It's not the fact you have sex with others - hell, who hasn't thought about their wives/girlfriends having sex with other men - or women (anyone with even a single testicle wants that! ... especially if they can watch!!)

It's when feelings start to come into that it potentially gets screwed up and I am interested in how James handles that.
Simon | 12.08.07 - 9:30 pm | #

I'll see if I can get James to either write something down or star in a video blog to answer that. But the bottom line is he does not get jealous. He worked that out a long time ago. On my part I have to make sure I spend quality time with him and that is more of a time management kind of thing. In terms of my own jealousy, I know I feel it about lovers who have other lovers. But it is just for a fleeting moment and then I gain perspective about it. I can feel pretty sad when someone I like does not like me back - or likes me but not in the same way I do. That I find tougher to manage.
Seska | 12.09.07 - 7:05 pm | #