You have a pretty good start already. Here are a few of my favorites:
Take off your clothes ~Morningwood (a little more fun loving of all of these choices)
Sweet Dreams ~Eurhythmics (but I think the Marilyn Manson cover is much more appropirate for the tone you are looking for)
Teenage Lust ~Jesus and Mary Chain (there is always room for some good old fashioned shoe gazing)
Tear you apart ~She Wants Revenge (I think the title says it all, but the driving beat certainly adds more)
#1 Crush ~Garbage
Most songs by PJ Harvey rock as does Patty Smith...
Heart-shaped glasses ~Marilyn Manson (not sure why, but I just want to bite and claw at my Love when i hear that one)
Pussy Liquor - Rob Zombie. I used to dance to this. It has a really good, throbbing beat.
If you can find the mix, and I don't remember who did it, "Crushingly Close" overlaps #1 Crush with Closer by NIN. PHENOMENAL Mix!
There are a few Within Temptation songs that are great if you want something a bit heavier.
Hypo Full Of Love by Alabama 3 (A3 in the US)
http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/...12_Step/
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I suppose I'd better put this here instead of LJ or you'll probably never see it:
#1 Crush - Garbage
Addicted to Love -Robert Palmer
Aw You Salty Dog -Leon Redbone (a distinct change of pace)
and as long as I'm mentioning Leon Redbone and a change of pace...
I Want to be Seduced-Leon Redbone
Back in the Saddle Again-- Aerosmith
Bend Over, I'll Drive -Cramps
Crawling Kingsnake -John Lee Hooker
Black Velvet- Allanah Myles
Blood Makes Noise-- Susanne Vega
Calling Dr. Love -KISS
Camel Walk-- Southern Culture on the Skids
Cherry Bomb -Joan Jett, The Runaways
Daft Punk -Harder Faster Stronger
Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover-- Eels (or) Sophie B. Hawkins
Orgasm Addict-- Buzzcocks
(btw, I might be wrong, but I don't think Buzzcocks ever covered "If you Want My Body"... I believe that you may be thinking of the 'Revolting Cocks'. I've got the CD single of that one somewhere...)
Little Black Mess -Shivaree
So Alive -Love & Rockets
Shut up and Fuck -Betty Blowtorch
Yes Sir, I can Boogie -Goldfrapp
I could spend way too much time doing this...but I'd better not. This is a good start from my playlist. I might have to save this list so I can make a mix of it for myself.
A variety of tempos, moods and musical styles, but these are songs that would fit my requirements if I were putting something together like what you're looking for.
I'll second the suggestion for Alabama3.
In addition:
"Yes" by Morphine
"Super Sex" by Morphine
"Darling Nikki" by Foo Fighters
"The Beat that my Heart Skipped" by Scroobius Pip vs Dan le Sac
"Barbie Girl" by MXPX
"Pain" by Three Days Grace
Want the best, in my opinion? This one used to be a real dancefloor favourite at my local. Try a little number called 'Bilingual' by Jose Nunez (dirty mix feat. Taina) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I...h?
v=IFkfluDUfPI
Woman Like a Man, by Damien Rice, and if you're into a bluesy feel, Gnawin' on It, by Bonnie Raitt. An old lover of mine was terribly fond of Red House, by Jimi Hendrix as well.
kinda I want to - NIN
beat it up right - Korn
violence fetish - Disturbed
99% - Sul Asylum
Lords of Acid, definitely.
Specifically, Show Me Your Pussy (or the Lords of Acid/Praga Khan mix, if you want something a little more techno), but also Rough Sex, The Power Is Mine, Sex Bomb, Boom I F*cked Your Girlfriend... you know what? Most of their stuff is ... not good, exactly, but well suited to vigorous and dirty sex.
Ditto for Peaches.
I'm loving a lot of these other suggestions too!
Sweet Sixteen - Iggy Pop
And c'mon, no romantic night would be complete without Rodney Carrington's 'Show Them To Me'. Such a touch of class 
Believer, by The Old Ceremony, and Strict Machine, by Goldfrapp, are two of my favorites.
Anything by Enya!!
