thoughts...usually with attitude...

Gravatar I have wondered about that very same question. I guess we're both just too damn nice. You sneaky girl going out to see your boyfriend after curfew. I would never do anything like that
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Gravatar tee hee...no, junie, i KNOW you never would've done something like that!!


Gravatar There is a difference between being meek or nice and letting dome one shit on you. My own take on bring nice ( and it seems that is my rep) is that you give what you are able, set boundaries and limits and leave it at that. When a "girlfriend" left for her own stupid reasons with me in the hospital, I really did not look back. After. I attempted to make sure I could say hello if I met in the street (which finally happened, but nothing else), but she was too full of herself to understand that. I did set limits and boundaries and that was that. She is not my friend, only some one I used to know. My kindness is that I will not do the same thing to her and be courteous.


Gravatar wm--yeah, there's a big difference between being a friend and an acquaintance...my friends don't hurt me like that! and i really hope i have enough kindness to never do this to another!


Gravatar Oh I thought it was the geek shall inherit the earth.

As for your question *shrug* people are like that just try to avoid them if you can.


Gravatar sj--yeah, but you hope that because you're a geek, right?? you don't want the earth, you want a whole 'nother planet!! lol! and, the problem with avoiding them is...WTF do you do if you mistakenly married them??? this crap didnt happen til after 17 yrs of marriage! he didnt start out this way, for heavens sake!!


Gravatar No. Never knew anyone like that. But you have got me thinking...shit what if I am the one that people know that is like that? Gasp.


Gravatar ...christine...you? hell no! the only people that think anything bad about you is...well...ummm...guys that you've been real with? hmmmm...


Gravatar (1) That sky is really blue.

(2) I think reality shows (and I'm assuming 16 & Pregnant is such fare) edit people so that they're meaner, stupider, or pettier than they actually are. Maybe it's because they believe that if they don't, the public won't see the drama in the procedings because they truly believe the audience is somewhat stupid to begin with.

(3) As for your friend who has the dirt on everybody: this kinda reminds me of J. Edgar Hoover. He kept the dirt on everyone by dint of secret dossiers on their personal lives, and he apparently didn't mind using it to his advantage. And all the politicians fell over themselves to be his friend. As LBJ said of Hoover, "I'd rather have him inside the tent pissing out, than outside the tent pissing in."


Gravatar x---1. yeah, it looks great, doesnt it?
2. you know what? you hit the nail on the head with that analysis! i never thought about it like that b4, but that's it exactly!
3. actually, i'm the one who's got more dirt on everybdy than you could ever imagine! i guess the thing is that everybody knows that i would never open my mouth, because that would just be wrong...


Gravatar I come from a railroad family. My grandfather and my uncle were both engineers, and I would have liked to be.

That really has nothing to do with your post, it was just an aside.


Gravatar thomas, you know what? i would've liked that too! traveling & everything!


Gravatar Man, you were so lucky! I didn't have a train to blame for being late. I've got a brother like that, does whatever he wants, and it's supposed to be OK. Well I can stands all I can stands, and I can't stands no more! The world plays by my rules, or I just stay home!


Gravatar I must therefore be careful what I say around you, then.


Gravatar x--hahaha! no, trust me, i'm like a sponge, soak it up...but don't let any out...til i'm squeezed...but nobody's ever been able to squeeze that hard!


Gravatar Hey Lib! Back from GA. My sister loves My Cousin Vinney! I thought it was ok but not as funny as she thinks. I don't think I really have anything on anybody because I usually let stuff like that go in one ear and out the other. And I have to agree...meek is not a word I would use to decribe you. Kind? YES, but definitely not meek


Gravatar peach--welcome back! i was afraid you'd stay there~! we need to get together again!!




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