I don't think there is an easy way to reject people. The fact that you're able, and willing, to see it from the dumpee's perspective means you're already ten times more sensitive about it than most guys out there, so don't worry too much.
Best of luck in San Francisco. That's kind of how my boyfriend and I met (although our only sordid mutual interest was blogging). We've been together two years now, so you never know!
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