Love it! You write very well but I wouldn't ever expect any less darlin'. Loved it!
Oh, Patrick...this was great! I loved this..it's all about trust, you are so right. We stick our necks out...we *really* put it out there, don't we? And do we ever reap the benefits! *smiles*
I. AM. IMPRESSED!!!
The more I read from you, Patrick, (and Dan/Amber, and a few select others), the more I feel that this lifestyle is something that I have NEEDED. As I said on my diary recently what I like about it is it helps ME define MY role in our, (my wife and I), relationship. I will be the first to admit I was one of those "vanilla" peoople who thought BDSM, D/s consisted only of leather wearing, whip wielding, hand-cuff using weirdo's. Now I realize that that is NOT the case and I, in fact, may very well be one myself!!
A most excellent post my friend!!
SirGringo, with all due respect...leather is awesome. A glove, a belt....leather is sensuous. It is....soft, yet electric! And leather handcuffs, restraining those of us who have trouble submitting..though we want to submit, make no mistake...is MUCH better than the steel handcuffs! Those hurt! We want the *good* hurt, not the bad.
Leather is good. Leather has been stereotyped by the media as being bad or strange. Not true.
Don't ever underestimate the power of leather. Gee, good sig, eh? LOL!
Well said and approached in such a way I could just print it off for to post right around the world for the happy spanky people.. in leather or otherwise 
lol
Excellent bit Patrick, i am so pleased that you shared this with us. It would take too long for me to comment on all the particular points that i liked, but a thought did come to mind when i was reading your observations about how homosexuality is coming to be accepted by society as a whole. Recently our local community was looking for volunteers to do some BDSM demonstrations at a 'trade show' of sorts in this city. The show is aimed towards sex in general, not really BDSM. i was disappointed to see that so few of us volunteered to participate. Some people actually became very agitated that they were being asked to come out and represent the lifestyle. Maybe we should learn a lesson from the homosexuals and throw a parade or something. If we want so badly to be accepted by society we should make more of an effort to educate them. Good job Patrick for doing your part ~smiling~
Bravo!
I think that one of the reasons that it's so damn hard to admit to everyone that you're into BDSM is because it is incredibly rare to find people who truly are non-judgemental. As of today, I have only found one person (and I ain't lettin' him go!) who I can tell anything to without fear of judegement. Until people learn to suppress their thoughts, society will have to hold its inner thoughts in secrecy. Perhaps that's why blogging (anonymous or not) has become so popular.
This is a marvelous composition, Patrick. I kind of feel like any detailed praise I could offer would be merely gilding the lilly.
I'm going to have L read it double-soon, and I'm confident she'll enjoy it at least as much as I did.
I also posted a link to it on our local BDSM group's mailing list.
Thank you. And all that that implies. It will help me as I'm sure it will others who are new.
Sexually this is something I have been craving in fantasy for many many years. I am very switch switch and my SO Loves it. He likes the idea that I am not really all that submissive. He likens it to lion taming. And I love the fact that he is trying so hard to please me.
We are at the 4 months into this aspect of our relationship and yes my little kinks were known before we ever hit the bedroom. We had been just friends for almost two years. He knows me better , warts and all , than any other person on earth. With all of me and I think most of him out in the open, this is the first time in my life I have really been "in love" Its deeper than sex but at the same time sexier and more loving than any thing I have ever known in my life.
I am his little slut or his goddess and I love it.
Hiya Patrick...
I love your thinking, dude. I love the way you argue with such balance. A trait of a good dom/me, I'd say.
Thanks for the site.
I hope you occassionally come back to these comments... I'd love you to continue updating this blog. Please do continue.
Blue skies
love
Roy
the bdsm lifestyle can be for anyone
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