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Gravatar NOPE....Especially if the dook you're cheating with is not good...


Gravatar Had to clarify.


Gravatar NOPE.

BUT I DO LIKE THE BILLBOARD IDEA.


Gravatar Okay *rereads post*
maybe, mabye not, who's to say? And if they do, you'll never find their body...


Gravatar No, I don't believe that cheating gives you a free pass, BUT if you are going to cheat then just cheat... fulfill your needs... and I LOVE the billboard...


Gravatar Why still be mad? You got them back, right?


Gravatar Is this too touchy of a subject??? dayum... where'd everyone go?


Gravatar As long as you're hurt, you can be mad.


Gravatar Why still be mad? You got them back, right?
Univgurl

But I doubt you would feel better about it, probably would make you feel worse which would keep you angry!


Gravatar @ Univ- Revenge is a dish best served cold....

--From Kill Bill vol. 1

I wouldn't cheat, but best believe he will pay restitution, whether he knows he's paying or not, preferably the latter....


Gravatar Is this too touchy of a subject??? dayum... where'd everyone go?
NR ♥ Boys!!!!! |

This is one of my biggest fears.... betrayal, abandonment, being lied to.


Gravatar This is one of my biggest fears.... betrayal, abandonment, being lied to.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 2:45 pm | #
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Don't fear it, and it won't happen.....

NR'uhs philosophy...


Gravatar Don't fear it, and it won't happen.....

NR'uhs philosophy...
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Ummm.... that's a negative. I didn't fear it before. and it's definitely happened- right after I found out I'd be having Syd.


Gravatar Ummm.... that's a negative. I didn't fear it before. and it's definitely happened- right after I found out I'd be having Syd.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 2:48 pm | #
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ooops ... okay so scracth NR'uhs philosophy then...

New Philosophy... get them before they get you????


Gravatar Two Ways To Look At Things

My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion, and I kept staring at a drunken woman swigging her drink, as she sat alone at a nearby table.


My wife asks, 'Do you know her?' 'Yes,' I sighed.

'She's my old girlfriend.

I understand she started drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since.



'My God!' says my wife, 'Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'





So you see, there really are two ways to look at everything ......


Gravatar New Philosophy... get them before they get you????
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

LOL.... keep tryin...


Gravatar Ummm.... that's a negative. I didn't fear it before. and it's definitely happened- right after I found out I'd be having Syd.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 2:48 pm | #
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ooops ... okay so scracth NR'uhs philosophy then...


It's is better to have Loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.

There's nothing to fear, but fear itself.


Gravatar From last post

and let it be a high powered one because I've worn out the others....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Here ya go, NoRiega:
http:// www.constructioncomplete....vibeHM1000H.jpg
Goliano


Gravatar eh, I'm done Say.... I am not a cheat, never been my style... but never say never.... he could be the finest man on the PLANET... you expect me to say no?


Gravatar ooops ... okay so scracth NR'uhs philosophy then...

New Philosophy... get them before they get you????
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!



Gravatar Here ya go, NoRiega:
http:// www.constructioncomplete....vibeHM1000H.jpg
Goliano
Goliano | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 2:54 pm | #
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*mouth wide open in awe* Wow!


Gravatar It's is better to have Loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.

There's nothing to fear, but fear itself.
D.A. the Feelosofer

Bite me.






Gravatar Here ya go, NoRiega:
http:// www.constructioncomplete....vibeHM1000H.jpg
Goliano
Goliano

COT DAYUM!!!


Gravatar It's is better to have Loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.


Glooray!

Listening to Pandora......isn't Jagged Edge due to put out another album similiar to all the albums they have put out??! They do have some cuts...*sitting at my desk singing* What's it like to be in love, that's all I'm really thinking of, and I was just wondering..would love ever know me...*opening my eyes* LOL!


Gravatar *coming to*

Thanks big bro!

*I'll be back ya'll*


Gravatar Revenge cheating doesn't work. It only sets off a never-ending cheat machine. Just get out, if that's all you can think to do.


Gravatar he could be the finest man on the PLANET... you expect me to say no?
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

but what if he's the finest man with the smallest swiperism???!


Gravatar would i cheat if my wife did....no...i'd get a divorce...i'd be mad, but then i'd look and see if i were fulfilling her needs...i mean why do people cheat???

the early show talked about it today:
http://www.cbsnews.com/sections/ ...ain500202.shtml

are women better cheaters?


Gravatar Say- my qoute for you today is:

Be Quiet
Be Still
Be Stress Free.


Gravatar Yeah, but how do you get rid of that anger?


Gravatar but what if he's the finest man with the smallest swiperism???!
Twizzy | 03.25.08 - 2:57 pm | #
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let me clarify... finest man with the finest dook and knows how to work that fine piece of dook ... you don't expect me to cheat?


Gravatar Yeah, but how do you get rid of that anger?
Univgurl | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 2:58 pm | #
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By getting freaky... duh!


Gravatar *coming to*

Thanks big bro!

