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This is your absolutely funniest story, ever.
In college, whenever I'd break up with my boyfriend, I'd go out with one of our friends. Three out of seven turned...
Does anybody ever remember the other four?
Yeah, it does sound like your gaydar antennae need a little fine tuning. I'm still in awe that my parents and their friends had no idea that someone I went to high school at ASL with (American School in London, in St. John's Wood) was gay until he died of AIDS in the mid-80's. I was like "What? You never knew that? His parents never knew that? The rest of us did, and we were just teens at the time."
It was sad--he was a really nice guy that everyone liked, but I never thought his being gay was a secret. Apparently, the older generation was clueless. He never came out of the closet, so to speak, but we all knew, and nobody cared.
Your story was absolutely hilarious!
I wasn't your first then?
Wow, your life in dating has been more exciting than mine.
great story, perhaps he played for both teams????
I don't know, I've felt flattered that a gay guy thought I was attractive enough to bother with. I've dated guys who were bi (The Boy isn't), and sometimes it was fun pointing out which guys we thought were hot. I even set up two of my exes, and they dated for years.
Also, why were you worried about his being permiscuous and infected with anything because he was gay or bi? Didn't he use protection with you? (Not to get REALLY personal, or anything, I just am surprised that was the first thing you mentioned. You definitely don't need to answer this question, I promise!)
Yeah, in law school I dated a guy who EVERYONE thought was gay. I thought he was gay until he asked me out. We broke up after two years..he never wanted to make out or have sex or anything. We're now friends, I still think he's gay. He has a girlfriend. I just feel sorry for her.
this is a funny story! probably you were more bored than you thought you were for missing all those hints!
btw, is it ok if i link you to my blog?
One of my ex-boyfriends is gay. I was furious when I first found out - a couple of years after we broke up - but now we are still close. He calls me Grace and I call him Will. He's still the same guy - he's great and one of my best friends!
24 is a late bloomer now? I'm downright wilted then considering I'm 28.:(
Alektra, what is your fucking problem? You are too weird for words.
Seersucker suit and bow tie?
Sweetie, your Gaydar was certainly broken! And when did you have the miracle surgery to restore your eyesight?
Ha-ha!
oh dearie me. i can't help you there. i was a fag hag once a few years ago.
i've been to lucy's!!!
that lucy is something, isn't she? her beehive is astounding. i've never meet a guy there. not even a gay one!
Funny how it's so disgusting for guys 2B gay (agreed), but when it comes to lesbians...
...bonus points...
P.S. You can slap me for that 1ne MG. ;)
Cheers.
I think that would give me the willys too! You're a riot!
Kero: Sure!
Tea: Mayne it's the same guy!
Curator: Slap!
Alektra: Huh?...Are you reading the same post? And where does it say I was worried about him being permiscous? LOL you are funny! Though I really did donate blood for free CDS!
So um... Ted?
How's the weather on that island of denial?
Hehe
Seriously funny!
Congrats on the bun in the oven!!
my comments keep disappearing from you, i'm starting to get paranoid, is it me or are you deleting?
oh yes it will be a tent...there aren't many RV's over here...
great story btw...lol
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LOL!
Great story!
So he was bi then? Whatever...glad you're healthy ;0)
I am feeling that story. I also dated a man who displayed signs of gayness from the beginning that I chose to ignore. We didn't date too long before I realized he would much rather spend time with his "best friend" than me!
Great story. And I agree with another poster, I think he's bisexual and could be experiencing some sexual confusion. Wouldn't blame you for being weirded out though.
oh dear @ seersucker suits and bowties. Good thing ya got out with your panties and bras or I'm sure he would have tried them out too-purely experimental of course.
I had a friend* (sigh) once who told me it only happened one* (lots more since then) time during a drunken stupor. Yah right! I think my gaydar was broken.
Yay, breakfast! I'm starved... :)
That was a lovely story and it's funny, just this past weekend a friend and I were talking about how an ex of mine may be gay, we have no confirmations or non gay proclaimations...but it was a fun conversation anyway :) Maybe we all have an ex who is gay?????
I'm glad your gaydar didn't pick up on him right away. This story cracked me up. :)
Lois Lane
Imagine if you had known right away he was gay. Then you would not have had this matzoh ball story to share!
ROFL.
Well he can't be gay if he dated you right? :p So really he shouldbe saying..."I'm not gay, I'm bi."
My second husband announced that he was gay- AFTER having two children with him. My gaydar is broken too.
Yeah guys don't just experiment.
It sounds like your ex was Tom Cruise.
Ugh, any man who experiments with other men, well, thats just screaming gay! And if he still tries to state "I'm not gay" years later? Oh, yeah, he's definitely gay!
hmmm...
i was glad to hear even you look at the medicine cabinet. that makes me feel even better about it. ;)
the seersucker should have been a HUGe alarm. Then again perhaps my Gaydar is selective as well as I DID once date a guy for six months that lived with his precious cat, had enough candles to rival a Yankee Candle Store and had spring form pans in every size imaginable for his cake baking hobby...I still believed he was straight!
I think I saw him in Vegas. He may not be gay, but he apparently still likes cherry bomb lipstick and heels. And boy, did he look fabulous in both!
great story!
LOL funny how he had to keep telling ya
I had a gay boyfriend once, I was pretty mad at first but then just hooked him up with all my gay freinds all is good in the end!
Hilarious! Thanks for sharing. And at least now your gaydar has been tweaked.
I think my ex is gay actually, though i don't know for sure.... I am not sure how I'd feel if I found out he was, but I suppose the best strategy is not to take it personaly.. hm... not too good at that
You poor thing, I would've been freaked out. It's crazy how he's still claiming he's not gay.. he should just admit it or at least say he swings both ways.
Tweak is right! Good grief!!!!!
I think we all know soemone or have dated someone who turned out to cheer for the other team. My sister did. We all knew - she didn't - now she does - end of story.
Hey - I used to go to Lucy's!!
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