Inter-racial dating between asian and white men is pretty thorny. I've definitely felt less of these complications in casual hookups with white guys (less hung up on the fact that they are white and I am asian), and more when I am thinking of dating a white guy.
Thought you might be interested: Jenn at reappropriate has a recent post about inter-racial asian-white straight dating/marriage (isn't it cute how our hetero brothers and sisters can't talk about love without talking about marriage? And now, it seems, we can't either... :-P) in which she rebuts some points made by the Fighting44s criticizing her earlier declaration of acceptance of inter-racial dating for all.
We've got it pretty tough huh?
Just can't win sometimes... If someone excludes me for what I am not who I am, they're being sexually racist but if they only want me because of what I am (a fetish), they're being weird...
Might as well give up while I'm ahead and just get used to a life alone...
I am beginning to give up, scrambling around for a possible partner only to be ignored or misunderstood.Why even if your more attractive than they are you'll still be ignored purely on the basis of your ethnicity. I'm not surprised that there are fellow GAMS out there who have attempted suicide. It really is too much and I am fed up. What I really want to know is when will things begin to change and when will we make a stand?
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