />&nbsp;<input name=\"previewMessage\" type=\"submit\" value=\"Preview\" class=\"SubmitButton\" />        </p>      <input type='hidden' name='user' value='brucetude' /><input type='hidden' name='comment' value='4390254712797154279' /></form>    </td></tr>  <tr>    <td><p align=\"center\">        Commenting by <a href=\"http://www.haloscan.com/\" target=\"_blank\">HaloScan</a></p>      </td>  </tr></table><img src=\"http://c5.statcounter.com/counter.php?sc_project=561713&amp;java=0&amp;security=01eeff58\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" /></body>");