whatchutalkinbout folk?
Darn you woman..aight I'll do it tomorrow
Oh no you didn't!
I swear to god woman, if this was anyone but you I'd resort to fire arms.
But, I guess I gotta do it.
you deserve the award nikki
i love your candor
unfortunately so many women go through these trials on a regular basis
for the guy, if you want to learn how women think just go to their blogs
its that simple
i got an award and im scared too
but i gotta do it though
peace nik
You deserved this award.
Ewww..@ dude saying that's the best sex ever. No the hell it isn't. That's the nastiest sex ever.
LOL @ #5.
4. um woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow…shame.
5. LOL!!
6. Feel ya…my grandparents were married for over fifty years…miserable together…happy once she moved to Florida and he stayed in Brooklyn.
8. I’m with you on this one…can’t do it. I know a lot of people do, but I think it’s disgusting.
10. This one floored me…there’s so much to process. Had no idea about the rape, but so sorry you had to go through that. In spite of that you made me smile with that last sentence…Girl the very thought of being with a woman is enough to make me focus harder on being with a man!!
You definitely deserve this award!
i knew you were tagging me! and i will comply 
you're the most honest person i know!
Goodness gracious alive, chick... You told it all didn't you?
I will have to uh, think on mine. I get too honest over in the House of LadyLee, and you all may run up outta there. You know we likes to keep it smurfy over in dem parts. I will get it done sometime next week.
Haven't talked to you lately. You've been in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all is well and hope you are taking care of yourself. Call me!
I got this award and did not post honest things about myself. I don't think I can.
We gotta figure out away to get you a Big O. I feel like I want to open a counseling session.
Wait, you didn't even have one when you did it on your cycle? I'm confused.
Your marriage is yours not your parents. I've avoided getting married several times in order to avoid what my parents had/have. But I would like to try something new and improved.
man i love the way you kept it all the way real
i have mad respect for you to just lay it all on the line like that!!
you go girl.
Thanks for the award, some one gave me the award last month do I still got to post again?
Well G'dayum Girl! That's some honesty fo'ya ASS!
Had my parents stayed together, I probably would've neeever said "I do". They were toxic together...but they make for decent friends now. If I stayed with and married the pre-wedding nooky "old flame"...let's just say one of us would've been in hell or jail. My cell would've been hooked UP girl.
Someone else tagged me for this. I should really get around to doing it, lol.
The first time I heard "Whenever You're Around" I had to pull over because I was sobbing so hard. Sounded just like my last relationship.
Thanks for the love... I too Thoroughly subscribe to the NEVER EVEREVEREVER counting bad lays E-Ver!
LOL - so funny. You really are honest, huh?
I've said this before in a comment, but I swear we've lived parallel lives. Items 1-4 are EXACTLY the life I'm currently living.
Just wonder when I'll have the guts to leave.
YAAAAAY!!!
I'm so glad you did it
For some reason, I thought you'd be the person least likely to. LOL
Thanks for sharing!
That is what I call honesty
Love that you shared so much
WOW @ no O's during. That has to be quite frustrating. It would be for me.
Choosing to leave is the hardest decision you ever have to make.
I can't be that (verbally) honest.
Dang Nikki! This is my first stroll through your page and my mouth was open before I was done with #1! I had the EXACT same experience, I actually paused and my fiance/almost husband squeezed my hand so the "I DO" was more of a "Let my hand go fool!" Guilty as charged on #3 also! I would actually TELL my husband, "Why don't you go find someone else? How about that new girl in C building?!?!" I think more people can raise their hands on #7 than people care to admit. I have a man now so that's slowed down . . . SOMEWHAT. LOL!
Well gosh dangit. I thank you SO much for the nomination. And yes, I did complete the almost painless (yeah, right) process of listing 10 honest things about myself.
Blu also nominated me, so I gave y'all a "friendly" nomination of my own in the post. LOL
Before arriving at the seriousness of #10 on your list, my fiance was getting a kick out of the other items. Wanna know what his crazy a** said when he got to #7?
"I bet she has a dildo. With bumps. Nice sized bumps. And when she pulls it out, it sounds like a guitar... brllingggg.... I don't know what I'm gonna do with him.
Thanks again for the nod, and for sharing with us!
I am quoting the 30 year celebration of being incarcerated...sure am.
We got out though, didn't we Nik...lol
I like.
Wow that was intense to read. How did I not know you'd been married?!? Great list.
Hmmm @ some of the best sex ever. LOL. For a minute I almost had a thought about trying it, but thought about all that damn blood running down our legs and onto the bed.
Then the smell...
I wouldn't have guessed you to be a masterbater.
yeah you done up and told all ya biz... if you masturbate that much then you must have a high sex drive so that sucks that u cant buss off just dick... personally only 1 dude has gotten me to buss just on dick... if he wasn't so dumb in every other aspect of life I would have married his ass off that alone
WOW. I know that had to be difficult to be that brutally honest. This is the first post I've read and I'm loving your blog already.
i feel u on 1,2,3,& 6. i feel u on some others but damn if u didn't hit the spot on those 4 right where i am today! only difference is its going on 7 years for me... 
i'mma have to blog about that.
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