I do so enjoy your sharing of your polyamorous experiences, Seska.

The challenges to making it all work! The factors of distance and time, and how it can re-shape an established relationship is very interesting.

Most of all the need to be in the moment, and focused on the love, in front of you, is such an important skill.

Best wishes for Joe's family.
seth | 06.30.08 - 4:01 pm | #

I have a simple question. I have trouble managing one relationship; how do you manage multiple...furthermore, do you work? If so, how do you focus there with this complex personal interactions going on? Sincerely, I wish I could apply such discipline in one relationship!

-Dave
USA

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Dave | 07.01.08 - 11:45 am | #

I think the essential part thing is that my main relationship, the one with James, is really, really solid. He does not get jealous. What I have to keep in mind is time management so that I pay attention to him and to my other lovers. Depending on what is going on my life and theirs this works out well or has its challenging moments. The other key thing is to be present when I am with someone and not think of the future. I have trouble with this as my mind is always racing about future possibilities be they personal or work ones.
Seska | 07.03.08 - 9:40 pm | #