document.write("<script language=\"javascript1.2\" type=\"text/javascript\">function emo_pop() {window.open('http://www.haloscan.com/commenthelp.php','Help','width=200,height=320,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes');}</script><table width=\"97%\" align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" border=\"0\" class=\"MainTable\">  <tr>    <td>    <div align=\"center\"><p>Thank you for your comment!</p>    </div>    </td>  </tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"23975\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=ffa83088679b6edecac19e9316f9ddbc&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Can I tell you I love your blog.  You always have such great advice.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           The Diva's Thoughts | <a href=\"http://divateesthoughts.blogspot.com/\" title=\"http://divateesthoughts.blogspot.com/\">Homepage</a> | 03.07.08 - 8:15 am | <a href=\"#23975\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"23976\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=d41d8cd98f00b204e9800998ecf8427e&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Wise words oh dating guru, I know I fall down on the text thing I constantly text, not just men, but my friends, my children, my parents. I didn't even think it might scare men off, it's just so much a part of my daily life, I just included them in.<br><br>xx<br /><span class=\"byline\">           auntiegwen | 03.07.08 - 8:29 am | <a href=\"#23976\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24011\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=444bf0046e6f9adbb66bd1a9021448d3&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Great post!  I'm not as confident as I'd like to be, sometimes, and it's always great to be reminded how important it is.  I've never lived with a significant other before, so now that I'm here with him more and more I'm having to learn how to go from \"hanging out mode\" (where you go there specifically to spend time with them) to \"I live here, too, mode.\"  I'll be blogging about that very soon--you've inspired me!<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Honey | <a href=\"http://honeyandlance.com\" title=\"http://honeyandlance.com\">Homepage</a> | 03.07.08 - 5:20 pm | <a href=\"#24011\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24030\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=c87c588287b69f928e7a4099afd69342&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />'Get a life' - Amen! It is very daunting when men find themselves with a woman that wants to make him the centre of her universe and literally ditch everything else to give him her undivided attention. It means that you end up only being happy when he's around and miserable and insecure when he's not. He can't be responsible for all of your happiness. That's why I always say it;s better to find personal happiness and then the man. Great post as always!<br /><span class=\"byline\">           NML | <a href=\"http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk\" title=\"http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk\">Homepage</a> | 03.08.08 - 4:31 am | <a href=\"#24030\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24041\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=0e27bf3942da30322cdfbbe7aeea5d63&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />awww diva...thanks!<br><br>haha gwen! dating guru? oh my goodness! i'm honored! you may have to set yourself a texting limit girl! <img src=\"http://www.haloscan.com/images/smileys/lol.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" width=\"15\" height=\"15\" /><br><br>thanks honey...oh yeah world of difference there huh girl...it's a big adjustment....can't wait to read your post!<br><br>exactly NML! that very thing is happening to a friend of mine...now all she has is what she is when she's with him...and, sadly, that's ending...then what will she have? yikes!<br /><span class=\"byline\">           lisaq | <a href=\"http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/\" title=\"http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/\">Homepage</a> | 03.08.08 - 8:59 am | <a href=\"#24041\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24048\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=4fe1896b4a655ead589818db188d6280&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />The fourth one make me thinking for a while. It makes me remember, I ever been the victim <img src=\"http://www.haloscan.com/images/smileys/content.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" width=\"15\" height=\"15\" /> But life goes on... Anywhere there are good tips to share.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Susanno | <a href=\"http://pyo2.blogspot.com\" title=\"http://pyo2.blogspot.com\">Homepage</a> | 03.08.08 - 10:44 am | <a href=\"#24048\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24075\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=3ac9874b7d680ea91c37c1c50e3d8eb2&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />I have recommended this article to my friends at LargeSingle.com. It is a dating site for wealthy people and plus size singles. They all like it too.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           sandra | 03.08.08 - 10:32 pm | <a href=\"#24075\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24089\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=0e27bf3942da30322cdfbbe7aeea5d63&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />yep susanno, it definitely goes on. we take with us what we've learned and try not to repeat our history.<br><br>thanks sandra! i appreciate that so much! :<br /><span class=\"byline\">           lisaq | <a href=\"http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/\" title=\"http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/\">Homepage</a> | 03.09.08 - 8:01 am | <a href=\"#24089\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr><td class=\"MessageCell\">    <a name=\"24164\"></a>        <p><img src=\"http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=d0306cf779300e1670c3d842c5263e4f&amp;default=http%3A%2F%2Fec1.images-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FG%2F01%2Fx-locale%2Fcommon%2Ftransparent-pixel.gif&amp;rating=PG&amp;size=28\" alt=\"Gravatar\" title=\"Gravatar\" style=\"padding: 1px; margin: 2px; float: right;\" class=\"gravatar\" />Excellent!  Let me add one more; BELIEVE he is out there.   For the longest time I convinced myself that the person I wanted, Mr. Right, did not exist.  I am now beginning to realize that believing he IS out there is what will make it possible.<br /><span class=\"byline\">           Craze | <a href=\"http://crazedreamersthoughts.blogspot.com/\" title=\"http://crazedreamersthoughts.blogspot.com/\">Homepage</a> | 03.10.08 - 10:56 am | <a href=\"#24164\" title=\"Link to this comment\">#</a></span></p><hr /></td></tr><tr>    <td class=\"InputCell\">                  <br /><div style=\"margin: 0 auto; width: 125px;\"><a href=\"http://www.offbeatguides.com/partner/12345/program/jskit104\" target=\"_blank\"><img src=\"http://www.haloscan.com/images/offbeatguidesbanner.jpg\" width=\"125\" height=\"125\" border=\"0\"/></a></div><br /><div id=\"newcomment\"></div><form method=\"post\" name=\"addComment\" action=\"http://www.haloscan.com/comments/iluvmonkeys2/3927502657727577075/\" target=\"_self\">        <p>    Name: <br />          <input name=\"name\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          Email:<br />          <input name=\"email\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          URL: <br />          <input name=\"url\" type=\"text\" size=\"38\" value=\"\" /><br />          Comment:&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href=\"javascript:emo_pop()\" title=\"Smiley and tag help\" target=\"_self\">?</a>&nbsp;<br />          <textarea name=\"addMessage\" rows=\"12\" cols=\"38\"></textarea><br /><input type=\"checkbox\" name=\"subscribe\" id=\"subscribe\" value=\"1\" /><label for=\"subscribe\">Notify me of followup comments via email</label>        </p>        <p class=\"PSubmit\"><input name=\"submit\" type=\"submit\" value=\"Publish\" style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"SubmitButton\" />&nbsp;<input name=\"previewMessage\" type=\"submit\" value=\"Preview\" class=\"SubmitButton\" />        </p>      <input type='hidden' name='user' value='iluvmonkeys2' /><input type='hidden' name='comment' value='3927502657727577075' /></form>    </td></tr>  <tr>    <td><p align=\"center\">        Commenting by <a href=\"http://www.haloscan.com/\" target=\"_blank\">HaloScan</a></p>      </td>  </tr></table><img src=\"http://c5.statcounter.com/counter.php?sc_project=561713&amp;java=0&amp;security=01eeff58\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" /></body>");