*I'll be back ya'll*
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Don't you break no bones now, ya here?


Gravatar Yeah, but how do you get rid of that anger?
Univgurl

Don't know.... still workin on that.


Gravatar Anger? You'll get over it...is cheating a marriage ender??
I think not!!
now cheating and getting an outside child...You damn skraight!!!


Gravatar *I'll be back ya'll*
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Don't you break no bones now, ya here?
Goliano

Shiiiid, that machine looks like it'll take off a finger!


Gravatar Shiiiid, that machine looks like it'll take off a finger!
Mrs. SayRah

Or a pelvis.


Gravatar i also heard on GMA that more attractive women like plain looking men and relationships tend to be better when the man is less attractive than the woman....hmmmm...


Gravatar Anger? You'll get over it...is cheating a marriage ender??
I think not!!
now cheating and getting an outside child...You damn skraight!!!
D.A. the Feelosofer

I agree 100% with DA on this one!! The baby is #2 of my there for auto divorce.


Gravatar i also heard on GMA that more attractive women like plain looking men and relationships tend to be better when the man is less attractive than the woman....hmmmm...
zoomanjie

Men cheat for many reasons.... i.e.

1. to see if they still "got it"
2. to see if they can get away with it
3. something new
4. something better


Gravatar *staggering back into meiksquared lounge area* that shiiid was no joke.... but it only took 2.4 seconds .. whoo... *looking a little faint* can I get a glass of water please....


Gravatar I agree 100% with DA on this one!! The baby is #2 of my there for auto divorce.
Twizzy

I think I would be so hurt, for a while, I wouldn't know what to do with myself. Specially since we have 2 kids. If I leave, and he marries the new baby's mother, I think ya'll may see me in the same ward as Ms. Spears, or that Astronaut chick who wears diapers.


Gravatar it's all about opportunity and attractive men/or women and powerful men will always have others trying to get at 'em....now if everything is going well at home on the sexual front....all good, but if you ain't giving no bj's (women) or spooning after sex for guys then someone else will...or whatever it is you just drag your feet on whenever your significant other asks...could just be listening that turns into butt nekkid sex at the hojo


Gravatar are women better cheaters?
zoomanjie

I've never cheated, so I can't speak personally. But I do know two of the greatest who ever lived and they're both in my family. One's male and the other is female, so maybe it depends on the person.


Gravatar Men cheat for many reasons.... i.e.

1. to see if they still "got it"
2. to see if they can get away with it
3. something new
4. something better
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 3:03 pm | #
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Yep.... its all a game... seriously... has nothing to do with love hate... its an ego thing.


Gravatar @ Diddy.... what does it mean, other than just being tired, when a man turns down sex from his sig.other?


Gravatar agree 100% with DA on this one!! The baby is #2 of my there for auto divorce.
Twizzy

I think I would be so hurt, for a while, I wouldn't know what to do with myself. Specially since we have 2 kids. If I leave, and he marries the new baby's mother, I think ya'll may see me in the same ward as Ms. Spears, or that Astronaut chick who wears diapers.
Mrs. SayRah

Girl, if he brings another baby into this world while we are married, then she can have all of him!! That is the disrespect I can not handle. I will accept thier child, but we would be done. First of all, you sleeping unprotected which is too risky and then to be that careless, I could only assume he has NO respect for me. I can deal with alot, but a STD or baby or punch, NO! I will leave and go find Ray J I get too desperate and can't dig Tupac up! OL!!


Gravatar Good point Twizzy.


Gravatar Wow. I was just thinking about this yesterday. Our old neighbor cheated on his wife and got the woman pregnant. His wife and his two precious children moved in with her mother in a cramped house and he just let them go there instead of his ass leaving. He and his fully preggo new woman had came to my job to pick up their repair and if I wasn't so focused on ignoring his ass while he was trying to be cordial with me, I would've re-broke his shit.


Gravatar Men cheat for many reasons.... i.e.

1. to see if they still "got it"
2. to see if they can get away with it
3. something new
4. something better
Mrs. SayRah |

to me these are all reasons to cheat if they are things that are not reinforced at home....

i'd want my wife to let me know that i'm still fine or look good naked or get her moist by the sound of my voice just so i don't have to wonder....but that also means i need to stay in the gym to keep my sexiness or get into the gym to get my sexy back...

i wouldn't cheat to see if i could get away with it...powerful dudes KNOW they can get away with it and cheat as a form of conquest...we all miss the game...nothing like NP (new pussy)

now something better....that's the reason why men really cheat!!! we are not programmed to be with one woman, so the one we're with needs to be on point....when she's not....there's always someone else, but what about the kids, mortgage, stature....cheat on the side 'til you get caught work it out....then back on the prowl after a couple months....believe...i seent it with my own eyes....not me, but i wouldn't say it couldn't be me....


Gravatar ...nothing like NP (new pussy)

now something better....that's the reason why men really cheat!!!

zoomanjie


Those statements make me shudder and sick to my stomach.


