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i think YOUR abrasive reactions to comments intimidate readers and prevent them from being revealing on an emotional level (whereas on the subject of politics they have surer footing, being more about facts than feelings) |
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justaguy, this is a good point. But I would said that I react to political and emotional crap with equal disdain. Particularly when politics are being presented as emotions. I don't think I would be able to overcome being annoyed abut this particular aspect of comments. |
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good point though |
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fact is: call people morons and they stay away. Try and be nice. It can't hurt. |
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let's see if this works: moron. |
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i can only speak for myself. i sometimes hear similar talk. and people who say this to me have a valid point. what makes me mad though is that all of a sudden it is all about personal responsibility. where were they then? why personal responsibly comes into the picture only when one wakes up and starts complaining? i feel strongly that this responsibility talk is a kind of דע מה שתשיב לאפיקורס |
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I have been advised to take ownership of my problems and disown my anger at people who I think inflicted some of the problems. I am on the path of following this spiritual goal. But let me indulge my old habit with this footnote. Precisely the people who were in position to take responsibility and they didn't, now point the finger back at you. Spot on, faruq. Sublimated guilt at best? |
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justaguy, Tzemach has gotten much better. |
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why be mellower with the bitches who deserve anger??/ The controling assholes get surprised when you stand for your rights and then use another tactic --- poor me --- poor you -- have rachmonus on me strategy. |
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