Share Your Thoughts With Seska
Seska, your advice is right on from my perspective.
Threesomes look easy on film, but happy, successful ones are not easy to achieve in real life. It is hard enough to find one other person with whom you are comfortable being sexually intimate. How hard is it to find two such people, and then to have those two also dig each ohter? Very, very hard!
A recent U.S. study found that about 11% of all women surveyed reported at least one same-sex experience in their lifetimes. The number rose to 19% when only the responses of younger survey respondents were considered. So, even under the best of circumstances, there is less than a one in five chance any American woman would even consider having sex with another woman. It is even less likely that any specific pair of women a man might want to fuck would find each other attractive.
Then there's the jealousy factor, as you said. A woman may say she's liberated and won't be bothered by the sight of her man fucking another pussy, but she may change her mind when she actually sees it happen!
I've been fortunate enough to participate in some threesomes, and here are my tips:
--Take it easy and slow. There can be no pressure on anyone to do anything.
--Much touching and caressing is necessary to create the proper mood. It probably will take quite a while for everyone to warm up to the idea.
--When a couple is trying to seduce a third person, the third person must be the center of attention from the other two. The third person should be the first one who gets to fuck the man/woman of his/her choice.
--Men: You may fantasize about being able to satisfy two women, but if you can't get it up after blowing your load early in this incredibly sexually-charged atmosphere it's very unlikely you'll get a second chance with the same women. Be sure to save yourself until they both cum.
I would just add one more tip that I try to keep in mind when I'm involved in a threesome: Make sure everyone gets proper attention. While it is important that the third party is made to feel comfortable and an important part of the act, it is probably doubly important that neither of the members of the existing couple feel left out. This can lead to jealousy which will damage the relationship long after the event. Since I am usually acting as the unattached third party, I do my best to make sure I'm giving equal attention to both the guy and girl in the couple, regardless of which one I'm most attracted to. So far, I'm not aware of any experiences which led to problems in any of the relationship due to jealousy, and the three of us often remain great friends afterward (which usually means we do it again and again...)
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