Kate, the book is spot on...if I guy likes you he will move mountains, but if your not sending him the right messages he'll move the mountian for someone else.
Women are in control...but only if the guy is into you...if he's not then you may as well try to stop the dawn, nothing you do will matter. But then if your not into him, it doesn't matter what he does...
...maybe what the sexes need is just some plain old fashioned honesty.
I haven't read it yet. I was so angry over that whole post-it thing though!
I think the trick is, girls control relationships, but they can't ACT like they control them. They should control them, but they shouldn't let their man realize they are doing it. Once I figure out how to do this, I'll let you know. Currently, I have no clue.
Hi! Thanks for the comment. As of now I'm moving to California, I don't have a job yet, or a roommate so It's going to be tough, if you know of either let me know! Sarah and I are going to stay together and she's goign to try to transfer to music school down there. We will see if she can. Anyhow, thanks again.
Tyler Knott
Of course the book is spot-on. It's like a Dictionary of the Bleeding Obvious. But still, I'm told, it's a very good read.
LOL at Mr. Miyagi.
Thank you!
found your site via miyagi's page.
wanna add my two cents worth cos i just broke up. ppl going through a break up like to add their two cents worth on relationships.
neglect gender. i think the person who cares less is in control of the relationship.
Haven't read the book, but if someone neglects to call you their girlfriend/boyfriend in public, that's a red flag right there. It's like they don't want to acknowledge you for what you are. Then, it's time to move on.
who is that cold to not call you their girl/boyfriend? If my partner neglected to do that, adios biotch. Well assuming there wasn't a half-decent excuse...
Totally agree with dichotomic: the person less interested has more control, meaning neither should have control if it is an ideal relationship.
I read it. Bought it as a fluffy read as you did, something to escape the textbooks and client reports for a bit.
If you're single and dating it is worth the quick every now and again. For most people I know it won't reveal anything they don't know deep down, but sometimes we all need a little reminder.
I got to say the book sounds interesting - I may take a look at it.
OK, first (because I'm a Virgo) I have to clear up that the line was uttered by Berger about someone Miranda was dating.
I agree that the whole game-playing thing is such bullshit. I didn't read the book, but I'm sure it's completely accurate. It also seems that men really enjoy the wolf-sheep chase (some leftover caveman behavior I guess), so when we are more assertive about the pursuit they freak.
Which is why I'm retired. (Nice to find your blog, btw. I'm sorry about your cat. 
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