I feel angry, and I feel like an exclusionary bigot at the same time.
I don't see your attitude as anything approaching exclusionary bigotry. It is shameful for packs of straight people to descend on gay bars on Halloween for the purpose of gawking.
One might argue, well how do you know for sure that all of those packs of straight people descending on gay bars on Halloween are there to gawk? Maybe not all of them are, but for sure a lot of them are.
And thoughtful straight people will have an understanding that nobody wants to feel like they are being gawked at, and thus will do what they can to avoid even the appearance of gawking. It doesn't take a fucking PhD to figure out that this means choosing a night other than Halloween to hang out at gay bars.
[Thanks PP, that does make me feel a little less curmudgeonly. 
-SL]
Being bisexual, but still married to a man (thereby pretty much considered straight at this point), I still COMPLETELY agree with you. And I know darn well that all those hetero's were only at that bar on Halloween for gawking. Why else would they bother coming??
I would have been uncomfortable to the point of leaving being that crowded. I'm a bit of a clausterphobic when it comes to large crowds... I don't blame you for leaving. It sucks that your night was cut short though. Hopefully next year will be better.
Oh but hey, I did celebrate Sam-hane that night too!!
Don't hit me!!! 
I'm just kiddin!
I'm not sure what Sam-hane is, but I want in.
So glad I found your blog. pant pant pant. I ran all the way here. But it was, pant, worth it, pant pant.
No I am NOT getting fresh. What the sam hane?
Anyhow, fuck em all. Get the hell out of her club, stinkin' breeders. Go cross dress in your bedroom where you usually do it.
How's that for cranky?
I love you guys.
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