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This is a tough one. I understand how you feel. But eventually it's their own decision. They have to to live with it and be responsible for their own (future)actions. You can only accept their decision. You don't have to support it, but you have to accept it.
Of course you can try to talk with one of them in private and carefully approach him with your thoughts about this. 'cause of course you just want what's best for them and you don't want them to make stupid mistakes.
But I know it's too damn hard to just go up to them and confront them about it.
Or maybe they're really meant for each other and you just don't realize it yet?
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Thanks Martin. yeah that is a good point. I guess i was just really shocked but if they're happy, who am i to get in the way.
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25.08.06 - 9:44 am | #
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hahaha! ur last line made me laugh! xD
First of all, dont be strict with yourself for not telling them what you really mean and considering yourself selfish, because u cannot do anything. We all have our opinions and we can freely express ourselves, but sometimes we have to know the top of what it is our business and what it is not.
I personally agree with you about marriage thing, that I much prefer to spend long time with the person first and then decide whether to marry him or not. However, you cannot compare yourself with other in the sense that your bf's brother might be a more dependant person, maybe less sociable, maybe needs having always someone close to him, maybe thinks that marriage will give him balance.... I dunno. What I know is that everybody is a world.
Mmmmmmmmm....Flav, just do what you want. Obviously we can be conditional on society behaviour and trends, but do whatever u want.
take much care!
P.D: sorry, I think I finished off topic! lol
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