Gravatar I'm really sorry, Tom. Best wishes for you and your family.


Gravatar May your dad rest in peace, Tom and Steve.


Gravatar My sincerest condolences, Tom and Steve.


Gravatar I'm so very sorry for your loss, Tom and Steve. Your dad, like your mom, was a hero. May he rest in peace with her.


Gravatar Tom and Steve, I'm thinking of you. I knew this was coming, but I thought and hoped it would be farther off.

all my love
aimai


Gravatar My condolences, Tom and Steve.


Gravatar Deepest condolences to Tom and Steve.


Gravatar Steve, Tom, I am so sorry. As far as I can tell, this is the one thing that really sucks as we get older.

May you both find peace and happy memories to get you through this time.


Gravatar Lots of love Tom and Steve, from our family to yours.


Gravatar I am so saddened for your loss. Blessings...


Gravatar Condolences, and may the grieving process go as well as such things can,

--nash


Gravatar Saddened to hear of the passing of your father. Judging the father through his son, he must have been a wonderful man.


Gravatar Thanks, everyone. In this case, there's sadness but no sudden, crippling sense of loss for me because my father was lost to us a little bit at a time, over a period of years, and we sort of grieved for him the same way -- a little at a time, as he became less and less the father we knew. His passing brings relief at the end of his suffering, and allows us to once again remember him with appreciation, which had become hard for everyone towards the end.

Tom and I are fortunate to be part of such a gracious online community as this, and I appreciate your kind words very much.


Gravatar best wishes to you two.

Rest in peace.


Gravatar My condolences to Tom and Steve and their family and friends. May you always remember your father with love.

I didn't see this post until after I left an silly comment about the lack of random Flickr-blogging this week. I didn't mean any disrespect.


Gravatar My sincere sympathy to Tom, Steve and family.


Gravatar My thoughts are with you.


Gravatar Sorry to hear about your father. My condolences and best wishes to the Hilton clan.


Gravatar My heart goes out to you Tom.

I hope you are able to find a moments peace in dealing with this and know friends are there for you if you need them.


Gravatar My sincere condolences, Tom.


Gravatar Tom and Steve, my deepest condolences to you and everyone in your family.


Gravatar I wanted to post a poem for Steve and Tom in honor of their father and mother. While looking through my favorite collection of poems I couldn't find one that satisfied me, except this one which is actually from "Three Poems for a Twenty-Fifth Anniversary." One of the most painful and beautiful things to come out of any loss like this is the realization that our loved parents, grandparents, and (I hope) spouses live on in us. This poem captures that, for me.

I. Housecleaning

after returning
all the tools I borrowed
from neighbors and friends
and the books to the library

I am amazed to find
so many things around the house
like ou
that really belong here

I had though
you were on loan and overdue
the fines were mounting into millions
I could never pay them

so for twenty-five years
I looked everyone straight in the eyes
pretending you were mine
and I kept you.

--Richard Shelton


Gravatar Tom,
Our thoughts are with you and you family.

The Tboggs


Gravatar My deepest condolences, Tom and Steve. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

(((hug)))


Gravatar Please accept my sympathy and condolences. My dad used to say he thought when he died that his nergy would go back out into the universe. My 90 year old mother and I like to imagine him zooming around, observing things.
May your parents' energies be reunited.


Gravatar Lots of good vibes and comforting thoughts being sent to Tom and Steve.


Gravatar My deepest condolences, Tom and Steve. My thoughts and best wishes go out to you and all who loved both your Mother and Father.

Bill


Gravatar Tom and Steve, I'm sending all our collective love and condolences.

Karen, Keith and Alena


Gravatar My condolences to the Hilton family. I am sorry for your loss.


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