Thank you for your comment!
Very well said. You must have been at dinner last night with me. That is the exact words we spoke about is a preference for blonds. We all have them.
See, I strayed away from my preferences when I began dating Paul. Sure, I love the blue eyes/dark hair combo that he had going on, but he was 1) younger than me, 2) shorter and of less stature than I like.
I prefer to feel protected by a guy. And, with me being 5'7", the absolute minimum I would ever date is 6'. The taller, the better.
And the more intimidating the better, too. Paul, though a yeller, is a pussy. I hate that. It's probably a contributing factor to why things didn't work out with my ex-husband either... he was a pussy.
What I like is a fine line between wuss-dom and tough-ville. I don't want to be with a guy who I feel threatened by/afraid of. But I don't want to be with one who is a total pushover either. See, fine line.
The BF has said more than once that I am not his usual type, either. Like Eathan, he prefers blondes, and I'm anything but. But he still thinks I'm gorgeous, and we get along great, which is the important thing in the end. Thanks for the shout-out!
Haha Eathan. Yep, I was right there with you. Didn't you notice me sitting beside you? 
You're right...we all have 'em.
I've had similar experiences Sue when I stray too far away from what I know I want. It just doesn't seem to work out.
Anytime Honey. You made the point better than I could put into words! And you're right, how you get it along is really what matters.
Oh I feel a post of my new fantasy man coming on ....
Oh goodie Gwen! I can hardly wait! 
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