Speak to me
Even when you are weary and down, there is a sense of optimism in you wdky.
I felt inspired reading this post for the outright honesty of feelings in it. Many things you just said it. No explanations and no justifications for your feelings.
Right now i am feeling low, i spoke to my exbf and the conversation is still lingerring in my mind. He has moved on and i'm trying still to come to terms with it.
I'm sorry you're feeling down, but actually you're an inspiration to me, Anu. Moods are transient... you'll feel better soon x
Love? Given up on it! Life's questions? Who know! Life happens and we're stuck dealing with it. If we try to control it, Murphy's Law kicks in and mucks it up. Go with the flow. Things will work out in the end. Good things come to those who wait. Blah, blah, blah. If I were a Scotch drinker I'd buy the next round. All I can offer is this: keep passing the open windows. {Hugz}
Thank you, Tallulah. But fuck Murphy!
Can you pour a scotch for me as well? I don't get too deep on my site but believe me I'm right with ya.
Cheers mate, I've got the next round.
I'm bloody sure it was your round then! Okay, it's a 12 year old malt, so don't swallow it too quickly 
Well, sometimes we just have to make choices, hope they are the right ones and suffer whatever consequence comes from them. I always say that "things" happen for a reason..so I'm saying this again to you. You're a strong man, WDKY, this too shall pass. Did I get enough cliche in there? lol
Yes, you did very well, actually 
There are so many times in my life when I feel heavy about things like this. Sometimes it's just overwhelming. I know how you feel. It's hard to watch the kids make decisions independently of you that are against any guidance that you may have given or put you as second priority. Sucks. As far as men coming in and out of my life. Christ, I've been divorced since 1986 if that tells you anything. I hope that it all works out to a place that your heart can manage...
Thank you, Gloria... much appreciated.
It's funny what we will do for "love". I was 17 ready to sign up to go into the Airforce and a man I was "in love" with, kept me from it. Needless to say him and I never made it.
W...sorry you had such a bad day but just think it is only one day. Things always get better.
Thanks darling x
Oh WDKY... days like that are awful. I'm sorry you had to have one. Your word picture of it, though, is clear and beautiful. And of course a little sad, as so many beautiful things are.
There's a certain romance about sad beauty, at least, Blue...
Wow. Bad day, huh. Sorry about that. I hope tomorrow is better. Such a well written post. I could feel your sadness...
Thanks Anna. I could feel it too.
Alcohol cures all problems!
You reckon?
Whose going to Oxford? You have a hot date Thursday? A is leaving to go back to NY? Who beat who with the lifes? She said do not worry or try....try to what?
So many unanswered questions....pass that ciggie cause I'm feelin like I need a smoke I'm so damn confused.
I can't believe A is leaving to go chase a girl...how old is he? Love...she can be the best thing to hit ya, but the next thing ya know-she's a cruel heartless bitch. I know her sister all too well...KARMA. She's a bitch too.
1. Me - a conference.
2. Correct.
3. Correct agagin.
4. CFG beat me (we were joking the other night about our "complications").
5. She meant try not to worry. She's French.
6. Nor can I. He's 19.
That was very funny, Kimmy. Oh... and that wasn't a ciggie
Sigh. Love? what's THAT?????
Come over here and I'll show you, Em
I could really relate to this post--I've had some days like this myself recently....
We've just got to tough it out, TJ... hope things are looking up, and I'll pop over to check what you're up to.
Sometimes those 'bangs on the head' can really send you spinning. I had to have a little laugh at your son heading back to NY for love...sometimes I forget how wonderful it is to just 'do' without thinking.
His father's son, NWC? I think my head's starting to spin, actually.
No smart arsery today just {{{hugs}}}
You're such a sweetheart x
Hon, I gotta tell you... I read this, and all I could think is "Well...PIDDLE!" ***HUGS***
I agree... piddle! Thanks Dark.
that quote, wow, perfect, however, I believe we do tend to make some decisions along the way that directly affect our destiny...
what's troubling is when we don't...
but should...
yeah...
Errmmm... yes.
Just when you think you've found a straight piece of road that you can accelerate on, along comes a big fucking bend and sends you skidding round in circles.
Take a deep breath, and steer into the curve - things will work out fine. *Hugs* xx
That's just how it feels. Thanks K x
*gives you a big hug*
I enjoyed that
About A, I'm at a loss of words... What a spur of the moment and life altering decision to make.
CFG... *sigh* As I said already, I only hope the best for you babe...
You always say such kind and sage things for me but I find myself flailing at saying something comforting to you. I wish I could just embrace you T. xx
Thanks Ruthie. I hope the odd comment I leave is of some relevance or use.
I sometimes feel like this. It seems that everything is moving on and I'm here, static and unable to change anything.
You just have to sit wait and hope. It's times like those I wish I still smoked. No I don't, yes I do...
I'm having one now
Harsh. One of my friends did that once (left London after literally two days because he loved someone)... and it was a mistake. I hope A fares better. It's a huge burden for the other person to bear, knowing that someone gave up a life to be with you.
And CFG... well, maybe it's time for you to move to France..?
Well, it seems to be a mutual decision on both their parts... who knows? But, even if France were to France appeal, I could never leave my babies. Anyway, we hardly know each other as yet...
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