try reading this post + the comments from a woman called rachelle

http://www.thursdaypm.org/blog/r...ves/ 000040.html
nomes | 24.02.04 - 5:40 pm | #

i wrote a really long comment in reply to this, but i just couldn't post it.

i guess i can only sum it up in:
they do have a point.
nomes | 24.02.04 - 4:00 pm | #