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How do we know the yellow bear is taking it anally? It could be a girl bear in the (less anally intruding) doggie position.
Re: Cars: During the boy/girl car nuzzling scene, my daughter stage whispered to me, "How do they have babies?"
She stumped me.
About the rabbit book--I did a search at the Stump the Bookseller page
http://www.logan.com/loganberry/...erry/
stump.html
but couldn't find a book that matched. The original questioner might find it worth the $2 to submit a query, as the people who hang out there are very good.
Hats off to Andrea, but as I learned from a college acquaintance who had quite the reputation for loving this particular activity (go figure)... the trick to not gagging during a BJ is pretty simple: Focus on breathing through your nose.
Hey Anne,
That's one of my favorite bookstores to go to in person! How neat to see it here! WOOT!
Flea,
Don't know the Harriet book either but will do a bit of searching myself.
And one of the best things about being a lesbian is no more bj's. Heh.
JJ
Mustang Sally beat me to it -- you can't gag and breathe at the same time. If you keep reminding yourself to breathe, no gagging.
"...And one of the best things about being a lesbian is no more bj's. Heh..."
Hmm, well, even for hets it *is* an optional activity.
The giver of the attention can certainly give some negative reinforcement towards forced repeat episodes.....
I totally get how the gag reflex can throw you off your game, but with the giver in the superior position, s/he has all the power [rubs hands together gleefully].
I always enjoyed giving, because how else are you going to get that much power over a guy? Nothing else we do makes them as grateful, that's for sure. Give a good one, and he's your slave for some time.
The books sounds a lot like "I, Houdini" which I loved.
The author is Lynne Reid Banks.
stresch, lynne reid banks wrote (aside from my beloved indian in the cupboard books) 'i, houdini' and 'harry the poisonous centipede,' but neither's the harry/harriet rabbit book. (unless you were just saying that she wrote 'i, houdini,' in which case, thanks.)
and thanks, everyone, for helping with the harry/harriet book search. (i'm the writer of that letter - flea, thank you for publishing it!) hopefully something will turn up.
Jaime...
abebooks.com has a forums section for just this kind of question and it's free.
From what I can tell it's where librarians hang out when they are tired of telling people where the bathroom is and want to do what they trained for.
It's entirely possible to give good head without deep-throating. It's not at all necessary to gag yourself to give him the orgasm of his life!
Put your hands to good use while your mouth focuses on the head of his cock. You won't hear any complaints, trust me.
Anne, if I'm not mistaken the rabbit isn't a book. Although there is one on my nighttable, just like a book.
That photo is awesome.
Is Owen Wilson really your ex boyfriend? Heh.
You're wondering why they grow crops?
I want to know why the cars all have doors with handles. What is that? Some evolutionary throwback, like the appendix?
Also, what's up with naming all their cities and towns and racing prizes after body parts? I don't live in "Liver Springs", or "Spleen County". That'd be kinda creepy.
Mom101 - yes, Owen is my ex-boyfriend, in that totally fictitious kind of way.
I think the description of your childhood book sounds *a lot* like "I, Houdini" (escape artist pet named Harry, living under the sink (possibly also the bit about babies)) conflated with "Bunnicula" (rabbit, school pet, some more escaping). Both of which I loved and read at the same time. So I can totally see them becoming one book in memory.
But maybe your memory doesn't do that like mine does.
At any rate, I highly recommend those books, although probably not for a baby shower (since they are about 3rd grade level).
Is a bj ever complicated? Girl just needs to jump in and use her tongue and hands instead of sticking it down her throat. And decide whether or not to still be there when the shootin' starts, so to speak. But then I never really understood the squeamishness about that. Hell, it's just protein. Not even fattening....
Next time you see Eric, ask him how long those bears had been going at it. They look kind of sweaty.
In 'I, Houdini,' does he end up being a girl and being renamed Harriett? I know I was six and memory's faulty (though I'm only 23 now), but I am as sure as I could be about those parts.
As for the baby shower, I ended up giving 'Courduroy' and 'Strega Nona.' A bit advanced for a newborn, but 'Pat the Bunny' just seemed so *obvious*... and once I saw 'Courduroy,' I couldn't resist. ('Strega Nona' because the dad's Sicilian.)
Flea and Andrea -
Thanks to both of you for answering my email and the good BJ advice. And thanks, commenters, on your good advice as well. Time to practice!!
Hugs to all,
mgn
to Andrea ("deep throating is overrated") and others who pointed out that one can perfectly well please a male human with actions well short of full-on DT: yes, of course. But there is still, for at least some of us (and I'd bet it's WAY closer to 100% than even I might think), no substitute at all. It's like that first hit of coke, or heroin, is SUPPOSED to be, and isn't. So, whether your motivation is either power and control, or the very generous gift of ultimate pleasure, or whatever...
And wrt to "one of the best things about being lebian is no more bj's": one of my gay male friends once pointed out, all us het's are totally missing out. He claims ALL gay men know how, and most are very good. Does make one think.
Please forgive my ignorance- what is a Roman shower??
Hey, NYHO, my gay male friends all say the same thing too. And isn't it grand that we aren't all the same? My own lesbian friends all agree that there's nothing as wonderful as another woman. Nobody is wrong, everyone's preference is what is best for them, and isnt that great? My own personal version of hell would include any version of anything having anything to do with a bj... but that's just me - been there, done that, hated it, and threw away the t-shirt.
May those who love the bj, both giving and receiving, be very happy. And may those of us who don't love the bj (for whatever reason) never, ever, ever have to do it again. Or even think about it. Which is what I'm going to do right now - quit thinking about it, LOL.
I don't know (about the sex/gender of the houdini hamster). It sounds right, but again, my memory tends to combine books.
I love Courduroy! It always made me want to live in a department store.
Perhaps you could use the "Search Inside the Book" feature at Amazon.com to see if I, Houdini looks like the right one?
Roman showers: a fetish where people become aroused by vomit or the act of vomiting.
Oh, and it also has a more innocuous meaning - a shower big enough for two - but I don't think that's the definition Andrea intended.
Is anyone else just really giggling at the juxtaposition of topics in this comment thread, and the fact that they follow one another with no transition whatsoever?
You get to the next comment and what's it going to be? Cute widdle bunny wabbits or technical advice on Improving Your Fellatio Technique? There's no telling which, tra la!
Yes, we like to mix it up here!
V's Herbie, thank you so much for pointing me towards abebooks.com. I posted on their booksleuth forum, and someone came through - the book is "Harry: A True Story" by Muriel Batherman and Blanche Dorsky. (Turns out my mom was pretty close saying it was called "Harry.") Thank you all so much, and Flea, thank you for posting my letter!
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