Gravatar dayum diddy..... I kind of knew that, but to actually see it put out there... hmmm... really makes you wonder.


Gravatar Honestly, for the last couple of weeks, I have been struggling with this. The fear, the insecurity. I know better in my mind, but I guess my heart (?) is scared. I don't expect many of you to understand, most of you seem pretty damn sure of yourselves. But it's hard for me. Very.


Gravatar Is that I am sure of myself... its that I know I can't walk around in fear if I truly want to be in a committed relationship with a man again... I have to put aside the emotional baggage and go into with a clear heart and mind....

not saying that a man won't cheat on me again... but I gotta go in hoping and praying that he doesn't ..... and prayer that I whip it on him so good that he doesn't want to go ANYWHERE...


Gravatar @ Diddy.... what does it mean, other than just being tired, when a man turns down sex from his sig.other?
Mrs. SayRah |

say...why u do this to me....*sigh*

i can only speak for myself, so....if i REGULARLY turn down sex with the wife it's because she's not attractive to me or not doing the things i want her to do in bed....if she did not take care of those issues (which i would have voiced as a concern), i would eventually cheat.....it would take a long time to get to that point, but i would not sit by and feel disrespected knowing that she would not get in the gym or do the things i like in bed


Gravatar if he cheats, i won't cheat, but i will cut his dook off.


Gravatar @ Diddy.... what does it mean, other than just being tired, when a man turns down sex from his sig.other?
Mrs. SayRah |

say...why u do this to me....*sigh*

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I went through that with my ex and he finally broke it down to me that I wasn't as attractive and because I gained weight... it broke my heart...... but I guess I needed to know??? It didnt matter because we didn't stay together...


Gravatar Gail........

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Gravatar @ Diddy.... what does it mean, other than just being tired, when a man turns down sex from his sig.other?
Mrs. SayRah

Your best answer would come from that man.


Gravatar Well, I'm ready for a new convo now.

I don't know how to "just get over it." So I'll try and ignore for now I guess.


Gravatar Say sweetie... no one is telling you to get over... it is just unfortunately a fact of life...

how old are you again Say?


Gravatar Your best answer would come from that man.
Goliano |

He doesn't do it regularly, nor is it blatant. I just notice different reactions to the same type of interaction sometimes.

But I know this is all relative.


Gravatar Tell 'em diddy... that' s real shit.

I can honestly say that what keeps me from sleeping around is... I’m afraid of getting caught, not because I fear that she’ll step out on me, but the fear of letting my wife down and breaking her heart; again.


Gravatar if he cheats, i won't cheat, but i will cut his dook off.
GG is on a break!

OUCH!!


Gravatar @ NR... I know noone's telling me that... but it's what needs to happen. I just don't know how. Prayer, time, ignoring it.... who knows. The feelings come and go. I'm 23. Can you tell?


Gravatar *Can't you tell...


Gravatar Yeah, they should know better than to mess with a Jamaican.


Gravatar **runs to hide**


Gravatar **runs to hide**
it's not right, but it's okay



Gravatar This just in....'Before He Cheats" downloads skyrocket on Itunes.


Gravatar Yeah, they should know better than to mess with a Jamaican.
Univgurl

I do.


Gravatar He doesn't do it regularly, nor is it blatant. I just notice different reactions to the same type of interaction sometimes.

But I know this is all relative.
Mrs. SayRah

Maybe you can invest in a stripper pole for the new house.


Gravatar @ NR... I know noone's telling me that... but it's what needs to happen. I just don't know how. Prayer, time, ignoring it.... who knows. The feelings come and go. I'm 23. Can you tell?
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 3:34 pm | #
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I was just wondering because with age comes wisdom and I look at relationships and me a lot differently in my 30's than I did in my 20's.... and there is no bitterness or animosity... I just feel like I am starting to "understand" for lack of better words men....


Gravatar what up GO and Dubb!!!


guys, i'm trying to keep things real...and as GO points out...it's best to get answers from the one you question...my thoughjts are just my opinion


Gravatar @ diddy,,, I appreciate when you guys chime in...


Gravatar In your 20's you just wanna f*ck
In your 30's you just don't give a phluck


Gravatar Maybe you can invest in a stripper pole for the new house.
it's not right, but it's okay

You know, I would take offense (not from anyone here ) to the notion that I don't dish out.... it's got to be a 2-way street. and if you're not giving what you expect your partner to give, how can you hold it against him/her.


Gravatar dubb...is this your last week at work???? or on MS???


Gravatar In your 20's you just wanna f*ck
In your 30's you just don't give a phluck
it's not right, but it's okay | 03.25.08 - 3:41 pm |
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noooo actually in my 20's I was very squeamish about sex... and I was all about making my man happy (which didn't work)

but in my 30's I have gotten in touch with my sexual side and I like expressing that side... hence me talking you guys ears off about it...


Gravatar Note to self:

peg leg is a horn dog.


