I notice a guy's eyes first. But that reinforces your point, because I notice his eyes only if he's willing to look at me straight on, to catch my gaze and hold it - long enough to make me squirm. That willingness, put another way, is confidence.
Welcome back, CS. And yes, you are right on all counts with this post. A guy's confidence and the way he carries himself is definitely more appealing than any number of physical qualities.
And it's always enhanced after a few shots 
HC.... good to hear from you again. Seems u remained in prime blogging form. And i see we must compare "beer goggle" stories
First time reading the blog and this post jumped out at me. Somethings, especially confidence can't be taught.
Oh, I've got quite a few of them...and of course I never stopped reading
just wanted to chime in and totally agree with the confidence being the biggest turn on. Then of course eyes and hands for me 
Also want to point out there is a huge difference between solid confidence and arrogrance and being cocky. True confidence is one of the most attractive attributes to humans, it is magnetic and warm and welcoming and very sexy.
Thanks for reading Pleth and Mnwhr...ill look forward to ur comments.
I think the same can be said for women as well though. A confident woman is as sexy woman. Although unfortunately, to a man who is himself not confident, she is probably too often labeled a bitch.
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