Thank you for your comment!
"Finally, if you're looking for the girl who completes you, rent Jerry McGuire and fantasize about Renee Zwellger. Be your own complete person. Be whole. You don't need someone to complete you. Hell, you don't want someone to complete you."
This is such great advice. So simple...yet so many people just don't get it.
Thanks, great post as always, Lisaq
Excellent post. Yes! Compliment, not complete. And spot on in numbers 4 and 5.
GREAT advice!
Excellent advice, you hit it right on the target. Can't wait to see tomorrow's post!
Lisa,
Men should be thankful to you for giving them great advice here. Yes, Communication is very important.
you're so right trista...it's really sad how many people out there, men and women alike, believe that when they finally find someone their lives will be complete...
thanks sue! glad it was helpful!
glad you enjoyed it diva!
thanks craze...hope you enjoy today's as well...
let's hope it helps them jesie. communication, or lack thereof, kills some many relationships...it really is that important!
Gold, as usual. #5 really sticks out for me, and in fact it reminds me that I need to do more of that. My taste in women actually runs counter to what you would classically think/find (tall, blonde, big boobs, etc). Despite my bluster, I'm actually a personality-centric dude. Thanks for participating too!
thanks lance! i'm so glad you found something that spoke to you...i am pleasantly surprised at your dating preferences...good luck finding what you're looking for!
You have excellent points, however, I feel you may have missed the mark. I think the question is how does a man instill in a woman that instantaneous attraction where she wants a man. This article I believe deals with the aspect after attraction has already been had and how to keep it going.
http://www.attractiontheory.blogspot.com
Hye girl,
This is a great post. Sorry i didnt get around to commenting on it earlier =)
I think all those posts are spot on. In addition to the communication part i think guys really need to learn how to communicate on a body langauge level aswell.
They need to know how to communicate attraction aswell and that usually doesnt involve what you are saying. Its how you act and how you hold yourself.
Hot Alpha Female
www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com
thanks for your comments david. the topic, as it was posed to me, was our own spin on any aspect of attraction. this is where my little brain went.
thanks so much HAF! you're right on about body language...it's a very important part of communication.
When I saw this post, the only thing I could say was WOW!
You've hit the nail on the head. I've experienced one or more of the following on my attempts to date.
Thanks for sharing.
thanks april! i just calls 'em as i sees 'em! 
While being in a position to date, breaking ties with your exes, being emotionally available and a good communicator are important to getting into a relationship, I think they all come AFTER the guy gets the girls. I guess what I'm trying to say is maybe your article should be "How to KEEP the Girl" just some thoughts, would love to hear yours..
http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com
i don't know attraction theory...i definitely agree that those things are extremely important after getting the girl, but i also know someone that doesn't have them isn't getting this girl...
think of it this way...if he can't afford gas to drive to the first date, it will never happen...if he somehow manages to get there and then spends the entire evening talking about his ex or reveals that he still lives with her and does nothing but talk about himself, there won't be a 2nd date...make sense?
Wow. That just hits the nail on the head, doesn't it? If we want to find our dream girl and KEEP her we have to learn from our mistakes - and the mistakes of the five guys infront of us, sometimes, too!
DJ http://www.themodernman.com/top-
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Yep, Don, you got it! It's a learning curve and sometimes not just our own!
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