Gravatar @ NR.... I'm not sure it's as much about my understanding as it is just my plain insecurity. It's sthg I need to fix no matter who I'm with, or even if I'm alone.


Gravatar You know, I would take offense (not from anyone here ) to the notion that I don't dish out.... it's got to be a 2-way street. and if you're not giving what you expect your partner to give, how can you hold it against him/her.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 3:41 pm | #
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oooookay... deeper issue here folks...


Gravatar Note to self:

peg leg is a horn dog.
it's not right, but it's okay | 03.25.08 - 3:45 pm | #
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guilty as charged.... and the thing is I don't know why... I mean no, I dont get it on a regular... but I get it often enough... what the hell is wrong with you *looking down*


Gravatar Note to self:

peg leg is a horn dog.
it's not right, but it's okay

You shoulda BEEN had that one down... lol


Gravatar Wassup, diddy!? Yeah, dude, the last thing a man wants to hear is, "well, so and so said it's this" or "so and so, said it's that." Hell, what did the one who did the deed say it was?

If you can't talk with your mate and believe 'em, you don't need to be with 'em.


Gravatar Well I am no Dr. Phil Sayrah... but do you and your husband discuss your sexual relationship?


Gravatar I'ont know what else to say other than reality is a motherphlucker.


Gravatar dubb...is this your last week at work???? or on MS???
zoomanjie | 03.25.08 - 3:41 pm | #
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Yeah, I got a new gig diddy; I'll be an assistant property manager. Guess I'll be gettin coffee and shit for the property manager. LOL Nah, but this is my last week and I've already been advised that there's to be no unnecessary internet activity at my new job.


Gravatar ain't it tho!


Gravatar hence me talking you guys ears off about it...
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

And jacking yourself up with concrete vibrators.


Gravatar If you can't talk with your mate and believe 'em, you don't need to be with 'em.
Goliano

Now when you say with 'em what exactly to you mean???? lol


Gravatar If you can't talk with your mate and believe 'em, you don't need to be with 'em.
Goliano

This is true. I'm glad my hubby and I talk about everything. He knows what's going on. It's can't be attractive to him at all.... but I'd rather him know what I'm going through, than wonder wtf is wrong w/me.

But do men (or women for that matter) always share EVERYTHING that's on their mind?

Do you filter for your mate??? SHOULD you tell them everything?


Gravatar Yeah, I got a new gig diddy; I'll be an assistant property manager. Guess I'll be gettin coffee and shit for the property manager. LOL Nah, but this is my last week and I've already been advised that there's to be no unnecessary internet activity at my new job.
K Dubb's on his last week | 03.25.08 - 3:48 pm | #
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NO!!!!!! *echoing*


Gravatar It's sthg I need to fix no matter who I'm with, or even if I'm alone.
Mrs. SayRah

Truer words have not been spoken.


Gravatar Do you filter for your mate??? SHOULD you tell them everything?
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 3:50 pm | #
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Now I haven't covered that part of the lesson yet...

*calling Dr. Phil*


Gravatar NO!!!!!! *echoing*
NR ♥ Boys!!!!! | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 3:50 pm | #
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*sugar drop rolls down cheek* Yes ma; I know.


Gravatar But do men (or women for that matter) always share EVERYTHING that's on their mind?

Do you filter for your mate??? SHOULD you tell them everything?
Mrs. SayRah

HELL NAW!!!!


Gravatar I've already been advised that there's to be no unnecessary internet activity at my new job.
K Dubb's on his last week | 03.25.08 - 3:48 pm | #



@ NRuh... he knows my inner struggle.... does he do much to help me overcome?....not so much. He also knows I'm a horndog, and he can get it whenever he wants PLUS when I want it....lol...


Gravatar Some sh*t needs to be kept to self.

Period. Dot.


Gravatar HELL NAW!!!!
it's not right, but it's okay | 03.25.08 - 3:52 pm | #


HELL NAW what? There were like 4 questions up there....lol.


Gravatar Some sh*t needs to be kept to self.

Period. Dot.
it's not right, but it's okay

Mmmmhhmmmm.... like what?


Gravatar *sugar drop rolls down cheek* Yes ma; I know.
K Dubb's on his last week | 03.25.08 - 3:52 pm | #
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NO seriously... theres gotta be another way...


Gravatar If you can't talk with your mate and believe 'em, you don't need to be with 'em.
Goliano |


Right!...ladies/men should ask for truthful responses to the following...do you think im sexy?...what can i do to be a better lover?....don't ask 'do you love me'???


Gravatar *hugs SayRah*

@ NRuh... he knows my inner struggle.... does he do much to help me overcome?....not so much. He also knows I'm a horndog, and he can get it whenever he wants PLUS when I want it....lol...
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 3:52 pm | #
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I'm just thinkin SayRah, is there a possibility that you're wearing poor lil hubby out? It's different with us you know, we can't multi-O like you guys do.


Gravatar But do men (or women for that matter) always share EVERYTHING that's on their mind?

