OMG. I am totally going through a similar situation with my law school bff (Zack) right now. I know I should bring it up with him, but I know what he's going to say and I don't want to have that conversation.
My approach (which I don't necessarily recommend, BTW) has been to sort of distance myself from him a little bit till I can deal with my own issues before attempting to have a conversation with him about the state of our friendship.
Good luck with BFF! Hopefully you guys get it all sorted out. Let me know what happens - and I can apply your method to my situation if it works out hahah. 
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