*scampering off snickering*
Here's a few from from my DJ list for the internet radio I work for :
Jose Nunez - Bilingual
Journey - Loving Touchin Squeezin
The Donnas - Take It Off and Take Me To The Backseat
Lords of Acid - Pussy, or Slave To Love
Algorithm - Puppy Girl (very bdsm)
Recoil - Breath Control (very bdsm)
Lovage - Sex (Im a)
Puscifer - Revelations 22:20 (very erotic)
LL Cool J - Doin It
KISS - Lick It Up
Tommy Lee - Get Naked
Bullet Boys - Smooth Up In Ya
Deftones - Change (In The House of Flies)
Divinyls - I Touch Myself
Dokken - Burning Like A Flame
Di-Rect - A Good Thing
Ginuwine - My Pony
Jackyl - She Loves My Cock (lol)
Joan Jett - Do You Wanna Touch Me? or I Hate Myself For Lovin You
K7 - Come Baby Come
Nine Inch Nails - Closer
Prince - 7
Red Delicious - Eden
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Suck My Kiss
Velvet Revolver - Slither
VAST - Pretty When You Cry
Van Halen - Drop Dead Legs
and if your a Violent Femmes fan .. Blister In The Sun
VNV Nation - Cold (remix)
Whitesnake - Gimme All Your Love Tonight or Slow and Easy
That's all from my playlist. Feel free to email me for songs you can't find and I'll send them to you 
Cherry Bomb by the Runaways
It's overexposed, but how about Bad Things (Jace Everett)
Adding
Still Dirty - Christina Aguilara
Nasty Naughty Boy - Christina Aguilara
Flesh & Soul - Blue Hawaiians
Has anyone said Rick James - Superfreak??
But I'd disagree re Blood Makes Noise. Vega said it was about fear of disclosing information & mocking a person who is trying to help you. In the context of the album, it's probably about sex abuse or rape. So, not hot.
I've always found Paula Cole's Feelin' Love to be quite inspiring.
Okay, I may be showing my age here, but I always found Are you experience? to be quite inspirationa.
I'm going to suggest
"Ball and Biscuit" by White Stripes
And
"Flesh is the Law" by Genitorturers
DEFINITELY "Something In Your Mouth" by Nickelback.
Closer (Precursor) - NIN
In Your Room - Depeche Mode
*Moments In Love - Art of Noise
*Chan Chan - Buena Vista Social Club
Protection - Massive Attack
Magdalena - APC
Also any of the Cafe De Mar CDs (especially Volume 1) and DJ shadow's stuff is really good.
Next go round-Nickelback
Addicted- Saving Abel
Jesus, have we forgotten the Pretenders?
"Tattooed Love Boys."
Over and out.
- E
"Just Put it in My Mouth" Akinyele
@Michele:
Far be it from me to argue with the artists' interpretation of her own song, but I think it's safe to say that it's open to more than one interpretation.
And that has never been how *I* have heard it. I think it's a very steamy, sexy song and I don't intend to interpret it negatively just because you and Suzanne do. Nothing personal.
It may make a difference that both Monk and I have been known to operate in a bdsm space where, in the right (consensual) context, both blood and fear can be very sexy. That may not be the context Monk is looking to fill for this mix, but yes, the song is hot.
"Sex Type Thing" - STP
and
"Bad Boys get Spanked" - Pretenders
-"Full-Grown Woman" by JSBX
-Just about anything by Morphine! ("You Speak My Language," "You Look Like Rain" and "Whisper" are especially good)
-"This Is Love" by PJ Harvey
-"Leathersex" by My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult
-"Love You To Death" by Type O Negative
-"Sugar Chocolate" by Danko Jones
Enjoy!
Strongly recommend the Soft Cell, Non-stop Erotic Cabaret album.
http://www.amazon.com/Non-Stop-E...l/dp/
B00005Y1Z4
In particular for this
Tainted Love
Sex Dwarf
Seedy Films
Bad Girlfriend by theory of a Deadman and Something in Your Mouth, Animals, and Figured You Out all by Nickleback. Its possible that you could use a clip or two from Pucisifer's Country Boner as well if you are going for a very nawty theme.
Oh, you guys, thanks for inspiring the playlist for the later hours of my birthday party!
One of my favorites: I was made for loving you, as covered by Queen of Japan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=W...player_embedded
and for the slow part Like a Drug by Queens of the Stone Age
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