I don't understand why guys don't get this... they don't see all the little things we do each day to show we care. To them, they show they care when they come home at night ("I'm here, aren't I?").

That's the biggest problem with marriage (and it can happen on both sides, male and female): people think the chase is over when it's really just beginning. It's easy for everything to be rosy when it's all new but 15 years down the road it takes a bit of finesse.

Have you considered writing him a letter? Then he can read it when he has time and it will have his full attention. Plus, putting it in writing makes it real. And don't mince words... tell him the whole truth!

Good luck.
Finn | Homepage | 04.28.08 - 12:34 pm | #

Maybe you should consider providing your own romance. Get a babysitter, light some candles, get some wine, make a good dinner with dessert and then have a really romantic dinner with your husband. Not exactly what you want, but sometimes it works for me.
Heidi | Homepage | 04.28.08 - 7:46 pm | #

So what;s your secret donut recipe?
Ginormous Boobs | Homepage | 05.21.08 - 1:18 pm | #