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Eat, drink and be merry is a fine philophy to live by...unless those religious people are right and there's a higher power holding us responsible to standards not our own with retribution for the unrepentant.(tongue in cheek)
Lucky I'm an atheist then, Chuck. But point taken.
Ahhhh...family. That just keeps getting more and more difficult.
Tell me about it, NYM... tell me about it!
you sly dog you, i never knew you had some friends set aside for a little fun here and again. good job man, good job.
Well it works for us, EJ 
Seriously, I think it's awesome wdky. I think you're great. If people can't handle your 'morals' or whatever - fuck 'em (err..you know what I mean).
Thank you, Mez, I really appreciate that. And I will! Errr...
"To thy own self be true," WDKY. You do that, everything esle falls into place.
Important, and so true, LL. Nicely put into context.
I'm quoting myself here, WDKY...
"It truly is a sincere level of trust, joy and interest in the other person's life. The rules, such as they are, for this type of relationship are not very easy to put into words. First and foremost, there is joy and respect and honor to the other person because they ARE a friend. That remains sacrosanct."
You've got FWP's. No biggie
Here here on kicking back with Sis!
Interesting subject, isn't it, though? Yes, me and Sis getting together is (was, in fact) cool. Although we were rather stoned.
I like that! I am the same way, not casual, nothing about it to me is casual and I am definitely monogamous.
Hope you and your sister enjoy the evening!
Thank you, Lee Ann. And I'm glad we're on the same wavelength!
I think that it's great that you have these lady friends that you can have sex with. You are the FWF/Booty Call king At the end of the day, what you choose to when you want to get jiggy is your choice. I think it's good that you have people that you can have these understandings with.
You are very funny, NML... Booty Call King? Is that a title I really want, do you think?
I'd have to agree with you, the only people I know with pasts that are straight forward are the ones I consider untrustworthy. There's something about perfect people that I just don't fancy.
As for that casual sex thing I used to think I could do that but no matter how many times I convinced myself my heart would stay out of the matter, there it always was peeking around the corner.
I think what I was trying to say was that it isn't casual. Maybe it's semantics, because I do know what you mean, NWC. I understand what you mean about people who don't have a past, in the sense that we were using the term. Life experience is important (in as much as a partner of mine must have it.)
I'm with KD...everyone will always have an opinion...
My opinion is that you should always do what's best for you and what makes you feel good...
Aha... do we have a true hedonist amongst us? Get on that plane, UB... please!
Everyone always has an opinion...however, you have to know what is right for you and act on that - without malice, of course.
Yes, I agree with you, as I often do, KD. Respect is important, as is honesty. All else, I reckon, is in the lap of the gods.
WDKY, I never thought that you were less than honourable in terms of the way you conduct yourself with women. Your "special friends" are very lucky if they can have that intimate contact with you and not somehow get caught up emotionally, so much so that it would complicate things more than it was worth. I've never been able to manage that kind of thing, not that I've tried that many times. I think there are a lot of women who just CAN'T, which is why, when they hear about that kind of thing, they think it must involve some kind of underhanded behaviour on the part of the man involved. I dunno.
Thank you, Blue. I would say, though, that these aren't emotionless relationships, more that the emotions are managed successfully. With the odd hiccup.
Honestly, the only morals that come into play in your sex life are yours and those of the women involved. But, that still doesn't keep us of the internet from enjoying teasing you about it.
It also seems safe to say that you've apparenty acquired a group of commenters who like to give a little relationship advice (hence, the warnings about the friend of the ex). Sounds like you're a lucky man WDKY, even when you're not literally "getting lucky!"
I can take a bit of teasing, YS... and I knew I'd found the best group of friends I would ever find in the blogosphere a long time ago! Lucky indeed.
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