wow..impressive n a dan gd topic...glad to know tat someone is aware of this issue and hope tat it will create more awareness n we this generation or the next would really try to make an efford to change this bad culture. Learn to take n bear the responsibilty of our own act.
sideline of the main point...the kid in the story could be just a poor kid who is trying to get the attention of the adult....is this consider as cunning or 'smart' or just a simple innocent act...it could b a gd chance if the adult is to put his game aside n give the kid some attention. its hard to define...cos it could make a difference if the adult is to teach n show his kid some attention n tell him or share with him some basic principle in a way tat kid could understand. so d kid will pick up d idea tat i need not hv 2 do this just to get attention.
people are so afraid of admitting tat they are wrong n its dan even harder for them to say sorry, n y is tat so? r they afraid of bearing the consequences or ego, pride or r they simply being irresponsible? fingure pointing, work place politics n forming ur own gang in d workplace is so common everywhere in the world but its especially serious in our asian context. n y is tat so? wat are the things nowsaday parent share with their kids? wat are the value tat hv been pass to them? i was lucky tat i hv some positive experience in learning n knowing the meaning of wat responsibilty n take d consequences. lol...its easy 2 say thou but its dan hard to really do it. several times i was put on test on my learning n believe but i just feel like i am all alone, against all odd. if i am absorbting fault tat is not committed by me but my team mate its gonna affect my performance...i was happy n proud of myself when i decided to admit the mistakes n rectify the case on the spot.once case recity, i hold a meeting n told my team mates with serious attitude.i got them to see why the prob arises breaking the whole process into parts and even hv to draw pictures ,,,lol,,,n who has actually mass up...things started to clear cos evidence speaks...i did not name tat person but the oni 4 words tat i past to them is TRUST, DELEGATION, RESPONSIBILTY n TEAM WORK. But just how many of us are objective enough n not letting our own personal feeling involve when handling things...anything...who they care n concern most in their mind?
by point our fingers at someone, we may get away for this time but are we gonna to repeat when we commit another mistake? how their life hv been affected for tat poor soul who beared the blame.come on lar come to think of it everyone in this world is just trying to hold their rice bowl (lets not talk abt passion n interest), is it fair? thou it is not fair but can we at least try to make it a fairer place n environment? we are easily affacted by our environment but its dan hard for us to change the environment. its either u die or i die world..dog eats dog...n its always its better u die first than i die..
pointing the finger at someone is like saving his or her own arse first
blame and divert the attention to the victim
its like eat dead cat lorr
back again...just realise tat my last paragrah was not shown...:P so lo so hehe
k, after i left the company i dont know wat happened to my ex team mates. they will hv 2 face the challenge n believes if they are put on test.
most ppl i guess hv already dishearten n give up liao. its like this ma...n it will always b like this. but things change human mentality change, to be a better person lol me day dreaming again:P. readers do not drainge all your engery in work cos an exhausted n brain dead mind cant think straight, try 2 give ourseleves some qulity personal time and space to do self reflection, not hard just abt 10 or 15 mins. n once u r put on test, its ur call, u hv a choice,
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