Do you filter for your mate??? SHOULD you tell them everything?
Mrs. SayRah

Of course they don't. But anything that MATTERS or AFFECTS the relationship SHOULD be shared. If you're hiding something, what good is it doing for you both? How is it helping you individually? Is it at his expense? Ask yourself these questions, answer honestly and take it from there. Your conscience will guide you.


Gravatar Well I have a secret..... I met a married man a few weeks ago when I was in Washington, he's from New York.... He is 47 married, has grown children... we exchanged numbers emails... been talking ever since... he wants to make a trip down here... I keep telling him no... it sucks because I want to know why he is going through all this with me and not making the effort with his own wife....

Like I said, we never slept togther ... but I KNOW we are cheating...

Please don't hate me wonderful people of Meiksquared... but I had to tell somebody....


Gravatar I'm just thinkin SayRah, is there a possibility that you're wearing poor lil hubby out? It's different with us you know, we can't multi-O like you guys do.
K Dubb's on his last week

Definitely not lately. He just got a new job. By the time we both get in bed and both kids down, and all our preparation done for the next day, it's 9:30 - 10 o'clock... so we've been pretty worn out lately. Not from sex.


Gravatar congrats dubb!...u'll be missed, mane...just check in at home from time to time!!!

*neva woulda had the bizalls to chat at YBF if it wasn't for dubb...dude is like rev. wright to me*


Gravatar What we talking!


Gravatar Just an FYI GO, many of these questions are just conversation starters and not particularly for my own situation. Just thought I'd throw that out there for ya.


Gravatar @ NRuh... he knows my inner struggle.... does he do much to help me overcome?....not so much.

No one can help with another person's insecurity other than by catering to them. It's your job to fix it.


Gravatar Definitely not lately. He just got a new job. By the time we both get in bed and both kids down, and all our preparation done for the next day, it's 9:30 - 10 o'clock... so we've been pretty worn out lately. Not from sex.
Mrs. SayRah

Now see that says it all. Both of ya'll are just tired as hell. lol


Gravatar *neva woulda had the bizalls to chat at YBF if it wasn't for dubb...dude is like rev. wright to me*
zoomanjie

*dead* lol


Gravatar Woohahaha! @ diddy. Thanks man, and I'll definitely be checkin' in from the house. lol Going to lunch fam bam. bbl


Gravatar *neva woulda had the bizalls to chat at YBF if it wasn't for dubb...dude is like rev. wright to me*
zoomanjie



Gravatar is it confessions wednesday up in this beech?

let me close my mouf before a bone pops out...J/K...i'm not mad at u for getting ur flirt on NRuh....i can't throw no stones


Gravatar No one can help with another person's insecurity other than by catering to them. It's your job to fix it.
Goliano

I know, but if I know my husband is struggling w/something, alcohol, getting to bed early, eating more veggies, or finding a job.... I'm gonna do what I can to help. I know there's only SO much, I can do, but he WILL know that I care, and that I want to see him victorious over whatever the struggle, just as much as he is. That I "have his back".


Gravatar Definitely not lately. He just got a new job. By the time we both get in bed and both kids down, and all our preparation done for the next day, it's 9:30 - 10 o'clock... so we've been pretty worn out lately. Not from sex.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:00 pm | #
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Well I know its probably not enough for you Sayrah... but ya'll got to schedule something at least once a week.


Gravatar Just an FYI GO, many of these questions are just conversation starters and not particularly for my own situation. Just thought I'd throw that out there for ya.
Mrs. SayRah

Then start one about scrapbooking or somethin', Jeeze!!!


Gravatar Now see that says it all. Both of ya'll are just tired as hell. lol
it's not right, but it's okay | 03.25.08 - 4:03 pm | #

LOL.... I'm not concerned about our sex life....

My issue is just my insecurity, and my fears. The sex is ggrrrrrreat.


Gravatar LOL.... I'm not concerned about our sex life....

My issue is just my insecurity, and my fears. The sex is ggrrrrrreat.
Mrs. SayRah

*confused as hell*

okay.


Gravatar Then start one about scrapbooking or somethin', Jeeze!!!
Goliano

LOL.... It's Meik's fault... she starte it w/the cheating post.....


Gravatar I'm with you INR!!I'm all confused and my Haloscan print is getting smaller by the second... LOL!!

Aww Sayrah! you so funny girl!


Gravatar That I "have his back".
Mrs. SayRah

Yeah, just don't smother him. Sometimes we just wanna be left alone.


Gravatar Yeah, just don't smother him. Sometimes we just wanna be left alone.
Goliano

And so do we. This is why I hit up the local VFW on Sunday afternoons.


Gravatar @ INR... I have this fear of being cheated on.... so convo moved to WHY men cheat... then it went to the sex life.... and folks i guess just assumed I had issue w/my hubby & my sex life.... but I don't really.

Get it? Good.

So.... moving on....

What ya'll cookin for dinner tonight?


