Who else did she give Valentines to is what I wanna know. I once worked with someone who gave out Valentines the way we did in grammar school.
At first I thought, well, maybe she's just the type who gives out Valentines to people she works with and it means nothing. Except .... if she hasn't given out Valentines any other year, why would she start now?
For the record, anyone at my college who handed out Valentines would be laughed at.
Tell her you're married.
I agree--the obvious question is who else (if anyone) did she give a valentine to? Also, did the card say anything other than the printed text and her name?
HA! Maybe she has a fantasy life and is wooing you for that? Oh she wishes... LOLOLOL
If she mentions it, I'd just say thank you but no candy hearts? LOLOL
IMHO, that almost borders on creepy. Gives me the shivers just thinking about it.
well, I'm 99.9% sure it's not romantically motivated.
And she didn't give them to everybody.
I think it's a gesture of friendship. Which is weird since we are by no definition friends.
That would entirely freak me out.
Valentines and offices just don't mix.
Nothing trechant to add, but wanted to chime in that it's very weird. You're probab;y right that she's wooing you, but what kind of person thinks a Valentine's card in that situation is the way to do that?
Okay -- given how you've described your relationship with OP, her gesture is kind of creepy. Or, at very least, suspect. But I have to write in defense of valentines. I love them, and I've always believed that they were more for sending to friends than to anyone with whom I was romantically involved. In my family growing up, we always observed the valentine's holiday is small, loving little ways, and so it was more to me a holiday that had Christmas' good feelings but with none of the pressure to exchange gifts... The upshot is that I send valentines to a lot of female and grandparent-aged friends each year. (It works well for me -- because I'm disorganized enough in Decmember that I rarely get to send Christmas/holiday cards to more than a few people. And in Feb. I'm more likely to have time to write a short letter in a card.) But I likely would never do this for a work colleague -- not unless she were also a close personal friend outside of work. But it is possible that OP jus
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...that OP just likes Valentines Day in the same way that I do. Depends a lot on the message and nature of her card to you, I'd guess.
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