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Gravatar Oooh... lost passport! That happened to me, twice in fact! What a pain!


Yep. I could have done without it.


Gravatar DUDE!!!! How was your weekend?


It was good, EJ!!! Thanks for asking.


Gravatar sorry I've been away so long....'cute lawyer' and 'burglary'??? ---looks like i've got some archive reading to catch up on. Hope things work out for the best, but you seem to always move in that direction anyways.


Gravatar Enjoy your weekend...oh...and I see you mentioned a razor...lol...that shaving offer still stands. Although, what are your thoughts on waxing? lol


Do you mean as in dripping hot wax on my nipples? No, I thought not


Gravatar of course dropping by someone's site as a newbie always takes a while to catch up on reality. but I did scroll down to the 1st of 3 and damn.


Sara, I'm particularly pleased that you stopped by, and I've bookmarked you so that I can read about you properly later. I'm glad you enjoyed 1 of 3, but I suspect you'll enjoy the rest of the series even more.


Gravatar i have to agree with the last comment. i don't know how long you'd been seeing this woman but we all 'come out' of ourselves at different rates. and even if someone appears to be quite 'open' in the general scheme of things, it can take a long time for them to really trust or just to feel a need to get closer. if you cant enjoy the here and now (rather than the hear and now which is what we tell each other rather than the truth!), then your potential for a enjoyable future is limited. why do we put pressure on our feelings so early?
women are often guitly talking about it and harrasing their partners, but i find that men often seem to feel the same, but if a woman seems distant they assume she just wants sex and judge them for that- if they are fine with it they put the woman in that box- if they are not they look elsewhere for someone who will 'fall' for them quickly in the way they expect.
and it means we all miss out on the slowly evolving closeness that could come if we gave our sexual relationships the time we routinely give to new friendships...


Keda, you're so right... in fact, I did challenge her as to why she thought a few dates equated to a "relationship", when for me these things take time. Oh well...


Gravatar This is where women make a rod for their own back. "Making myself less available emotionally than she knew I could be." How does she know that? I don't know why people can't deal with the reality and the hear and now, instead of the 'potential'. You did the right thing though - many a guy wouldn't. Have a great weekend ! PS, you know that photo ID is fine for going to Dublin?!


IS IT??? AAAAGHHHH!!! (And thanks for the response the the CL connundrum, NML.


Gravatar very wise to not take up offers of rimming - personal preferencnce I know!


Yes. I'm funny like that.


Gravatar She sounds as if she was really in to you or she wouldn't have felt the need to point out that you were holding back.

It's a shame but I suppose you know the situation better than me. I'm merely an onlooker. Maybe something will come of this new interest?

Happy St Patrick's Day sweetie.


I think you might be right, Suze, but my heart wasn't in it. And who knows?

Have a lovely weekend.


Gravatar so now you look like everyone else does in their passport photo!

have a good time in dublin.


Do you expect me to believe that you look like a convict who's lost his razor on yours, Mez? Why do I doubt that?


Gravatar so no hot date for saturday?
that's a pisser.

and another pisser that your passport was stolen.

hope ya have a good weekend anyways!


Agree on both counts, Kimmy. Thanks, and you too.


Gravatar now we're talking,..

but you know your a copy cat...

trying to take mondays and all LOL


Heather, it's not like I keep popping back to your blog or anything... And anyway, Mondays generally need livening up


Gravatar Feeling tingly...sounds interesting to say the least.


Yes, it is interesting, to say the least


Gravatar Have a great weekend you too wdky.

You are too cute.


You're rather cute yourself, Anu!


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