Speak to me
nicest thing i've heard so far today. *smooches*
Whoever catches your fancy will similarly be a lucky woman.
Oh, that's some hard stuff, there. mine was to be anonymous, as well, but two guys I've dated have been on my blog, along with one of my co-workers. Interestingly enough, several of my co-workers blog although i've not gone to the trouble of finding their blogs.
Mine is edgier than theirs, though, what with the HNT pics.
It is weird, though,at times, to want to blog about the chef, and not be able to say what's on my mind. I've lost a little piece of the freedom that bloggery offered me when I started dating another blogger.
Yes, I see that. But I think yours is a wonderful blog, and your thoughts and feelings are expressed in the most profound way. Chef is a very lucky man.
wdky, i think sharing the address with a couple of close friends is perfectly fine.
I wish i could put up a slice of me. But i am a bit nervous of a few indian guys who dig into my blog deep. I just cannot connect to some of them.
Probably that is why i dont even have an email address on my blog.
I need realness and authenticity as i am working my way towards it. A lot of sex and stuff is in it and i dont want to feed desperation, i want to fuel growth.
I think you must do what you feel comfortable doing, Anu. And just see what direction it takes you in.
Your revelation is obviously just a need to share more with these women. Some part of you desires for them to see you in a new light and thus, it is only natural, after a couple of drinks your normal barriers begin to break down and you do take more risks. But this was something you desired all along. This trust to be shared. These particular intimacies. And somewhere in your mind you knew they were trust-worthy, else all of the drink in the world wouldn't have allowed that secret to breach your lips. It is a shame you have no male friends to share it with, but I must assume that men can be, like many women, catty about such information and so, unfortunately, less trust-worthy.
I think you are always very discreet in your indiscretions, saving the best parts for private intercourse. And I do appreciate that as I'm sure do others. I'm sure that if you had spoken ill of your 'friends' you would feel far more reluctant about revealing yourself. You are always a gentlemen under all circumstances, and thoughtful.
I 'm afraid our trips will probably conflict, late May. That is a shame. But I do hope your trip is wonderful. Marbella, I hear, is lovely.
I'm not sure that it's a "new light", T... I don't think anything I've said would surprise any of them, actually. I'm a little more worried about the trip situation... have to give that some thought and make some decisions. Sober decisions, I hasten to add.
it is a hard secret to keep, i'm finding. everybody knows about my blog now, and it does make me uncomfortable. but once done, it can't be undone.
Best not to worry about it, I guess, Kim!
Ah well, better out than in. Probably!
If too many people found out about my blog I'd have to move it or shut it down, which would be a shame - only reason I don't tell my friends.
Welcome, WDKY's real-life friends!
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They said "thanks very much".
I got found by friends so I started a second for the stuff I really don't want them to know. I comment less with that identity and so far so good.
J, I like your "second identity", as you know...
I can relate to your dilemma. I keep everything anonymous on my blog, and try not to be too super revealing, but the nature of the beast almost dictates revelations that you might hesitate to tell your best friends or relatives. It's weird having a second "secret life."
Hi Elvira. Yes, weird indeed... good weird, though, don't you think?
I just wanted to thank you for your comment on my blog. It is much appreciated and always nice to see the 'digs' of a fellow blogger.
I am anonymous in that only 3 make that 6 people I know in real life know about my blog. I carry on as usual but it's hard as I don't talk about the shit that bugs me...I just write about it.
Though no one bugs me to talk about it. Guess that's the respect part of friendships eh?
EroticFae
Yes, I think you're probably right. Thanks for stopping by.
I tried keeping mine to myself too, but boyfriend found it early on! OH WELL!
Good luck with it handsome.
Thanks, beautiful
Blogging can be such a cathartic experience, but one must be wary that anything you write might come back to haunt you. Thankfully most blogs come with privacy settings to make some or all entries private.
In my online journal I try to be careful about giving out any identifyable clues as to where I live or who I am. It is safer that way.