Gravatar is it confessions wednesday up in this beech?

let me close my mouf before a bone pops out...J/K...i'm not mad at u for getting ur flirt on NRuh....i can't throw no stones
zoomanjie | 03.25.08 - 4:05 pm | #
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Gravatar This is why I hit up the local VFW on Sunday afternoons.
it's not right, but it's okay




Time for a nice "light" post..... this heavy shit is too much.


Gravatar LOL.... I'm not concerned about our sex life....

My issue is just my insecurity, and my fears. The sex is ggrrrrrreat.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:07 pm | #
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*thinking to myself* then what the hell am I confessing for?????


Gravatar And so do we. This is why I hit up the local VFW on Sunday afternoons.
it's not right, but it's okay

Nothin' like a game of Parcheesi and a mint julip to get the edge off, huh?


Gravatar Ummmm yeah okay.........*looks off into the sunset*


Gravatar Definitely not lately. He just got a new job. By the time we both get in bed and both kids down, and all our preparation done for the next day, it's 9:30 - 10 o'clock... so we've been pretty worn out lately. Not from sex.
Mrs. SayRah

Lemme tell you how to fix that;

Wake up way before the alarm goes off. Sneak under the covers and give him a good "rise n shine!!"
It works.!!


Gravatar Yeah, just don't smother him. Sometimes we just wanna be left alone.
Goliano

Damn.... ya'll want a ride or die chick, but you don't wanna be smothered...


You wanna a freak in the bed, but you don't wanna be worn out....


This shit is tiring as hell.... That's why I need a vibrator, we know exactly where we stand with eachother.... or sit, or lay down, or- nevermind.


Gravatar VFW = Vibrator For Women????


Gravatar you knows ise just kiddin', willie.


Gravatar thinking to myself* then what the hell am I confessing for?????
NR ♥ Boys!!!!! | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 4:14 pm | #

*busts out laughing*


Gravatar This shit is tiring as hell.... That's why I need a vibrator, we know exactly where we stand with eachother.... or sit, or lay down, or- nevermind.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:16 pm | #
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*stopping dead in my tracks* wait a minute... you don't have one..... that's the problem... get one.... ASAP!


Gravatar Wake up way before the alarm goes off. Sneak under the covers and give him a good "rise n shine!!"
It works.!!
D.A. the Feelosofer |

see....this is why she is #1!!!!!


Gravatar This shit is tiring as hell.... That's why I need a vibrator, we know exactly where we stand with eachother.... or sit, or lay down, or- nevermind.
Mrs. SayRah

http:// www.constructioncomplete....vibeHM1000H.jpg


Gravatar LOL @ DA.... I used to do that... till he started puttin the baby in the bed 'tweenst us....LOL....I got him the other day in the bathroom while the kids were in the living room watching Dragon Tales....lol....*ahem*


Gravatar VFW = Vibrator For Women????
zoomanjie

You're such a clever goose but no.....


Gravatar Wake up way before the alarm goes off. Sneak under the covers and give him a good "rise n shine!!"
It works.!!
D.A. the Feelosofer |

see....this is why she is #1!!!!!
zoomanjie | 03.25.08 - 4:17 pm | #
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Whatever diddy... I bet you would still find a reason to cheat even if you were awaken like that every day..... MEN CHEAT... it is what ya'll do....


Gravatar *stopping dead in my tracks* wait a minute... you don't have one..... that's the problem... get one.... ASAP!
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

No I be wearin my lil triceps out, too.....


Gravatar No I be wearin my lil triceps out, too.....
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:19 pm | #
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Guuuurrrlll. you probably got the strongest fingers in the world...


Gravatar Anyway, Say, you must realize lil' grasshopper that men have mood swings like we do. It's nothing we've done, they just need a moment, sometimes. You'll understand....


Gravatar DEAD @ the flex shaft being sold separately! lol


Gravatar Not all men cheat!!You crazy NR!


Gravatar MEN CHEAT... it is what ya'll do....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!! |

Now THAT'S the most encouraging thing I've heard all day....

...excuse me while I go hang myself.



Not for real, please don't send the popos to my office.


Gravatar MEN CHEAT... it is what ya'll do....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Says the woman with the married man's number. *side-eyes* [||]


Gravatar Not all men cheat!!You crazy NR!
Twizzy | 03.25.08 - 4:20 pm | #
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I know..... but diddy full of shit what that one....


Gravatar Thanks DA.

I'm feeling better. I have my moments, but I'll be fine.


Gravatar LOL @ DA.... I used to do that... till he started puttin the baby in the bed 'tweenst us....LOL....I got him the other day in the bathroom while the kids were in the living room watching Dragon Tales....lol....*ahem*
Mrs. SayRah

Say- You're gonna have to TAKE it!!! If you got to tie that nucca up, then oh well. Take what is YOURS!! Don't do the same ol' same ol'. Go get you a wig and channel NR..... I bet that'll work!!


Gravatar Says the woman with the married man's number. *side-eyes* [||]
Goliano | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 4:21 pm | #
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oooppsss... Oh yeah....


