This may have been a cuckolding fetish gone awry.
You mean no breathing tube, or the tube slipped out?
I found out about cuckolding fetishes (and a whole host of other bizarre things) from reading the advice column "Savage Love." Basically, some men find it exciting when their wives cheat on them, and a subset of these prefer it to be in the most humiliating way possible. From the description in the post, it sounds like the victim was tied up in a way that suggests some kind of probably-consensual sexual kink. As odd as it sounds, the wife running off with another man for a while would have been part of the game. His non-presence on her MySpace page would fit into this as well.
Whoever tied him up probably didn't adequately account for his oxygen needs, or like you said, the breathing tube (if they were smart enough to use one) may have slipped out while she was gone.
My mother would be shocked that I'm privy to this kind of information. But you learn the darndest things reading "Savage Love."
Oh boy. A friend of mine owned a dungeon in Columbus so this activity doesn't shock me too much but I have a few questions or observations.
1. Who discovered the body and when?
2. If she wasn't there when the body was discovered, where was she?
3. When will they get to those phone and computer records?
4. A pretty vapid MySpace but the song it's playing right now is a cruel twist of fate/irony. It's Monica's "For you I will....." Google the lyrics what a hoot.
5. If it's cuckolding and she's got a good lawyer and no explicit plans or conspiracy can be seen on her computer or anywhere else in writing, she's gonna' either:
a. be tried for murder and win.
b. be tried for negligent homicide and lose.
c. cop a plea.
Related case: The Dedham, Mass Dom who beat a murder rap when the body of the decedent never appeared.
http://christopher-king.blogspot...-of-
murder.html
Life (and too often, death) is a trip.
I found it curious that the man in her top spot has his mood as "naughty" and was online on the 22nd
KingCast,
I found an article that states the body was found by Rebecca Bargy's mother, Mona Phillips. The mother, as stated already, claims to have known all about their sex lives. Rebecca's sister, Frances Rudolph, also claims that James Bargy had asked her to tie him up "for her sister".
Either her family is covering up for her or this really was their lifestyle and her family knew about it. There are photos in the apartment confirming their interest and involvement in bondage. Perhaps it really was an accident.
Still, duct tape over the eyes? Ace bandage around the head? Seems to go a lot father than I ever knew about that kind of lifestyle. Can anyone confirm that these acts are 'normal' in this kind of sex play?
I think you're right about phone and computer records - that will shed some extra light on this case.
This is the link to the article I mention above:
http://www.newschannel5.com/Glob...y.asp?
S=8218854
I don't think there's a standard of "normal" in that scene. It certainly wouldn't be unheard-of, and accidents like this have happened before as well.
Yah the duct tape over the eyes bit I've never heard of. I look forward to following this and reading the new post on the executioner.
Been busy as hell all day with gub'ment correspondence 
Assuming I knew anything about this kind of thing -and I don't-, I'd hesitate to consider this an accidental death.
It seems like they were pretty into this (the fact her mother knows HOW they got it on? the fact he supposedly asked her sister to tie him up?! Oh lawd, I won't even touch that with somebody else's ten foot pole, nuh uh), and it seems like anyone who is into it on that level would not only know the risks, but take steps to minimize. Assuming I knew anything about this -and I don't-, I'd assume you started off with "Safe. Sane. Consensual" in mind, and went from there.
Assuming I knew anything about this, I'd also say you NEVER leave somebody alone when they're bound, especially for that length of time. Unless you're really fluffing stupid, or terribly sadistic & hoping for the worst.
There were some really closed minded comments on a cbsnews site about this story (but I couldn't comment cause the comment area was closed). I'd like to say a few things in response to those as well as anyone who comes across this page with a narrow mind. Some news sites as well drew this woman badly saying she tied him up hoping he would die so she could go screw other men behind her hubbys back. They were apparently into cuckolding which is consensual. It's when a guy gets turned on by seeing or knowing his woman is doing other men. They did this before with him tied up while she's been away with other men, it was fine by both of them (however she should have known better than to leave him alone tied up, or at the very least do it in a sense where he's fully capable of getting out of the bonds if he needs to, and of course restricting his breathing was a major error). There was one comment on the other site from a woman who said that's why she didn't agree with being tied up ever. But the thing in this case was trust. Apart from the logistics of bondage safety, being tied up doesn't mean that person is put directly in harms way because they can't move. I'm in a D/s (dominant/submissive) relationship with a man whom I trust with my life. He ties me up often to the point where I cannot get out of the bonds. But I trust him. He always honors that trust and never abuses it. We both know the safety rules. He never leaves me alone and we have a 'safeword' (if something isn't right I'll say a word we've agreed on so he can untie me or stop what he's doing). If I'm gagged then we agree on some kind of signal. My blood boiled when I read some of the ignorant judgmental comments over this story elsewhere. If you don't understand the lifestyle/psychology of it and/or have never personally experienced it, shut the hell up because you have no right to sh*t all over it. SSC is a term in the bdsm community: safe sane and consensual. That's the point; as long as all parties are consensual and you're not hurting anyone there's no harm. Don't concern yourself or judge something that doesn't affect you or is too outside-your-little-box to understand. Live and let live. This tragedy was an accident and nothing more. All they needed were more safety lessons.
Dear SSCgirl:
As you can tell by my comments I'm not closed-minded in the least, but in my opinion your comment goes to the other extreme by supposing that there is no way she killed him intentionally. To that end you brush off two major issues with your parenthetical: -- "(however she should have known better than to leave him alone tied up, or at the very least do it in a sense where he's fully capable of getting out of the bonds if he needs to, and of course restricting his breathing was a major error)." -- But in point of fact if you're experienced then you know precisely not to do those two things "by accident."
So when you see those things it is not illogical to start looking at motive, which could be and usually is a) insurance or b) someone else. Peace.
To Kingcast: Yes I see that as well. I just commented on what I heard, on the part where they had done this kind of thing before and nothing bad happened. That's what I was drawing it from, as well as that they had a cuckold fetish/relationship. I do agree that yes there may have been something underlying there. I was mainly blowing off steam to people (not here) that automatically drew conclusions that this was a sick/murderous/wrong woman solely based on the fact that this couple practiced kinky/bdsm sex. Thanks for the response.
Right on. You have to be very careful on this board with anything that some might say is conclusory. I am a writer here and you can best believe when I get ready to post my next entry in a few days there won't be any possible other construction than what I present. And I mean: No. Other. Possible. Construction.
Have a great day and keep on freakin' on =^.)
Don't entirely get that lol, sorry for the confusion. This is my first time here
It's All Good because it means that anything that anyone could possibly consider bullshit is not going to fly here, and with that I am fully comfortable.
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