Speak to me
I would say it sounds like you want a woman who is like lightning in a jar...unique, eccentric, exciting...nothing wrong with this . It is your three exact requirements that have made my life so very enjoyable... I hope you find her
Thank you, Charlotte. I'm going to enjoy reading about you.
wdky: i am laughing so hard at your requirement of "mild psychosis." are there more guys like you out there? maybe my weakness can be my strength 
Well, if you want my view... but no, I'm unique 
I can SO relate to what attracts you to a woman, I am very similar in my attraction to men.
Too many times, I have picked the straight-laced only for them to want to change me. I'd rather feel ALIVE...pick the psycho risktaker -or die - then to settle again!
I wish you luck in your romantic endeavors...I hope you find your "unicorn." I hope we all do, but if we don't...at least we will have had a DAMN good time trying!!!!!!!
You were SO on my page then, LL...
I qualify, I think. I have been told I am an excellent kisser. Although, I not sure about the psychotic part of your qualification. How about adventurous, likes to have fun? And sexually, well let's just say which toy would you like me to bring?
I think you can safely leave the toys for now, Sky
I agree, although I have to say that I think anyone who is a really good kisser to some extent fulfills #3.
The 2nd; that's what I always do (I've finally managed to get a boyfriend with a diagnosis and a therapist), but really, it's immature and we should both stop it and find out how to make excitement out of life without pathological tendencies in our partners.
So good luck with the lawyer... If she's too straight you could always try to push her gently towards the edge, no?
Point one - yes, usually. It's certainly a very good sign. As for point two... well, it's hard to argue with what you say. I've tried to work out why I gravitate towards obvious trouble, but haven't quite got to the answer yet. I was already aware that we're similar in a lot of ways, though.
Agree it's probably not for the best to let slip your web/blog address, if purely for sudden self-inhibiting pangs (well, in this case anyway...)
But appreciate the three criteria... and the, er, "psychosis" one certainly, somehow, if in small manageable-ish doses anyway... But so much more stimulating than bland anything-goes and-so-it-goes-ness...
Lawyers, though, can be interesting and yet odd... Great persuaders, self-assured godesses and brook-no-argument dominatrixes, yes... But also, well, lawyers...
Am quandary-ing myself, so yet wish you all t'finest and flagrant-est in the meantime...
Yes, you seem to have quandaried yourself rather well. And?
You mean I can't share about our joint fetish? Shame.
I'm having an amazing time or in Kiwi speak 'it's awesome'.
Haven't touched my template.
see ya
Do you mean our fetish for joints? Glad you're having a great time, Zooz
I'm so relieved you said that. I like quirky too.
I'm relieved you're relieved, Suze
wdky... we date the same women, 100% - ive also got a need for driving intellectual conversation - specifically the esoteric kind, but that usually comes with a good deal of psychosis. Also, I find that the majority of the crazy ones, or at least the ones I meet fall into one of four cateories, actreses, bartenders, models, or female band singers, which now that I look at in retrospoect is really the same group. hrm... wdky you;ve given me an idea for a post.
And I'm with you on the conversation issue, EJ. I have to be challenged intellectually.
woke up this morning to check my post on Ali Farka thinking you would be the one person checking my blog that might comment. I figured any other comments would be surprises. Did you know of him? I'm so sad about it. I played Talking Timbuktu all weekend (except during the Sopranos).
I actually missed that post, G, but I have heard his music, which is gorgeous. It's sad, and I would have commented, actually, although it seems a little contrived to do so now.
Hmmm... well, at least you can admit you like that crazy ones. And that's actually a little comforting to me, since I'm a little nuts myself-- there's gotta be SOMEONE on this side of the pond who likes crazy girls too... that's a good little exercise though. thinking about the maybe not-so-good as well as the good things that turn you on.
Well, I know I'm a bit quirky, Blue. Glad you are too.
Let me introduce myself...I'm....well you know me.
Yes, I know you.
what is this post truly about? is what i first thought when i read it. you break down your usual type of woman, giving away scandelous and lovely personal info, tell us why you are breaking it down - This from the guy that seems to live with a go with the chemistry flow/avalanche attitude? hmmm. you know yourself, trust yourself and respect yourself and you will make the best decision for you in the end; which will make bril reading as always.
You're very kind, as always. I think I was rambling.
ouch...umm...yeah, those are my toes
kissing...mmmm.... very nice
Mmmm... nice.
It's interesting, you and my boyfriend (the chef) seem to be wired rather alike. And i'm alot like your attorney friend...I'm very straight, after all, I'm a mommy with two kids and I work professionally in the criminal justice field so criminals (or what would be criminal behavior in the U.S.) is a big turnoff to me.
and the chef, bless his heart, works in the restaurant biz, which is rife with dirtbaggery behavior in the U.S.