From the brief perusal of your journal you strike me as the kind of person who would not tell just anyone in your rl about your blog. No doubt the ladies you have entrusted with your secret are completely worthy of that trust.
Perceptive, Tallulah, and right on all counts. Thanks for commenting, by the way.
The only reason I don't use my real name is because of the nutjobs out there.
There's only a couple of people I care to NOT know about this...Mom and Dad, and Dan. That's it. I do get the anonimity clause though 
And those that DO come here that I know? Some comment, some don't. Some say things in RL, most don't.
What? There are nutjobs out there?
wdky you know more about me from my blog than my close friends do and I'm sure you're no more judgemental about me than I am about you
Thanks Ginny, and precisely my view!
As long as you keep on as you were before, I'm a happy girl
Well, I'd hate to disappoint you, Cat...
I've had someone I know find a journal of mine once. Oh, the sparks that flew after that one! I moved.
I've often thought about opening the journal up to people I know in rl, but something always stops me. I guess I opened the journal in the first place so that I could get away from rl for a sec - not confirm it.
I think it's great that you *can* do that.
Well, my intention was the same as yours, Mez... it's just that the reality has turned out a little different!
I think about that from time to time. But, I don't attack anyone in my blog (except that insufferable ass George Bush) and I think anyone who did stumble across me would get bored soon enough. I try to integrate myself so that I'm not drastically different in the various aspects of my life. Still, there is small differences where I might decline to say or do something in "real life" that I would do in relative anonymity.
I must say, I find you anything but boring. I like consistency, too.
Ok so if I was one of your "Friends" who found your blog and you wrote about our night of hot passionate sex [not me and you WDKY you and *insert name*] I'd be blushin' because you say nothing but good things about the ladies you are with. They should be proud to be published...you know in a blog sort of way.
Now if Honey ever wrote about our nights ...I'd so kick his ass.
Actually, I really appreciate you saying that, Kimmy. And generally speaking, I feel nothing but good things, which is no doubt why it comes across in that way.
I'm definitely impressed to the carrying on as usual, not sure I could do the same... I do know, all these "adventure in blogland" have opened my eyes to many things, one of which is this, everyone has that "other side" and we are more alike than we know.
I'm appreciative of all the bloggers I've met and I'm glad to have stumbled across yours as well, good to know you aren't going anywhere.
Thanks, MG. I'm glad we found each other too.
Welcome to my world. I too decided to continue on as normal and with any luck, they will all get bored of it soon!
I'm really not sure that I mind, NML. I'd just like what anonymity I have left preserved, that's all.
Ah, the drunken "blog reveal!"
Yep. That's the one, Blue.
we walk a fine line... here's to the trustworthy ~~
I'll drink to that, Jericho!
you are braver than I.
Where you been...
You're actually very brave, NWC... and I got a little tied up with some business development (got to feed the children). But I'm all yours now.
I won't tell if you won't tell.
There's a reason why I've never done a HNT of my abs as that's where my birthmark is. If someone were to see it they'd know it was me.
Anonymous is the only way to be on these pages. I wouldn't want people knowing I'm actually a 58 year Korean woman running a shoe store in South Philadelphia. Y'know?
Well, of course I knew that, but I'm sure no-one else has twigged it yet.
I have such a blog worthy story unfolding at work right now---like, the blog story to end all blog stories (No, the story to end all stories)---and I can never post it because someone from work (who is kind enough to never reveal my blog to others) can NOT know about this little thing...
And how frustrating is THAT?
You are so trusting. I don't think I could share my blog identity with anyone due to it's content.
There are too many pictures and real life accounts. So for now I have to keep the whole thing secret and share with fellow bloggers instead of people from the real world.
Suze, I understand how you feel, but I'm lucky that the people who know about this blog are people who I would consider genuine friends. And in any event, I have to take some responsibility for them knowing. Anyway, I'm completely honest in what I post, and happy with the way in which I conduct myself.
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