I married a very calm person. When we were first married, I was always looking for a fight. I would get frustrated WHY WON'T HE FIGHT!! I wondered if he lacked, passion, interest, intelligence (yeah, I was a pretty screwed up new bride), whatever.
And then I realized that he wasn't lacking anything. I was.
I can just about count on one hand the number of "fights" we've had; if you can call them that? It just isn't how we roll. And it is all Plantboy. I hate to think how messed up both our marriage and our kids would be if he had adjusted his mellow demeanor to my reality. Not pretty.
Yeah. I've thought before that I like the sound of your Plantboy. 
I grew up in a fairly volatile house and it's certainly nothing to aspire to.
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