So why are we so into each other when it's quite clear that there are distinct differences in our lifestyles? I dunno. Maybe he's tired of dating scary/sad girls who live on the edge and play dangerously with his heart.
And, for me, maybe I like his edginess, though at times it scares the hell out of me.
It could be argued, WDKY, that we improve each other. I offer him stability, calmness, sanity and safety, and he offers me a chance to explore my darker side in safety.
just a thought.
Maybe just a thought, but beautifuly articulated and very meaningful. And I'm grateful for it.
hello T! watsup? long time... theres soooo much that i hav to read! cute coffee mug down there... and uve lost a lil more of ur anonymity...great! hehehe anyways goin bak to readin.. ta..
Hey... I wondered where you were...
Well, i've never recieved any complaints on my kissing...let me know if you want to find out lol
I'm not really a psycho though - it strikes me that being a psycho would be far too much like hard work.
2 out of three aint bad though....
Easy to be brave from up there, S...
I qualify...well minus the psychosis part...but doesn't everyone have issues that might make them a tad bit crazy?
I'd definitely be trying to get to know you better, if I didn't already have someone spectacular.
I'm flattered... although the distance might take some managing :-(
Now why can't I find a man who knows how to kiss like that!
You're just unlucky, I guess. What's happened to your blog? (Okay, I see it...)
I agree that there has to be a spark of excitement in a relationship. I'm not quite sure a partner that psychoses would be right for me.
Don't get me wrong I love spontaneity but not people with issues.
You need to find someone who writes an adult blog, you can't get much more comfortable with your sexuality than that. LOL.
True enough, Suze. And I agree, I don't particularly want someone with "issues" either.
Pursue the relationship with the lawyer friend for as long as it goes; who knows what wonderful things will develop but I'd be willing to bet that in the end you get bored without the psycho thing. I know exactly what you're referring to. I need that as well; that's why I seem to end up dating so many artists and musicians. Besides, I'm psycho myself. Problem is, most of us psychos are a bit needy and/or flighty. I'll come visit that museum in London some day; I'm a fantastic kisser!
Are you now? Hmmm... and I think you may be right about Cute Lawyer.
1. I've been told I'm a good kisser. I like kissing in and of itself. It's an art form and should be treated as such.
2. Not so very laissez-faire, but I've found my spirit again. Most things are worth a try. Not so much on the edge as just a little bent, not all the way to odd.
3. Life is sensual. Should be treated as such
YAY on Cute Lawyer. And yes. Risk averse. Loosen her up a bit
I'll do my best, Dark
HI i loved reading this post.
I just kissed only once. I had kissed my ex bf. I was so nervous and scared. He kept telling me to move my tongue. I did what he said. But it just did not work and i remember him feeling frustrated at the end of it.
Maybe i am not a good kisser at all. I dont know. Since i just did not get it right, i cannot even begin to imagine what you are talking of wdky.
You're so sweet, Anu. Someone's going to be lucky, though!
I don't qualify~the psycho part...
I'm so not into spontanious things that I even write down my grocery shopping list by the order of where my products are placed in the store!!
Ooo, now that I think of it, perhaps I do qualify!!
Trust me. You qualify
I getcha on 1 and 3.
Now 2? Hmm. Living on the edge is one thing....adventerous? Gotcha. Maybe it's the use of the word psycho that has me wondering what the heck you're thinking. You look for the adrenaline rush of it all I take it? Are women that exciting all the time? There are days when I want to do things spontaniously, other days I am a planner. Honestly, I'm more of a planner than a fly by the seat of my pants girl. If I were single maybe I'd be more apt to be a number 2..not that it matters, I'm just sayin'...ya know?!
You crack me up, Kimmy. Have I told you that before?
please say that your new business venture involves letting all men in on the little secret about your 'kissing a girl until she comes' talent. pleeeaasseeeee.
I have a little feeling you're in for wild times wdky.
I hope so, Mez. I hope so.
"careful,... i really am as crazy as you think you might be..."
you mean like that?
lol
Why am I not surprised that you understand, Heather?
I qualify. But frankly, I'm not interested. I'm sure that'll come as a great relief!
I understand the sexuality point perfectly. It's very important if a relationship is to work.
Oh, and I am a fantastic kisser. Or so I've been told. I'm not one to blow my own trumpet. Besides, if I could, I'd never leave the house...
That's embarrassing... you fit all of my esential criteria. Maybe I should have been a tad more gender-specific!! Great line about blowing your own trumpet, btw
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