Gravatar Now THAT'S the most encouraging thing I've heard all day....

...excuse me while I go hang myself.



Not for real, please don't send the popos to my office.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:20 pm | #
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*dead* girl... don't listen to me... I'm on medication...


Gravatar Whatever diddy... I bet you would still find a reason to cheat even if you were awaken like that every day..... MEN CHEAT... it is what ya'll do....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!! |


if everything else about my wife stayed the same and im awaken like that everyday...im breaking my wife off!!! jewelry, vacays, shopping sprees, whatever!...why would i need to cheat???...i don't need confirmation im too conceited as is


Gravatar Say- You're gonna have to TAKE it!!! If you got to tie that nucca up, then oh well. Take what is YOURS!! Don't do the same ol' same ol'. Go get you a wig and channel NR..... I bet that'll work!!
D.A. the Feelosofer | 03.25.08 - 4:22 pm |
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*shaking head* she's speakin' the truth Say!


Gravatar oooppsss... Oh yeah....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Yeah, you're lil sis, alright.


Gravatar if everything else about my wife stayed the same and im awaken like that everyday...im breaking my wife off!!! jewelry, vacays, shopping sprees, whatever!...why would i need to cheat???...i don't need confirmation im too conceited as is
zoomanjie | 03.25.08 - 4:23 pm | #
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I love it!!!!! Be true to your wife....

*dialing up Mrs. diddy* Guuurrrlll... do I have some advice for you!


Gravatar ???...i don't need confirmation im too conceited as is
zoomanjie


Dammit!!


Gravatar KICKS OPEN DOOR*****


Did some one say vibrator??????????


Gravatar (((Baaaalllleerrrr))))

What it do girl....


Gravatar I bet that'll work!!
D.A. the Feelosofer

I'm sure it will... but in channeling my inner freak, which I don't have to dig too deep to find mind you, I'm gonna need him to take it every once in a while too.... I would LOVE for him to kidnap my ass one day and post me up in the back of his truck.


Gravatar Okay, It's 4:20 and I have no dook prospect for tonight.... this CAN'T be good....


Gravatar KICKS OPEN DOOR*****


Did some one say vibrator??????????
Ballerhappygirl |


WHAT IT DO CHICK?!!?!!!


Gravatar I'm sure it will... but in channeling my inner freak, which I don't have to dig too deep to find mind you, I'm gonna need him to take it every once in a while too.... I would LOVE for him to kidnap my ass one day and post me up in the back of his truck.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:25 pm | #
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*dreamily* I soooo love an aggressive man....


Gravatar Did some one say vibrator??????????
Ballerhappygirl

Yeah, but *Flex Shaft Sold Seperately*


Gravatar Okay, It's 4:20 and I have no dook prospect for tonight.... this CAN'T be good....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

It's good that your keeping your goals in sight.


Gravatar Hey NRuh!!!!


Gravatar @ my big bro....


Gravatar okay, time to change the subject again... 5 people talking... 8 lurkers...


Gravatar hey BHG!!! (im diddy)


Gravatar *dreamily* I soooo love an aggressive man....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!


*staring into the sky* Mmmmhmmmm.... pulling a little hair and slappin a lil arse never hurt nobody.


Gravatar WHAT IT DO CHICK?!!?!!!
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:27 pm | #

Nothing... just spent the last hour reading your questionaire

Yeah, but *Flex Shaft Sold Seperately*
Goliano | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 4:27 pm | #

I'll pass on the Coochie Shredder 3000


Gravatar *sending hubby freaky text message RIGHT NOW*


Gravatar *staring into the sky* Mmmmhmmmm.... pulling a little hair and slappin a lil arse never hurt nobody.
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:28 pm | #
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Aaaaahhhhhhh...... I so need a boyfriend....


Gravatar HEY DIDDY!!!!!!


Gravatar I'll pass on the Coochie Shredder 3000
Ballerhappygirl | 03.25.08 - 4:29 pm | #
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HA!


Gravatar *sending hubby freaky text message RIGHT NOW*
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:29 pm | #
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Show off!!!! Isn't this the reason why you are in the position you are in right now...


Gravatar I'll pass on the Coochie Shredder 3000
Ballerhappygirl | 03.25.08 - 4:29 pm | #

*Falls out dead!*

It's good to have you back!


Gravatar OOOOPPPSSS.. sorry Say,,,, I thought D.A was sending a freaky text to her hubby...... my bad girl... do your thang...


Gravatar Isn't this the reason why you are in the position you are in right now...
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!

Technically, I am NOT in the "position" I'd LIKE to be in right now....


Gravatar you guys and your damn avatars...


Gravatar I'll pass on the Coochie Shredder 3000
Ballerhappygirl

You sure? We'll throw in a case of 10W-30!


Gravatar


Gravatar I'll pass on the Coochie Shredder 3000
Ballerhappygirl

You sure? We'll throw in a case of 10W-30!
Goliano | Homepage | 03.25.08 - 4:34 pm | #

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I like my uterus nice and pear shaped... a confetti uterus is NOT the bidness


Gravatar Yall some freak nasty heffers!


Gravatar KJ.... don't front... you know if you would have been up in here you would have been talking right along with us.....


Gravatar Hey KJ... it just got like this....


it'll calm down in a minute....


what's going on in your world?


Gravatar yipppeeeee!

I can't wait to get home...

dooo dee dooo dee dooooo.....


Gravatar Yall some freak nasty heffers!
KJ Happy 1/2 day to ME! |


mmmhmmm...just the way i like 'em!

*sings...Adina Howards 'Freak like Me'*


Gravatar I like my uterus nice and pear shaped... a confetti uterus is NOT the bidness
Ballerhappygirl

You're thinking of the Hysterectomatic X4000. It's been taken off the marked for further R&D. How does a 5 year/50,000 plunge warranty sound?


Gravatar sings...Adina Howards 'Freak like Me'*
zoomanjie

"I can be a freak all through the night, until eeaaarly moooooornn..."


Gravatar yipppeeeee!

I can't wait to get home...

dooo dee dooo dee dooooo.....
Mrs. SayRah | 03.25.08 - 4:39 pm
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I guess hubby liked the text....


Gravatar guess hubby liked the text....
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!



Gravatar *looking through rol-a-dex* there has GOT to be somebody that I can call..


Gravatar time for me to sign off....later freaks!


Gravatar Byeee Diddy.... have good sex with your wife tonight...... *sadly waving*


Gravatar *looking through rol-a-dex* there has GOT to be somebody that I can call..
NR ♥ Boys!!!!!



Don't you mean rol-a-dook??


Alright, freaks, I'm out of here!! have a REAL good one!! 'Specially Starving Say!!!



Gravatar Byeee D.A. and the little one.... have some good sex with your husband tonight... and I don't care if you don't feel like it.... do it for me and others out there like me that don't get dook on the regular...


Gravatar Hey Baller!


Gravatar Don't fret NRuh....


Gravatar Thanks DA...later!

Bye Diddy!


Gravatar Ssssoooooo.......


*chirps*


Gravatar @ Say...

Bye sweetie.... I'm out....


Gravatar Twizzay


Gravatar Jaaaaaaaaay! Sex talk! Did I miss it?


Gravatar @ Dubbs... yup, looks like it's pretty much dead in here now.


Bye NRuh! Make sure you put a towel down 'fore you go to bed tonight.


Gravatar Guess I'll go focus on my work...


Night to all ya'll freaks, and closet freaks! May the force be with ya'll!


Gravatar HELL NAWW cheating does not give you a free pass to cheat. If you cheat on me you're free to ho the country as you please cuz that'll be the FIRST and LAST time you do it to me. Not having me and knowing I'm happy without you is enough revenge for me.

Wassup fam!


Gravatar @ Dubbs... yup, looks like it's pretty much dead in here now.
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Dang!


M! I think we pretty much missed 'em mane.


Gravatar I think so bruh...the job blocks HaloScan but lets me see the posts


Gravatar I'm here fellas!


Gravatar Twizzy wassup baby!


Gravatar Marrrkus Babay! chillin.........waiting for this day to be done! Seattle needs some sunshine!


Gravatar aww how much longer you have? We have the sunshine but not the heat


Gravatar I have only an hour and 20 minutes, Glory! I'll take sun of any kind....it's supposed to snow this damn week?? WTH....how can we live so close to Cali and the weather is so different


Gravatar I was bout to say, yall got snow??


Gravatar That' s a shame....snow in damn march!! Thats OK, I will be in AZ next week anyway....I am sure that week it will be beautiful and sunny!


Gravatar You going just for vacation? or u got fam there?


Gravatar Anyone still here?


Gravatar I am going to an attorney summit for one of our clients....good times! I get to spend 3 days there with nothing but attorneys talking in sessions...but It's a free vacation, I'll take it!

Hey Obama fan...


Gravatar HELL NAWW cheating does not give you a free pass to cheat. If you cheat on me you're free to ho the country as you please cuz that'll be the FIRST and LAST time you do it to me. Not having me and knowing I'm happy without you is enough revenge for me.

Wassup fam!
Markus

PREACH BROTHER, PREACH!!!!


Gravatar Hey GG!


Gravatar WHAT UP TWIZ!!!


Gravatar Chillin GG May!! Awwww.....who's all the folks here.....HOLLA!


Gravatar Where did cuzzin go?


Gravatar Hell nah...cause real up...you whored yourself out to prove a point to another human. There are other ways to make that happen without giving yourself away. Like real talk, if a chick slept with another nigga just to prove a point to me, just damaging herself more than our relationship. Someone who is willing to do that is willing to do anything with sex to progress...real up.

Gotta value yourself more...

Thats just me though, but Ive never cheated before so I can only speak from what I WOULD do, rather than what actually happened lol.

- King Majorz B.D.




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